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Mentor and friend. Hired me in 1970 it looked after me those early years. G Gus Mazzocca
December 16, 2020
Mentor and friend. Hired me in 1970 it looked after me those early years. Grateful for Rogers friendship.
Russ Taylor
December 27, 2016
I read these words of remembrance of Roger Crossgrove as a fine, strong and gentle man. I see that Roger still lives in the personage of his son, Chris.
linda rae geer
December 27, 2016
Dear Camilla, Carolyn , Chris, Carl and Cathy, sincere sympathy. Your Dad was one of the finest people ,I have ever Known, so kind and soft spoken. I will surely miss him. I learned so much from him. He lived ,his life so fully and helped so many people along the way. love
December 23, 2016
From the time I first arrived on campus in 1979 Roger made me feel part of the faculty. He was a good friend, a dedicated artist and teacher. He will be fondly remembered by his colleagues and many former students.
Richard Thornton,
Poulsbo, Washington
Nevil Parker
December 22, 2016
Roger's face resides powerfully in all of his childrens' faces. I remember meeting him for the first time, as a little girl of 9 or 10 brought along to a party in Brooklyn, NY. I don't think Carl or Camilla had been born yet, or Camilla was a baby. At that time, I think, Roger and my father taught together at Pratt. I most remember what a true and steadfast friend Roger was to my father--Roger brought my father to the University of Connecticut after he left Parson's--and how genuinely my family was embraced by all of the Crossgroves. I remember a Halloween night while all the grownups were sitting talking, drawing butterflies with Camilla and Carl at a small table next to a larger circular one in the kitchen. I remember Wynona keeping watch over us, and I remember feeling, all at once, how unusual and good and safe this group of people, these Crossgroves, are. I remember sleepovers with Carolyn and listening to Chris's masterful piano playing. Two of Roger's monotypes hang in our house now, and there are photographs--of Camilla and Roger wearing Christmas ribbons on their heads (Roger almost always brought over a gorgeous poinsettia to my mother at Christmastime) and pictures of them in costume at parties. Roger and Wynona, both, are two of the most original people I have ever known, and their children follow in their footsteps. More than that, Roger was and is a deeply humane person whose life is a gift to the world and an example of a live well lived. I grieve for his family's loss and for my sense of his loss, but I celebrate the fact of his life, and thank whatever mystery there is in the world that brought him to us, as a teacher and as a friend and as a person: a real person.
Delia Aguilar
December 22, 2016
Dear Carl, Carolyn and family,
I have to look for Marilyn Wilson's poem "The God Man" because, even from a distance, that's how I viewed your father. His talents dazzled me--and his good looks, too--but I must find that poem.
How lucky we all are that he was around.
Love,
Delia
Gale Ennis
December 21, 2016
Camilla and Family,
Sending our most sincere condolences on the passing of your father. What an incredible life to have lead.
Ken and Gale Ennis and family
Kathryn Myers
December 20, 2016
When I first came to UConn in 84, Roger and Billy Parker shared a huge connecting office across from mine, it was whole amazing world to go in there as a green faculty member on my first real job. Roger's office was piled high with books and images, I'm not sure how he ever managed to move out. Things seem so sterile by comparison now. Roger was one of the kindest people I've ever met, I don't think he could have said a negative thing to a student if he tried, but student respected and admired him so and he had a subtle sense of humor. Later I often enjoyed seeing him at the community center getting his exercise. What a wonderful long life he had surrounded by loving family.
Marlys Hersey
December 20, 2016
Roger was an ebullient spirit. And so in love with life and beauty. I loved his understated chuckle when he was amused-- which happened frequently with Camilla and Carl nearby. And there are things in this obit about which I had no idea; what a great life. And what a remarkable batch of children he helped produce. Love to you all.
Sara Murdock LoPresti
December 20, 2016
Carl, Camilla, and family-
What a handsome photo of such a handsome soul!
How we all loved your dad, not just as a teacher, but as a kind, loving, warm-hearted gentleman. He had such a wonderful smile and slightly devilish chuckle. He loved his craft and so generously shared his talent and love with each of us fortunate enough to take classes with him.
Carl and Camilla, I especially remember with great fondness hanging out at Rog's house with both of you. Your dad never seemed to mind whatever the cat dragged in, kindly accepting us all to his house.
I am so sorry for your loss, yet so very grateful to have spent a small slice of his long and tremendous life with him and other wonderful Crossgroves.
Patty Cousins
December 20, 2016
Roger was one of the kindest people I ever met. Blessed to have sat in his classroom at UCONN. Rest in peace and teach the other angels how to paint. My condolances to his family and friends.
Patty Cousins
john & jacqui fawcett
December 20, 2016
When we first moved to Maine, Roger would come and visit every summer...we'll all miss him...john & Jacqui Fawcett
Matt and Mallarie Seidel
December 20, 2016
Camilla and family,
We are so sorry for the loss of your Dad. What a legacy he leaves behind. We will be thinking of you all.
Love,
Matt and Mallarie
Rich Moynihan
December 20, 2016
I feel so fortunate to have been among his students. Thank you.
Elaine Morganson
December 20, 2016
Camilla my thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss.
Josh Pawelek
December 19, 2016
Sending condolences to Roger's family and friends.
Sharyn $ Phil Mathews
December 19, 2016
To The Crossgrove family, our deepest sympathies on the loss of your family patriarch. May your memories bring much joy and comfort in this difficult time.
Gus Mazzocca
December 19, 2016
Sorry to learn of Rogers passing.
He was such an active force in the art scene for so very long beyond his retirement from UConn.
Roger hired me in 1970 and was a patient and encouraging mentor during my early years teaching.
Rogers passion for work was also very infective,as witnessed by so many us folks getting involved with monotype/monoprints.
Those were wonderful days of shared discovery and engagement with the master. Roger touched so many people in so many different arenas.
For me, he set a high level of acheivement of the good life as a gentleman and image maker.
My heartfelt condolences to the family. - Gus Mazzocca
December 19, 2016
Roger was not only my Mentor,but a dear friend,too.
I'll "carry" him around with me for my lifetime.
Tomie dePaola
Cathy Ross( Crossgrove)
December 19, 2016
The best grandfather a person could ask for ❤
Jonathan Childress
December 19, 2016
What a huge loss to Roger's family, friends, and former students. Roger was the best professor in the UConn Art Department. After I graduated from UConn, Roger became a mentor and friend. I sit and look at a photograph of Roger's hanging on the wall. Thank you, Roger. We love you. You will be missed.
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