Ednalou Croft (Macloskey) Ballard, 72, wife of Norman D. Ballard of Farmington, CT, passed on; Friday, February 28, 2014 at St. Mary's Hospice in Waterbury, CT; after a long and valiant struggle with cancer. Ednalou was one of three children born to Louis & Virginia Macloskey in Philadelphia, PA on January 3, 1942. Ednalou, a graduate of Temple University, was a well-respected CFP & RFC. A pioneer of women in the financial service industry. An accomplished writer, speaker and columnist. She served as President & Chairperson of the International Association of Financial Planners, Inc., CT Chapter. In 1980, Ednalou launched her own firm, Financial Planning Centre, Inc., currently known as Ballard Associates, a joint venture with her husband. An active Rotarian of 30 years and former President of the Farmington Rotary, Ednalou was a Paul Harris Fellow Award recipient. Her list of accolades and awards would fill the page, chosen by The Farmington Historical Society to receive an award Honoring Farmington Women. She was a devoted member of the First Church of Christ Congregational 1652 of Farmington and passionately sang in their choir. Ednalou was an exquisite gardener, tending her English garden like a canvas, painting her favorite place to entertain with family and friends. Her historical home and garden was a noted stop on the Farmington Historical Society Garden Tour. Another passion was skiing every Friday during the winter months with friends. Ednalou was usually seen surrounded by her loving and eclectic girlfriends referred to as "The Bad Girls" (Doing Good), they experienced life to its fullest while raising funds for charitable causes. Other than her husband, Norman, she is survived by her daughter Sandra Ballard of Unionville, CT, a son Scott Ballard (wife, Lynda) of Devon, England, a brother Louis Macloskey (wife Judy) of Palm Beach Gardens, FL, a sister in law Claudia Mueller (husband Leonard), of Huntington Beach, CA, a brother in law Steven Ballard (wife Marlene) of Reno, NV. Grandchildren: Kenneth S. Silva of Farmington, CT, Steven B. Torres (wife Erica) of Lowell, MA, Chelsea Edwards of Unionville, CT, Lily & Takara Ballard of Devon, England. Nieces: Rev. Juliann Whipple (adopted daughter, considered Auntie Edna), Renee Post & Monique Heinz. Nephews: Geoffrey Pugh, Willard Pugh. Grandnieces: Tyler & Jordin Post, Rylen & Camden Heinz, Willow, Chloe & Alexis Pugh. Grandnephews: William Whipple, Adam & Jonathan Pugh all of FL. And last, but not least, her beloved Pekingese, Bowtie. On March 22nd, 2014 at 10am, a memorial service in Celebration of Ednalou's life will be held at The First Church of Christ Congregational on 75 Main St., Farmington, CT. A reception will follow in the Porter Memorial (adjacent to the church). In lieu of flowers, the family has requested donations to Ednalou's favorite charity, The Hope Day School in Sierra Leone, through The First Church of Christ Congregational. First Church 1652 75 Main St. Farmington, CT 06032 (860) 677-2601 Make check to: Hope Day School
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Norm, Carol and I are vacationing in Naples, FL through March. I just learned of Ednalou's passing and wanted you to know our thoughts are with you and family. Ednalou was a remarkable person who contributed significantly to the Farmington community. She will indeed be missed. George Reider
George Reider
March 24, 2014
EdnaLou: We were so young when you and Norman moved to Farmington -- so many years -- upbeat/upbeat attitude -- trail blazer professionally -- a Super Woman!! truly!! there was nothing you would not try!! Financial planning ala those wonderful dinner parties!! Sking @ Sundown!! Capricorns are "people collectors" -- they surround themselves with one of each!! -- there was NO ONE you could not charm, teach, coach, exchange a smile/positive infectuous amazing, amazing "can do" attitude -- that smile lit up many many a heart!! that wonderful laugh -- and all those unsaid words when the best of us would "loose our cool" -- you: the consummate diplomat!! Oh EdnaLou: I have been in Manhattan since 1991 -- separated by that many years -- but ah, I remember you so well and as I read through all your messages -- I realize you got better and better -- as you shareed your heart filled with joy!! love!! passion!! -- Bunches and bunches of hugs to Norman and the large extended famly - Farmington Valley IS A BETTER places for all the gifts you bestowed!!
xoxoxox
Bonnie Manter
Manhattan
March 17, 2014
In loving memory of a wonderful person. Edna Lou will be missed by all who knew her. My love and prayers go out to all.
