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Roger Lynn Crossgrove, Professor of Art Emeritus, painter and photographer, passed away peacefully at the age of 95, on December 14, 2016, in Storrs, CT. Roger was predeceased by his brother Dale, sister Ardyce, his former wife, Wynona, and a son, Cory. He is survived by his children; Chris and his wife Shoshana Levinson, Cathy, Carolyn, Camilla and Carl, and his grandchildren; Jeremy Crossgrove, Cathy Ross and her husband Curtis. Born in Farnam, Nebraska in 1921, Roger was raised on the family farm where his father ran a farming cooperative. Roger's mother, a self-taught artist, encouraged his interest in art. He served in the US Army as a Staff Sergeant, 73rd Field Hospital, in the Philippines from 1942 to 1946, receiving several medals including the Philippine Liberation Ribbon with 1 Bronze Star. Roger received his BFA from the University of Nebraska in 1949 and his MFA in 1951 from the University of Illinois at Champaign-Urbana. He lived and painted in Mexico for two years, first in 1950 on the GI Bill and again in 1965. Roger married Wynona McDermand in 1948. Moving to Brooklyn NY after college, he taught in the Pratt Department of Graphic Art and Illustration between 1950 and 1968 when he was recruited for the position of Department Head at the School of Fine Arts at the University of Connecticut in Storrs. He taught there until his retirement in 1988. Roger exhibited widely in group shows as well as solo shows; in Mexico City, Artworks Gallery in Hartford, The William Benton Museum, The Babbidge Library and The Slater Memorial Museum. He received numerous awards including an Emily Lowe award, a National Arts Club Gold Medal, and others from the American Watercolor Society, Audubon Artists, and the Butler Institute of American Art. He was a member of the Connecticut Academy of Fine Arts, Connecticut Watercolor Society, and a founding member of Artworks Gallery. He is listed in Who's Who in the East and Who's Who in American Art. He spent several summers in residency at Yaddo in Saratoga Springs, NY. Roger produced watercolor monotypes for more than fifty years. He participated in traveling exhibits of monotypes, and his work is referenced in anthologies of the technique. In 1976 Roger began to explore photography. Roger explored time exposure and penlight drawing, referencing classic sculpture, Muybridge motion studies and abstraction in his figurative work. Roger's instruction had a lasting influence on his students. He is beloved as teacher, mentor and friend by countless former students including Tomie DePaola, Robert Mapplethorpe, Joseph A. Smith, and Michael Maslin. Described as patient, supportive, firm, friendly, generous and cheerful, he is remembered for well-rounded foundational lessons, in a wide variety of idioms, as crucial preparation for fine art or illustration. Students recall his thoughtful and creative construction of still-life and lighting arrangements for studio classes. Roger was also an enthusiastic instructor of children's book illustration. He was a founding member of the American Book Collectors and of the Connecticut Children's Book Fair at UConn which ran for 24 years, and was a longtime supporter of the Northeast Children's Literature Collection at the Thomas J. Dodd Research Center, which received his extensive collection of children's books. Roger was honored by Connecticut's Poet Laureate, Marilyn Nelson, with her poem entitled "The Good Man" in 2002. He was the recipient of the UConn School of Fine Arts Lifetime Achievement Award in 2008. Roger Crossgrove had an even and patient temperament and a surprisingly stealthy sense of humor. He was constantly active in arranging and mounting art exhibits, attending art events, and visiting NYC galleries. He was an adventurer in art, with a fantastic sense of color, vibrant gesture, unusual subject matter and combinations of media. He retained his intellectual curiosity, acute esthetic awareness and appreciation of color and beauty to his final days. Roger's papers reside at the Smithsonian Institution's Archives of American Art. His photographic materials were donated to the Dodd Center at the University of Connecticut Library. The family wishes to thank the staff of the Mansfield Center for Nursing and Rehabilitation for their caring professionalism during Roger's final months. The family also wishes to thank caregiving staff from A Caring Hand, especially Kofi Serebour, for his years of caring attention to Roger in his home. A celebration of Roger's life will be announced at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations in Roger's memory may be made to the Uconn Libraries Exhibits Program (Fund #31122, c/o UConn Foundation, 2390 Alumni Drive U-3206, Storrs, CT 06269-3206), supporting the Roger Crossgrove Exhibit Series at the Homer Babbidge Library. Donations may also be made to Compassion And Choices: www.compassionandchoices.org/donate/

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Published by Hartford Courant from Dec. 19 to Dec. 20, 2016.

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Mentor and friend. Hired me in 1970 it looked after me those early years. G Gus Mazzocca

December 16, 2020

Mentor and friend. Hired me in 1970 it looked after me those early years. Grateful for Rogers friendship.

