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Joseph Pagano Obituary
PAGANO, Joseph Sebastian, Jr. Joseph Sebastian Pagano, Jr., 52, of Sisk St., Middletown, beloved husband of 23 years to Linda (Gaudino) Pagano, died suddenly, Friday, (November 3, 2006) at Middlesex Hospital. He was born in Middletown, the son of Joseph S. Pagano, Sr. of Middletown and the late Mary Ann (Novak) Pagano. He was a graduate of Xavier High School, Class of 1973, and attended Middlesex Community College and later Central Connecticut State University. Joseph was a firefighter with the Middletown Fire Department for 28 years and held the rank of Captain for the past seven years, and was past President and on the Executive Board of Local 1073 Fire Fighters Union. He was a member of the Middletown Fire Department Honor Guard, the International Association of Firefighters, B.P.O. Elks Lodge #771, Knights of Columbus, 3rd Degree, and a member of the C.I.A.C. Board of Approved Umpires, Middletown Chapter for which he wore # 16. Besides his wife and father, he is survived by two daughters, Justine and Marlise Pagano, both of Middletown; two brothers, James Pagano of Middletown, and John Pagano of Higganum; a sister, JoyAnn Pagano of Middletown; mother-in-law and father-in-law, Josephine and Salvatore Gaudino; and several nieces and nephews. The Funeral Liturgy will be held Thursday at 10 a.m. at St. Pius X Church, Westfield St., Middletown. Burial will be in St. Sebastian Cemetery, Middlefield Friends may call at the Biega Funeral Home, 3 Silver St., Middletown, Wednesday from 5-8 p.m. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Justine and Marlise Pagano Educational Fund, c/o MiddConn Municipal Credit Union, 213 Court St., Suite 101, Middletown, CT 06457.
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Memories and Condolences
for Joseph Pagano
Terry Wendy O'Rourke
November 2, 2007
Joe Wendy and I miss you the sun shines on your resting area and we know you are watching over your friends and family Rest in peace
Mike Osiecki
October 31, 2007
Joe, our New York Giants are doing good so far this year, miss your firm handshake, as well as your strong believes. God Bless you brother...
Joe Scionti
November 14, 2006
Linda (and the girls), Joe Sr,Jimmy, Joy and Johnny
I can't believe I'm writing this note to you because I'm in shock and thoroughly saddened. I was out of town on assignment when I got word about Joe's passing - it truly made me stop and pause in disbelief. I almost immediately pictured the last time I saw Joe with that smile of his and that strong handshake. It's been 14 years since we've moved to Pittsburgh and on the rare occasion that I'd see Joe in Middletown it was like we didn't miss a beat. I'll never forget those times.
I used to love going down to Old Lyme at our cottage always enjoyed visiting the Pagano cottage with all of you - those were great memories from years ago - that's how I'll remember Joe - fondly - like those beach trips in the summer. Alot of laughs and alot of fun.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you all
With Sincerest Sympathy
Joe and Jayne Scionti
Tina Marie Ebert
November 12, 2006
Pagano Family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at the difficult time. YOur husband and father may be physically gone, but in your hearts he is still there loving you.
The Ebert Family, Tina, Earl, Beth and Isaac
Steve LaRosa
November 11, 2006
I want to share this with everyone. This week we laid to rest my friend, our colleague,and a great family man. All of our hearts will never be the same. We all grieve this loss in a special way. On friday morning I returned to work. Arriving at Joe's station (Station 2) I witnessed many faces who came together to honor his life. The emotions became overwhelming for me. I began to tear, and feel a great loss. As I went closer to the doors, a sense of calm came over me. I recalled the first day I walked through that door in 1983. My first day on the job. Joe met me with a smile, because we knew one another before that day. His smile and demeanor was what we all have witnessed countless times. He put his arm around me and said "Dont worry buddy, this is a great job, you'll be fine". He then walked me to the Chief's office. After spending a few moments with Chief Riordan, Joe was tasked by Deputy Chief Scranton with showing me the ropes. We went into the bathroom area, and he handed me cleaning supplies. He looked at me and said..."ok, enough of the nice "stuff"...clean the toilets. He laughed and at that moment I had my first "Joe" story.
