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Lois F. Seder

1931 - 2020

Lois F. Seder obituary, 1931-2020, West Hartford, CT

BORN

1931

DIED

2020

Lois Seder Obituary

Our beloved Lois Fisher Seder ("Loie") of Palm Desert, California, died in her home surrounded by her family on September 2, 2020, at the age of 88. Loie was born on October 26, 1931, in Worcester, Massachusetts, where she grew up with two younger brothers, Conrad and Philip. She graduated from Emerson College before embarking on her career as Joyce Lane on "The Joyce Lane Radio Show." Loie married the love of her life, Warren Jay Seder ("Dee"), on May 30, 1955. He passed away in December 2017, and we are comforted knowing that Loie and Dee are together again. They raised three daughters on Mohawk Drive in West Hartford, Connecticut, their home for 47 years. Loie managed the Mount Sinai Hospital gift shop on a volunteer basis, and she later helped launch the Stanley Kaplan Educational Center in West Hartford. A devoted wife, mom, grandma, and great-grandma, Loie cherished her family and friends. She was tender and fierce, gentle and strong, generous, whimsical, charming, funny, brave, wholehearted and opinionated. She loved book club, Tai Chi, Rachel Maddow, putting with the Niners, Prosecco and pumpernickel bagels. Loie is survived by her brother Philip; daughters Lauren, Elizabeth and Carol; grandchildren Caitlin, Jacob, Jenna, Taylor, Kyle, Cooper and Carter; great-grandson Leon; nieces and nephews; and dear friends. We're deeply grateful to Loie's loving caretakers, Maureen and Jenni. All of us will miss her so much. Loie was an ardent Democrat; in lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Biden/Harris campaign or to the campaign of any progressive Democratic candidate.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Sep. 9, 2020.

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Ka

September 3, 2023

Miss you forevermore

Kris Neft

September 12, 2020

Jerry and I knew Lois and Warren for 20 years as neighbors and never met 2 of the nicest people we know! They will be missed but glad she joined him!
She talked about her family with such pride and love!
Kris and Jerry Neft

Peggy Casmer

September 11, 2020

Recently moving on Sweet Pea I was very fortunate to have met Lois in the Tai Chi class. She was so sweet and nice to everyone in the class. She was my neighbor as well and when I saw her walking on the street I always stopped and spoke to her. Best to her family. She will be missed.

Carol

September 10, 2020

Love is eternal ❤ Forever and always Mama love you to the moon and back. Your mountains and sunsets will wrap you in their beauty. You are safe. You are peace. You are love. You are everything. ❤

Beth (Schnur) Lucyk

September 9, 2020

Your mom was so vibrant, energetic and beautiful. I will always remember her as a part of my childhood. As I do you❤

Karen Sorota

September 9, 2020

Always there in life - forever in my heart. An example of a life we should all exemplify. I know I will. I will miss you and know you are soaring with the angels.

Patsy Daly

September 9, 2020

What a beautiful picture of Lois in the Courant today and how sorry I was to see it. For several years we played golf three times a week along with Joanne Glanz at Wampanoag ( including 9/11) and had lunch after, so lots of talking and laughs. She loved her family dearly and we heard many stories about everyone. Lois and Warren were two great people and how fortunate you were to have them as parents.
Patsy Daly (Still at Wampanoag)

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