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2016

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Barbara Portonova Obituary



Barbara (Gordon) Portonova, 66, of Wethersfield, formerly of Rocky Hill, loving, devoted and inseparable wife of the late Frank J. Portonova, Sr., for 42 years, died peacefully, Saturday, July 9, 2016 at Hartford Hospital with her family by her bedside. She was born September 19, 1949 in Hartford and was the daughter of the late Thomas and Helen Gordon. Barbara worked with her late husband at their former business, Dinosaur Automotive in Rocky Hill for many years. She enjoyed going to the casino and the beach and was an amazing cook who was very devoted to her family. A loving mother, grandmother and genuine friend, Barbara will be dearly missed by her daughter, Trina M. Portonova and Gregory Nolan of Newington and son, Frank J. Portonova, Jr. and fiancée Midge A. Carlson of Wethersfield and her four adored grandchildren who were the light of her life, Frank J. Portonova, III, Alyssa N. Portonova, Anthony M. Portonova and Natalie Portonova-Nolan. She is also survived by two sisters, Kathy Sitaro and husband Frank of Wethersfield and Jayne Gordon-Dimanno of Hartford; two sisters-in-law, Olympia Antolini of Rocky Hill and Millie Phelps and husband Paul of Hartford, as well as many nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great-nephews and cousins, among them a special little girl who captured her heart, her great-niece Addi. She was predeceased by her brother-in-law, Anthony Portonova. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Saturday at 10 a.m. at Corpus Christi Church, 601 Silas Deane Hwy., Wethersfield. Everyone is asked to please go directly to the church. Calling hours will be Friday from 5-7 p.m. at the D'Esopo Funeral Chapel, 277 Folly Brook Blvd., Wethersfield. In lieu of flowers, donations in Barbara's memory may be made to the Frank J. Portonova, Sr. Memorial Fund, C/O Trina Portonova, 73 Robbins Ave., Newington, CT 06111. To share a memory of Barbara with her family, please visit www.desopo.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant from Jul. 12 to Jul. 13, 2016.

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Steve Papillo

December 11, 2017

Kathy, Jayne and extended families ... I recently became aware of Barbara's passing ... though I knew her for only a year or two, some years ago, I always thought very fondly of her ... my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Kevin Verre

July 19, 2016

Frank, My sincere condolences to you and your family.

Nancy Johnson

July 15, 2016

My deepest sympathies to you, Trina & Frankie. I have many fond memories of your mom. I know what you are feeling & going through as you know, I am here for both of you.

Nancy

Dorrie Volpe

July 14, 2016

Dear Portonova Family,
So sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved Mother,
May all the precious memories you hold dear to your hearts,
Help in the days ahead.
Love, Dorrie, John, Daniel and Rachel

Sal & Tonia Sardo

July 12, 2016

To the Portonova family,

We would like to extend our deepest condolences to Trina and Frank,so sorry
for your loss, her smile will forever be
remembered!!!!!Great lady!!!!

Michael and Carol SEDOR

July 12, 2016

No words can express our deepest condolences. Great mother,grandmother and friend. We will always keep you in our hearts.
Love you all

Elaine Scotece

July 12, 2016

Deepest sympathy during this difficult time.i remember she made a beautiful bride

July 12, 2016

Trina and Greg, our hearts are broken for you and your family. We wish all of you peace during this very difficult time. With deepest sympathy and love, Mark and Ellen

Pat Nelson

July 12, 2016

So sorry for your loss! My orayers to all!

D'Esopo Funeral Home

July 12, 2016

Our deepest condolences on your loss. The D’Esopo Family.

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