Anne Marie Bussolini
March 16, 2014
Juliann Whipple
March 14, 2014
Juliann Whipple
March 14, 2014
"Birth is the miracle of love and courage bringing light into the world. Death is a loss of light but no less and act of courage." (LGH) We all join our hearts in gratitude for the simple pleasures smiles and laughter you have brought into to our lives.
Angel Simmons
March 11, 2014
Deepest sympathy to Norman, her family, and legion of friends. As a client, I viewed her as the epitome of elegance, class, and all things good.
Raymond C."Bud" Hildreth, Tampa FL
Raymond Hildreth
March 11, 2014
A woman who brought light and laughter to so many in life, her light will shine forever in eternity.
Debbie Tosun Kilday
March 11, 2014
Monique Heinz
March 10, 2014
Monique Heinz
March 10, 2014
Our deepest sympathy to all those who knew and loved Ednalou. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Sincerely, Ronnie & Julie Dunderdale
March 10, 2014
I wasn't ever much a fan of going to church, but Ednalou, you were one of the few reasons I kept going. Thank you for all that you've done- You never know who you impact, but know that you have, and in great ways.
Lexi V
March 10, 2014
Sandra Ballard
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Sandra Ballard
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I once lit a candle in a church on the side of a mountain in Sedona for my brother Steve, if I were there I would light another for you. I miss you beyond words.
Sandra Ballard
March 9, 2014
You were the best of the best. I will miss you.
Love to all the family
Irene Engel
March 9, 2014
You were the best of the best, I will miss you very much
Love to all your family
Irene Engel
March 9, 2014
She was loved by all who knew her . so much fun to be with .
claudia Mueller
March 9, 2014
Sandra Ballard
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Sandra Ballard
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Sandra Ballard
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Sandra Ballard
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Sandra Ballard
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Sandra Ballard
March 9, 2014
Such nice things and words come quickly in remembering Ednalou. Bright,fun,thoughtful and caring are just a few.
Condolences to Norman and Family who cared so much throughout her ordeal.
We wish you strength from friendships that are real.
God Bless
Peter and Nancy Walker
March 9, 2014
I've never known anyone with a more upbeat attitude than Ednalou. She was a remarkable woman and her attitude toward life was a true inspiration - she always had a smile on her face and a kind word, regardless of hardships she was facing at the time. She will be missed by so many. My heartfelt sympathies to Norm and all of Ednalou's family.
Betsy Fox
March 7, 2014
This extraordinary woman left an amazing and energetic impact on every life she touched. I am deeply saddened for our-your loss. I LOVE you Edna Lou, Thank you for many years of happy memories & showing me how fun life can be...
~ Dennis Schleicher
"An Honorary Bad Girl"
Dennis Schleicher
March 7, 2014
Ednalou's positive presence and vibrant personality will be missed tremendously among her peers. We honor her for all she has done for the financial planning industry in CT, and for her contributions to the IAFP (now the FPA, Financial Planning Assn. of CT Valley). Our prayers to her entire family.
Jaclyn Farnham
March 7, 2014
Ednalou was truly a trailblazer and in so many ways. She led the way for women - both clients and advisors - in the early days of the financial planning profession and we who benefited from her efforts owe her our unending gratitude. My deepest sympathies to her family, friends and our shared professional colleagues.
Nancy Fellinger
March 7, 2014
Whatever you were doing, if Ednalou was there it was a fun time. We lost a good one. Ednalou we will miss you...
March 7, 2014
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