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MALLICK, Paula Marie (Telesca)

Paula Marie (Telesca) Mallick, 65, passed away peacefully on Friday, (June 14, 2013) following an illness. Paula was a longtime resident of Wethersfield, and Newington, and was born on Oct. 30, 1947 in Hartford to both the late Alice (Ponton) and Paul Telesca, both of Wethersfield. Paula was a graduate of Wethersfield High School, class of 1966, and attended the University of Hartford and later Albertus Magnus College and Yale University. Paula worked as the chapter director of the American Red Cross in New Haven before retiring to Celebration, FL. Paula was known for her sense of humor, sense of style and fashion, and her love for her family. She loved interior decorating and making her surroundings beautiful. Most importantly, she was a devoted wife, mother, and friend who will be greatly missed. Paula is survived by her husband of 45 years, Fran Mallick; daughter, Debbie (Mallick) Manente and her husband Sylvestro Manente Jr.; her son, Todd Mallick; her brother and sister-in-law Rick and Karen Telesca, and niece and nephew Heather Morgan and Ricky Telesca; along with many cousins.
A memorial mass will be held at Holy Spirit Church at 183 Church Street in Newington, CT on July 3, at 10 a.m., followed by a reception. In memory of Paula Mallick, donations can be made to the American Red Cross and may be sent to American Red Cross Donations Center, 1 Plymouth Place, Milford, CT 06460.

Published by Hartford Courant on Jun. 23, 2013.
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Debbie and Fran,
I still think of your mom and miss her.
She was a gift.

Christine M

June 17, 2023

To the Mallick family, my condolences and shared sadness for the loss of your very beautiful and lovely wife and mother.

vincent palmisano

October 23, 2016

It's been three years and time has gone by so fast. The first year, I cried every day, the second year - less crying, and the third year - it's reality now and we all have learned to cope. But no matter what, Mom, the void that is left will never be filled and I will never forget you. I love you and miss you so much. On the anniversary of you passing away, I leave this message for the world to see so no one ever forgets you!!!

Debbie

June 14, 2016

Remembering you on your favorite family holiday.

I love you mom.
:D

Todd Mallick

December 21, 2015

Dear Fran, Deb and Todd,
You and Paula are in our thoughts. Our years with the Hartford Knights, will always remain very special years filled with football and the birth of our beautiful babies.

Donna and Tom Rowland

June 23, 2015

Paula was a friend, big sister and a mentor who, along with my wonderful parents, helped me become who I am today. Confidence, communication, poise and even modeling skills are only a handful of qualities she so gracefully instilled in me. The friendship she and my Mom shared, I have not seen or experienced since. As neighbors, our doors were always open for each other. An inspiration I strive for with my neighbors here. Really, how often do you find two families that live next door in one neighborhood, relocate as neighbors in a new neighborhood ...

Denise Koeppen

June 22, 2015

Paula, thank you for the great kindness and affection you first showed me some 20 years ago. The world is dimmer without your light in it and I am sorry for our loss.

Debbie asked me for a memory of you. How about the week we first met? Debbie was working so you, Fran and I piled into your car and drove down to Groton so I could see where they built the naval submarines. I remember we stopped for Dairy Queen along the way. It was the first time I had tried Butterscotch-dipped vanilla, a treat that still brings you to mind to this day.

Another memory, years later, when you came down to Orlando to look at buying some property. We spent much of that week together in the Theme Parks (meeting Bear in the Big Blue House!) and checking out the tourist shops. It was in the back of one of the shops at Old Town Kissimmee that you let me know that you considered me part of your family. Our lives may have taken different turns than we expected, but you never changed your mind about that.

Again, thank you for being part of my life and my memories. I miss you and wish your spirit well.

Ian Sweetman

June 21, 2015

May the soul of your mother rest in eternal peace in heaven. I'm very sorry for your loss Debbie.

Stephen Lawrence

June 18, 2015

Mom, it's been two years since you passed and a day doesn't go by where I don't think of you. I miss you tremendously!! I miss our talks and how you always listened when I needed someone to talk to. No one will ever take the place of you mom. I will love you forever.

Debbie Manente

June 18, 2015

I miss you mom!! We ALL miss you.

Debbie

July 26, 2013

HI Debbie,

I hope you find some peace and comfort as the days go on I am very sorry to hear the loss of your mom, may she rest in peace. Sisterly GSS Forever. Patty

Patricia Bruhn

July 2, 2013

Dear Fran, Debbie, and Todd'
I was so saddened and shocked to learn of Paula's passing.

Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers and know that your memories of a great mom and a wonderful wife will help you through this very sad time.

I will remember always the good times we shared in the past. I will be there with you in spirit.

Mary Jean Adamick

July 2, 2013

Debbie, Todd and Fran,
I am so sorry about Paula's untimely passing. I have such great memories of her smile and humor. She was always so fun to be around and always put in a good word with my Mom (in my favor) while I was growing up. (wink) I wish you all continued strength and wish I could be there to attend the service. Love, Chrissy(Adamick) Germain

July 2, 2013

Was out of the country when received news of Paula,s passing. I am so sorry and would like to extend my sympathies to family and friends. Always remember her contagious smile.