As I walked through that door friday, I recalled that day. A smile returned to my face, and lifted my spirit. Joe stayed with me all day, making sure we all knew it was ok. His life touched us in a lot of ways. His death leads us to great memories, and better days.
To Linda, the girls, Joe Sr., Jimmy, Joy, and Johnny, his love will always lift your hearts.
Till we meet again my friend, keep those gates open, we have more work to do!
Bill & Carol Petras
November 11, 2006
To the Pagano and Gaudino Families;
Bill & I were sadden to hear of Joes death.Our prayers are with you all at this time.
Scott Wilkos
November 10, 2006
My condolences to the entire Pagano family. Joe was my Lieutenant prior to retiring in 1996 and unfortunately I found out about this tragedy too late to make plans to return to Connecticut in time. My thoughts are with you and your family during this time of loss.
Cathy (Collins) Hodgkinson
November 10, 2006
Linda,
It's me, Cathy Collins(now Hodgkinson) from good old American National Bank...We spent many years working together, shared many laughs with the other girls. Even though I haven't seen you in many years, the news of Joe's passing has left me with a heavy heart as I'm thinking of you, Marlise and Justine(both of whom I both knew as babies). My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to you and the girls.I know that nothing must be making sense at this time. Don't even try to rationalize it now...when it all seems to be too much, just remember to reach out to everyone who loves you. Miss your friendship....Love, Cathy
Jodi Sciacca
November 10, 2006
To the Pagano family,
I know we have not yet met but I want you to know that my son Matt speaks very highly of you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss and I hope that the thoughts and prayers of so many will be some comfort to you in the days and weeks to come.
Len and Deb Messina
November 10, 2006
Linda,daughters,Jim,Joy,John,Big Joe, all family + friends,
...In our youth Joe was my next door neighbor, cousin, and best friend.We walked to grammar school together,played football yearround,and drank sodas on the cement steps of the corner store next to the laundry mat.I was over Joe's house 40 years ago this month when I saw the Washington Redskins defeat his NY Giants 72-45 and became a 'Skins fan... When we graduated grammar school they gave us paper caps with a cotton string tassle. Joe signed mine "Your best friend". There are so many memories ... Joe and I were old school. We worked hard and enjoyed simple pleasures.We were community-minded,strong, Italian-Americans who tried our best to make our families proud. Joe was all those things and more... God must have really needed an excellent player to draft Joe now. He was probably the only one that could do the job. No words can really express the depth of our loss. On behalf of myself, Deb, and all those whose lives Joe touched,please accept our sympathy.
ashley
November 10, 2006
God Bless your whole family during this difficult time, for I do not know any of you, but will keep all of you and your passed love one in my prayers.
Jeffrey Artikes
November 10, 2006
To the Pagano Family:
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have known and worked along side Joe for many years.He was the ultimate professional.My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ed & Carrie Socha
November 10, 2006
Linda and family
My heart was sadden today when my step-daughter called Carrie and I to tell us of your loss. We are in Arizona and if we were in Middletown we would have been there with you. I will always remember Joe's joyful laught. We had firefighting, the Elks, and GIANTS incommon and he will truly be missed. Our prayers are with you and the family. Ed and Carrie Socha
Sheri Amato
November 9, 2006
Marlise, I am so sorry for you and your family. Please know that my thoughts are prayers are with you today and in the tough days to come. Sheri Amato (Eric's Mom)
Liz Kieffer
November 9, 2006
Joy and Pagano Family - My deepest sympathy to you and your family. My thoughts and prayer are with you. May God give you the strength and peace during this time.
