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James Starkes Obituary

STARKES, James William James William Starkes, 67, of Coventry, passed away on Wednesday, (November 11, 2009) at his home with his patient and loving wife Carol Gene by his side. He was the son of the late John and Verna Starkes. Jim was raised in West Hartford and attended local schools before entering the Army to serve his country for three years in Japan. After the Army he moved to Coventry in 1967. In addition to his caring wife Carol, he leaves a loving son Edward and his wife Marguerite of Somers; two grandsons Edward Starkes Jr. of Somers and Scott Mills of Coventry; a granddaughter Ashley Mills of Coventry; a great granddaughter Alexa Grace of Somers. He also leaves to mourn his passing, his brother in law and close friend Gary Mills and his wife Janice of Mansfield Center; brother in law Paul Mills and his wife Mary of Coventry; brother in law David Mills of Coventry; two brothers John and Jeff; and two sisters June and Jane. In addition, he leaves two special friends George Lindinger of Coventry and David Mortlock of Coventry along with his pets Willow, Wren and Bobby; also his friendly neighborhood pets Buster, Remy, Baby, Mickey and Bijou. Jims pride and joy was his home on Coventry Lake. He will be missed on the water in his kayak where he spent many hours "catching some sun." Arrangements through Potter Funeral Home Willimantic. Services will be private and at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Vernon Visiting Nurses Association Hospice Care (who caringly assisted Jim to his final journey) 8 Keynote Dr. Vernon, CT 06066. For online memorial guestbook please visit www.potterfuneralhome.com

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Published by Hartford Courant on Nov. 12, 2009.

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November 16, 2009

Dear Carol -

We are all sending our deepest sympathy to you and your loved ones.

Jim was so very special to all of us and always brought us many happy moments and smiles when we were together. He was one in a million and will never be forgotten by any of us.

Wishing we could be with you at this time of great loss to help you through the days ahead offering comfort for today and hope for tomorrow.

Love always,
Aunt Lill, cousins Susan, Bill, Kathy & Ray

Carolyn Ressler

November 12, 2009

Dear Carol,

The proper words fail me right now. You know how much Jim meant to me, so you know what's in my heart. I am so thankful to God that He made me Jim's cousin, and am so privileged to have spent time with him since we were children, even though those visits over the years were always brief. You and your family are in my thoughts and my prayers. Peace and God's blessings to all of you. I'll be in touch soon.

Love,
Lynn

Hazel Sullivan

November 12, 2009

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

beth and david joyal

November 12, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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