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John O. Byrne

1945 - 2020

John Byrne Obituary

John O'Donovan Byrne, 75, of Hartford, CT and Bridgewater, NH, passed away on September 9, 2020. John was born on May 9,1945 and grew up in Larchmont, NY. He was the son of the late Audrey Speicher and William Deininger Byrne. John will be remembered and cherished by his wife of 52 years, Karen Byrne. He leaves a lasting and loving legacy to his daughter Catherine Deininger Byrne, his son-in-law, Edward (Ted) O'Brien and his two adored grandchildren, Audrey Grace O'Brien and John William O'Brien. John also leaves his oldest brother, William Byrne and his wife, Patricia, his dear sister-in-law, Geri and her husband, Michael Zuber, his sister-in-law, Mary Margaret Byrne and many neices, nephews, cousins and friends. John gradutated from the Hackley School in Terrytown, NY in 1964. He was drafted out of college into the US Army in 1967 and was stationed in Wurtzburg, Germany and Qui Non, Viet Nam. He received his Honorable Discharge from the army in 1970 holding the rank of Sargeant from the Third Army Infantry Division. John graduated from American International College in 1973. John worked at the Connecticut Bank and Trust Company in their Municpal Bond and Trust Departments from 1972 to 1984. In 1984, he joined the Aetna to become Portfolio Manager/Trader for the Casualty Company and Outside Money. He retired from the Aetna in 2010 due his deteriorating health. John met all health challenges with strength and good humor. He made sure his family had a life filled with love and laughter. John will be remembered for his quick wit, his kindness, and his devotion to his loved ones; his love of music from Bach to Elton John, his loyalty to the NY Giants and the NY Mets, Bridge, Backgammon, Words with Friends, swimming in Newfound Lake, movies from the 1930's and 40's, crazy, wild socks and pink shirts. John was always grateful for the deep friendship he shared with Christopher Wackman, Timothy Holt and Lee Sherman. Special thanks must go to the two doctors who cared for and devoted so much time to John's health, Dr. Fredrick Knauft and Dr. James Pope and their staff. The Byrne Family also thanks the staff at Newfound Area Nurses Association of Bristol, NH who cared for John with dignity and loving care during his last difficult weeks. A Memorial Service will be held for Mr. Byrne at a time when it is safe to gather. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Alpha One Foundation, Ponce de Leon Blvd, Coral Gables, Fl, 33134 or NANA, (Newfound Area Nurses Association), 214 Lake Street, Bristol, NH, 03222.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Sep. 11, 2020.

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Chris

September 5, 2024

Hey Blam, missing you every day! Spoke with Cy yesterday and remembering the day we spent in VT with him at his very unorganized house. He's good and we spoke about our cruise from Boston to Montreal because he had asked how boat owners get their boats from their Vermont summer home on their beautiful long lake to Florida. Long story, but it lead me to our cruise story...I know, go figure eh? How's your golf game up there and have you found that perfect '57 Bird? If not, and while you're looking, see if there's a cherry TR-3 that might be around when I arrive. Love you Buddy!!! XOXOXOXOXOXO, Me

Chris and Nancy Wackman

September 5, 2022

It's so hard to believe that it's been nearly 2 years since we said good bye. I so enjoyed my time with you at the Veterans Cemetery in NH and Nancy and I think about you so often. We are so close to your lovely and wonderful Karen and Cath, Ted, Audy and Johnnie and enjoy every minute we are able to spend with them. Ted and I spend time very month or so talking about business...not nearly as often and important discussions as you and he had, but we love each other and I enjoy every moment of our opportunities to speak together. JOB, you and Karen created a wonderful family, not unlike the ones we were fortunate to create. Cath and David are still as close as they ever were and we're so thankful for their relationship. So Blam, I miss you every day and miss our opportunity to talk about NFL etc, etc. I've been betting $25 in a Loser's Pool for the last couple of years. Lost about halfway through last season. I must say last year I picked the Jets and the Giants to lose more often than not and so we're going to wait until Kar arrives two days from now to get her more than expert opinion as to who we should pick as losers as the season starts. I'm sure you know that the Broncos signed Russell Wilson to a long-term contract in the Spring, so I'm very excited about our prospects. I have loved him since he went to Wisconsin for a 5th year back in the day and almost led them to the Big 10 Championship. I assume you've heard that a number of Pac 10 Teams have matriculated to the Big 10 so It's a different Ball Game when that comes to pass. Pretty sure you're tired of reading now, but one last thing. Geno has signed on to Master Class and teaches a course on Leadership. I have been watching it because Peter has learned that he will become the Sales Manager of the AirStream Dealership he has been selling for the last almost 2 years. I want to share what Geno imparted to me about leadership with him. BTW, Emma has started every game for Grand Canyon University Women's Soccer this year and they are doing very well. Owen is on the Varsity Golf Team as a freshman for Cactus Shadows HS and has won every one of his matches. He's amazing and is shootings scratch golf. Know you would be proud of him and her.

I love you John Byrne and have since we first met. Keep all those heavenly folks in line...It won't be long before we see each other again and will drive the track in our sports cars forever!!! C & N

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Chris and Nancy Wackman

October 14, 2020

Our dear friend John and his wife Karen and family have been one of the brightest lights in our lives for the last 60 years. He fought the good fight for himself, his family and his long list of friends. We will miss him and will look forward to seeing him down the road where we will remember the good times.

June Hatfield

October 1, 2020

Wally and I will miss John so much.. his humor, kindness, and fun always made for a great time... and of course his socks! He was so fortunate to have such a loving family.

Andrew (De Rocco)

September 15, 2020

Karen and family: Please accept my condolences. John was, and remains loved, by those closest to him and
others among us who were gifted by his presence.

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Jennifer Schunder

September 11, 2020

Karen and Catherine I was saddened to hear of Mr. Byrnes passing. He always held a special place in my heart. I will continue routing on our New York Giants and always remember him, love Jennifer Schunder

M.P. Cote

September 11, 2020

The CBT Alumni Club extend our sincere sympathy and friendship to John’s extended family.

Robyn

September 11, 2020

Uncle John left a lasting legacy in all that he came in contact with.
Holding you all closer than ever. He will be greatly missed.

Jackie Lee

September 11, 2020

Hi Karen & Catherine,

John was one of my favorite people ever. He was always so upbeat. You were lucky to have him. The world is a little darker today without John in it. So sorry.

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