Tommy, Linda & Colin Frayne
November 9, 2006
Linda,
I don't think that we've ever met. I've known Joe for about 25 years. We palyed alot of softball for the local bars in town. His intensity on the field was unsurpassed. We never had to worry what Joe was thinking. Just a real good guy and friend.
You and the girls are in our prayers.
Shaun and Nancy Cashman
November 8, 2006
...sometimes when one person is missing, the whole world seems depopulated...
Gary O'Dell
November 7, 2006
Linda,
We have never met, but I umpired with Joe on several occasions. Simply a lovely guy to have had the opportunity to know. Deeply sorry for our loss.
Donna (Blancato) Kozlakowski
November 6, 2006
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Don Maggiore
November 6, 2006
My deepest sympathies to the Pagano family..very sorry to hear about Joe. My thoughts are with you.
Don Maggiore
Dean Datre
November 6, 2006
My heartfealt sympathy and prayers go out to the entire Pagano family especially Linda and the children.
Joe always had a smile on his face and he always made me smile. I will remember him as someone who touched many lives in a positive way....including mine! He shall be missed.
Ted Herrmann
November 6, 2006
My deepest sympathies to the Pagano family. I remember Joe fondly from our days at Xavier and the few times we'd chat over the years. He was a great guy, always friendly and always glad to see you.
November 6, 2006
Linda, My deepest sympathy goes out to you, the girls, and your families. Even though I did'nt know Joe personally I've heard he was such a great guy. I know you from our younger days as St. Pius cheerleaders. I will keep you in our prayers, Colleen
Linda Cimmino
November 6, 2006
Linda & Family
We were so saddened to hear about Joe, I am so very lucky to have known him. Linda, my thoughts and prayers are with you!!
Glenn Morron
November 6, 2006
To the Pagano family, I cannot begin to express my sorrow for your loss. Joe is a great guy and will always have a special place in my heart. His concern for my brother when he served in Iraq never waivered. Although we serve the City in different Departments, it was always comforting to know Joe was on the scene and watching your back. My you rest in peace my friend!
John Montalbano
November 5, 2006
Dear Mrs. Pagano & Family-
I was shocked and saddened to learn of Joe's sudden and untimely death.
Joe was one of the most decent people I ever had the pleasure of knowing. Joe's passing is a loss to your family, to Middletown, and to everyone who knew him.
May God comfort you during this difficult time, and may He give you many fond memories of Joe.
On behalf of myself and the law firm of Dzialo, Pickett & Allen, please accept our condolences.
In deepest sympathy-
John Montalbano
Bill and Marty Dexter
November 5, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Joey is and always will be one of the "Good Guys".
terry orourke
November 5, 2006
To the Pagano family my thoughts and prayers are with you. i have had the privledge to know joe as a fellow classmate bother firefighter and most of all a true friend he will be missed by all. to linda and family words can not speak of your loss joe is looking down over you. take it o.d.a.t. terry and wendy orourke may god hold you in the psalm of his hand
John Robinson
November 5, 2006
Linda & Family,
So sorry to hear about Joe, may the good Lord be with you and the family at such a time as this.
David DiMauro
November 5, 2006
Jim, so sorry for your loss. Please accept my sympathies. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Denis Kacy
November 5, 2006
I had the pleasure of associating
with a very kind man.I will miss not seeing Joe at fire scenes,but
his memory will live on.My deepest
sympathy to Joe's family,and to a
man that will be at fire scenes in
spirit.Thank you Joe.
Asst. Chief MVFD Daniel Wheeler
November 5, 2006
Rest in peace Brother
Michael osiecki
November 5, 2006
I was so lucky to have known Joe, from the time I was 12 when we worked for Duke and did the cleaning of the offices to later haveing the honor to work with him as a fire fighter Joe always hand a firm handshake when you ran into him. I will miss him very much and my thoughts are with his family. May god bless you Joe and your family until we meet again.
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