Russ Taylor

December 27, 2016

I read these words of remembrance of Roger Crossgrove as a fine, strong and gentle man. I see that Roger still lives in the personage of his son, Chris.

linda rae geer

December 27, 2016

Dear Camilla, Carolyn , Chris, Carl and Cathy, sincere sympathy. Your Dad was one of the finest people ,I have ever Known, so kind and soft spoken. I will surely miss him. I learned so much from him. He lived ,his life so fully and helped so many people along the way. love

December 23, 2016

From the time I first arrived on campus in 1979 Roger made me feel part of the faculty. He was a good friend, a dedicated artist and teacher. He will be fondly remembered by his colleagues and many former students.
Richard Thornton,
Poulsbo, Washington

Nevil Parker

December 22, 2016

Roger's face resides powerfully in all of his childrens' faces. I remember meeting him for the first time, as a little girl of 9 or 10 brought along to a party in Brooklyn, NY. I don't think Carl or Camilla had been born yet, or Camilla was a baby. At that time, I think, Roger and my father taught together at Pratt. I most remember what a true and steadfast friend Roger was to my father--Roger brought my father to the University of Connecticut after he left Parson's--and how genuinely my family was embraced by all of the Crossgroves. I remember a Halloween night while all the grownups were sitting talking, drawing butterflies with Camilla and Carl at a small table next to a larger circular one in the kitchen. I remember Wynona keeping watch over us, and I remember feeling, all at once, how unusual and good and safe this group of people, these Crossgroves, are. I remember sleepovers with Carolyn and listening to Chris's masterful piano playing. Two of Roger's monotypes hang in our house now, and there are photographs--of Camilla and Roger wearing Christmas ribbons on their heads (Roger almost always brought over a gorgeous poinsettia to my mother at Christmastime) and pictures of them in costume at parties. Roger and Wynona, both, are two of the most original people I have ever known, and their children follow in their footsteps. More than that, Roger was and is a deeply humane person whose life is a gift to the world and an example of a live well lived. I grieve for his family's loss and for my sense of his loss, but I celebrate the fact of his life, and thank whatever mystery there is in the world that brought him to us, as a teacher and as a friend and as a person: a real person.

Delia Aguilar

December 22, 2016

Dear Carl, Carolyn and family,
I have to look for Marilyn Wilson's poem "The God Man" because, even from a distance, that's how I viewed your father. His talents dazzled me--and his good looks, too--but I must find that poem.
How lucky we all are that he was around.
Love,
Delia

Gale Ennis

December 21, 2016

Camilla and Family,
Sending our most sincere condolences on the passing of your father. What an incredible life to have lead.
Ken and Gale Ennis and family

Kathryn Myers

December 20, 2016

When I first came to UConn in 84, Roger and Billy Parker shared a huge connecting office across from mine, it was whole amazing world to go in there as a green faculty member on my first real job. Roger's office was piled high with books and images, I'm not sure how he ever managed to move out. Things seem so sterile by comparison now. Roger was one of the kindest people I've ever met, I don't think he could have said a negative thing to a student if he tried, but student respected and admired him so and he had a subtle sense of humor. Later I often enjoyed seeing him at the community center getting his exercise. What a wonderful long life he had surrounded by loving family.

Marlys Hersey

December 20, 2016

Roger was an ebullient spirit. And so in love with life and beauty. I loved his understated chuckle when he was amused-- which happened frequently with Camilla and Carl nearby. And there are things in this obit about which I had no idea; what a great life. And what a remarkable batch of children he helped produce. Love to you all.

Sara Murdock LoPresti

December 20, 2016

Carl, Camilla, and family-

What a handsome photo of such a handsome soul!

How we all loved your dad, not just as a teacher, but as a kind, loving, warm-hearted gentleman. He had such a wonderful smile and slightly devilish chuckle. He loved his craft and so generously shared his talent and love with each of us fortunate enough to take classes with him.

Carl and Camilla, I especially remember with great fondness hanging out at Rog's house with both of you. Your dad never seemed to mind whatever the cat dragged in, kindly accepting us all to his house.

I am so sorry for your loss, yet so very grateful to have spent a small slice of his long and tremendous life with him and other wonderful Crossgroves.

Patty Cousins

December 20, 2016

Roger was one of the kindest people I ever met. Blessed to have sat in his classroom at UCONN. Rest in peace and teach the other angels how to paint. My condolances to his family and friends.
Patty Cousins

john & jacqui fawcett

December 20, 2016

When we first moved to Maine, Roger would come and visit every summer...we'll all miss him...john & Jacqui Fawcett

Matt and Mallarie Seidel

December 20, 2016

Camilla and family,

We are so sorry for the loss of your Dad. What a legacy he leaves behind. We will be thinking of you all.

Love,
Matt and Mallarie

Rich Moynihan

December 20, 2016

I feel so fortunate to have been among his students. Thank you.

Elaine Morganson

December 20, 2016

Camilla my thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss.

Josh Pawelek

December 19, 2016

Sending condolences to Roger's family and friends.

Sharyn $ Phil Mathews

December 19, 2016

To The Crossgrove family, our deepest sympathies on the loss of your family patriarch. May your memories bring much joy and comfort in this difficult time.

Gus Mazzocca

December 19, 2016

Sorry to learn of Rogers passing.
He was such an active force in the art scene for so very long beyond his retirement from UConn.
Roger hired me in 1970 and was a patient and encouraging mentor during my early years teaching.
Rogers passion for work was also very infective,as witnessed by so many us folks getting involved with monotype/monoprints.
Those were wonderful days of shared discovery and engagement with the master. Roger touched so many people in so many different arenas.
For me, he set a high level of acheivement of the good life as a gentleman and image maker.
My heartfelt condolences to the family. - Gus Mazzocca

December 19, 2016

Roger was not only my Mentor,but a dear friend,too.
I'll "carry" him around with me for my lifetime.
Tomie dePaola

Cathy Ross( Crossgrove)

December 19, 2016

The best grandfather a person could ask for ❤

Jonathan Childress

December 19, 2016

What a huge loss to Roger's family, friends, and former students. Roger was the best professor in the UConn Art Department. After I graduated from UConn, Roger became a mentor and friend. I sit and look at a photograph of Roger's hanging on the wall. Thank you, Roger. We love you. You will be missed.

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