Elaine (Moore) Jaynes

July 2, 2013

Fran, Debbie & Todd. Our deepest sympathies on the passing of Debbie. It was a shock to read of her passing. May the happiest of memories help you get through this sad time. God in heaven now has another beautiful angel to watch over each & every one of you. Our love to all.

Pat & Dave Pruett

July 1, 2013

Rick and family: Was truly shocked and sorry to read of Paula's passing. We had some crazy laughs during our early teenage years and with your mother and father as well. Just remembering those carefree days with much fondness. Our condolences from the rest of the RINI family...Carol, Donna and Matt

Carol Skarzynski

July 1, 2013

Dear Fran, Debbie and Todd, Our deepest sympathy goes to all of you in the passing of Paula. Paula and I go way back as friends in the Knights. She was a great friend and I will always remember the good times we had. She is in our prayers. Betty and Roger Jacko

July 1, 2013

The tough times will pass.

Raymond Grogan

June 30, 2013

Paula was a very close friend and neighbor of mine for years. We grew up in Wethersfield, CT and were in many of the same classes throughout grammar and high school.

I remember hanging out at her house, in her pink bedroom, playing "records" like The Four Seasons, etc., as Paula had the latest hits. At that time, we were avid fans of American Bandstand (with Dick Clark) and would spend hours in her room styling our hair and makeup to look like the "older" girls on the show!

The last time I saw Paula was at one of our high school reunions. She looked lovely...had remained slim and trim. Of course we reminisced about our childhood and had many laughs.

She also called me after her father passed and we had a nice, long talk.

Paula was a good soul who had a wry sense of humor. Whenever I think of her, a smile comes across my face.

My deepest sympathy goes out to her loving family and all of her friends.

RIP, Paula.

Barbara Rini Corcoran

June 29, 2013

Deb....my deepest condolences to you and your family. Keep the beautiful memories close to your heart always.

Sharon Kaminsky

June 28, 2013

Fran, Todd and Debbie,

We are truly saddened to hear about Paula's passing. Our deepest sympathy and prayers go out to all of you. If there is anything at all we can do, please do not hesitate to call upon us.

Steve & Allison Adams
(upstairs neighbors)

June 25, 2013

lorrie mclaughlin

June 24, 2013

my deepest condolences to the family

lorrie mclaughlin

June 24, 2013

My deepest sympathy and prayers to your family.

Michael Truhan

June 24, 2013

My sympathy and thoughts are with you and your family

Diane Campbell

June 24, 2013

Fran, Debbie and Todd,
I am deeply saddened by the loss of my sister. I know that she loved you all very much. Her spirit is strong and know that she will always be with you. I am very sorry for your loss.
Uncle Rick

June 24, 2013

my heartfelt sorrow for your loss, celebrate a life well lived, and cherish those memories forever.

Silvestro Manente Sr.

June 24, 2013

Our deepest sympathy and prayers for strength to see you through this difficult time.

Es and Peg Vetter

June 24, 2013

So very sorry for your loss. We will treasure the time we spent together in NY & visiting last year. Love and prayers to all of you.
Tom and Diane Mallick

June 23, 2013

Fran, Debbie and Todd,
My prayers are with all of you. I will never know anyone so generous, loving and caring as Paula Mallick. As our families grew side by side together in Newington, Paula was a teacher, a mentor, a friend who was always there to listen. I will remember her always.

Denise (Palmisano) Koeppen

June 23, 2013

My deepest sympathy to the family, friends, and others who knew this loving
girl, as I remember her, Weth.High School, god bless you, for you!

Jimmie DeJohn

June 23, 2013

Dear Fran, Debbie and Todd:
I am happy that I had an opportunity to talk with Paula in January. We talked and talked about all of the wonderful times during the Hartford Knights Football years, having our babies and our mom and baby play dates way before the term "play dates" came into being. Paula was beautiful on the inside as well as on the outside. Fran, you, your family and Paula will be in our thoughts and prayers.
With our Love,
Donna and Tom Rowland

June 23, 2013

I remeber your smile the day I asked you and Fran if I could marry your daughter. I remeber how much your smile grew when I ask if you would be there when I popped the question. I wish we had more time, but I will spend the rest of my life loving Debbie, and remebering you with love. RIP Paula. You are Loved and Missed..

Silvestro Manente Jr

June 23, 2013

Dear, You don' know how hard life is without you. We still had so much to do.I will never forget all the fun times we had. You will always be remembered.
Love Fran (husband)

June 23, 2013

I love you mom.

Todd Mallick

June 23, 2013

Mom I miss you so much. You were the perfect mother. Things will never be the same without you. You were the glue that held us all together. I pray that you have eternal peace, and that you can feel our love even still.

With love ALWAYS,
Todd Mallick

June 23, 2013

Mom, words don't explain how much we miss you!!!! We will always remember you and cherish all the good times.

Debbie Manente

June 23, 2013

Fran,
Sincere condolences to you,
and your family.

Brian Skehan - NPD

June 23, 2013

Fran, Debbie and Todd,
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Paula's passing. Our families were close for many years as neighbors and friends. Wise and beautiful, creative and artistic, always supportive and encouraging. She will always have a place in my heart.
Christine (Palmisano) Mills

June 23, 2013

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