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Dorothy Cembrano Jay

Dorothy Cembrano Jay obituary, East Windsor, CT

Dorothy Jay Obituary

Dorothy Jay, age 92, of the Residence at South Windsor Farms and longtime resident of East Windsor, passed away on April 20th from Covid-19 complications. Dottie was the widow of Alfred Stanley Jay who passed away in 2014. Dottie was born and raised in Glastonbury, and spoke often about what a wonderful place Glastonbury was while growing up in the 30's 40's, and 50's. She was equally proud of her Italian heritage and being part of the first generation of Italian-Americans who emigrated from northern Italy and settled in South Glastonbury. Her parents; Davide and Angelina Cembrano of Moneglia, Province of Liguria, Italy arrived in America in 1914. She learned the value of hard work, dedication and education from her parents and subsequently instilled in her four sons. Dottie enjoyed a wide range of activities such as dancing, bicycling, painting, sewing and camping with Fred all over the East Coast and particularly the beach at Hammonasett. She was a loyal friend and very supportive mother to her sons and grandchildren. Dottie is survived by her sons Leonard and his wife Susan of Manchester, Eric and his wife Susan of Groton, Brian and his wife Nicola of East Windsor and Gene and his wife Betsy of Strafford, New Hampshire. Ten grandchildren; Robert, Eric, David, Daniel, Andrew, Christopher, Becky and Elizabeth Jay, Erin Weinzimmer, and Amy Sperrazza. Eight great grandchildren; Joseph, Nathan, George and Mason Jay, Jack and Beck Weinzimmer, Sophie and William Sperrazza. She is also survived by her nieces Ann Brown of West Hartford, Nancy Monte of Texas, Karen Jay of California, nephew John King of West Hartford and many cousins and extended famiglia in Italy. In addition to Fred and her parents, she was predeceased by her sister Adelaide King, brother John, nephew David King and niece Mary King. In light of the current Covid-19 protocols services and burial will be private.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Apr. 26, 2020.

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Jenna Clato-Day

June 12, 2020

While working at the Residence at South Windsor Farms, I had the pleasure of spending time with and getting to know Dottie. There was never a dull moment around her, with her go with the flow mentality; she was always ready to bust a move when I needed a dance partner to help get the party started. I remember every time I visited her room we would end up talking about anything and everything and laughing so hard we teared up. I would always leave with some good advice like " Why wait? If you have something nice to say about someone just say it!" What a lovely soul and person to be around and I will miss her dearly. To the family, I am so sorry for your loss.

Nancy Monty

May 1, 2020

Aunt Dottie was an amazing, adventurous and active woman willing to try anything fun! I remember roller skating with her when I went to visit and drinking fish bowl sized margaritas when she and I went to Mexico. She loved her family most of all and will be dearly missed.

Claire Taylor

May 1, 2020

I knew Dottie from visits to the Residence and she was one of my favorite people. She always looked so elegant, and she always had a smile. I loved her laugh! My condolences to the family. She was a lovely person.

Barbara Sherman

April 26, 2020

How we enjoyed line dancing with Dottie - she was so smooth and it was fun to watch her. Always a smile. We hosted her and Fred at our homes here in Broad Brook and in Vermont and both were good company and friends. I will miss my visits with here.

Sandra Cloutier

April 26, 2020

We are so sorry to hear of Dotties passing. She was a very beautiful person. Her kindness was unmistakable like beauty overtaking us all. We could feel her live at each and every visit. My whole family has very fond memories of your mom. Our thoughts are with you.

Joan Maximino

April 26, 2020

To the Jay Family, with sympathy to you in the passing of your mother and grandmother. The Maximino Family

April 24, 2020

Gene and family so sorry for your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you. Daniel Szabo.

April 24, 2020

Gene and family so sorry for your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you. Daniel Szabo

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