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Tanya A. Gee 1977 - 2016 COLUMBIA - In an email to friends this week, Tanya Gee wrote: "I always talk about cancer using terms like 'fight' and 'winning.' I don't like conceding that I have lost the fight because I don't feel like a loser right now. I feel like I have one last battle in front of me, and that is to die well. That's a battle I pledge to win." Tanya Amber Gee died well on September 28, 2016, of chondrosarcoma. She was 39. Raised in Grand Rapids, Michigan and Rock Hill, South Carolina, Tanya decided to stay close to home for college, attending Winthrop University as a Trustee's Scholar and graduating magna cum laude with a major in sociology. During her days at Winthrop, Tanya became involved in Pilgrim's Inn, the local homeless shelter, beginning a lifelong commitment to community involvement. Upon graduation from Winthrop, Tanya enrolled at the University of South Carolina School of Law, earning her J.D. cum laude. During her three years at USC, Tanya was engaged in almost every part of the life of the law school, often in leadership roles. She served as President of both the Pro Bono Board and the Public Interest Law Society and earned multiple scholarships. Tanya was not just a leader in law school. She also drew the admiration of her peers and of the faculty for her commitment to those around her. Upon graduation, she was awarded the Bronze Compleat Lawyer award, the most prestigious award chosen by the law school faculty and administration, as well as the Claude Sapp Award, chosen by her classmates "as possessing the best combination of scholarship, leadership and industry." Tanya spent the bulk of her career working at the South Carolina Court of Appeals in various roles. She served as a law clerk to Chief Judge Kaye G. Hearn, as Chief Staff Attorney, and as Clerk of Court. She left the court to take a position at Nexsen Pruet, LLC, where she worked for several years in business litigation and on appellate work. In 2015, at the age of 37, she was elected to a seat on the South Carolina Circuit Court. In that role, Tanya found her true calling. She earned the respect of her colleagues on the bench and the litigants who appeared before her for her intellect, tenacity, and sense of fairness. Though still early in her career, Tanya had already earned a raft of accolades, attesting to the same attributes of leadership and community involvement that had defined her student life. She was selected one of The State newspaper's 2010 "20 Under 40" class of young professionals. She was a member of the Liberty Fellowship Class of 2012. She also was awarded the Silver Compleat Lawyer Award (awarded to three selected young alumni) and making her one of only two attorneys to have been awarded both the Bronze and Silver Compleat Lawyer Awards. In recent years, she served as a board member for Sarcoma Warriors. Growing up in a small, tight-knit family, Tanya placed value on her nuclear family above all else. She rejoiced in playing family board games. She laughed out loud at her daughter Sabin's jokes. She took pride in her son Will's achievements. She was the perfect complement to husband Chris. Her parents taught to her to be a loving, caring, giving person, and she did not know how to be anything else. She made each person in her world feel like they were the most important person in the room. Tanya was a person of deep faith. Reflecting on the recognition that she would die soon, in that same message to friends, she wrote: "We all die, right? And we all know we're going to die someday. That's part of living. I wish that I were able to make everyone feel as calm as I do. I am proud of the life I lived, the children I have, the husband I married, and the circle of friends I leave behind. I hate that I'm leaving the party early, but am awed by being on the brink of taking the next step, which we all should be looking forward to." Tanya is survived by her husband Chris Koon, her children Will and Sabin who were her greatest joys in life her parents Don and Angelika (Angel) Gee, her sister Bettina, her niece Nicole and her nephews Garrett and Cody. She is also survived by the circle of friends whose lives she touched. A celebration of her life will be held on October 5, 2016 at 4:00 p.m. at Brookland Baptist Church. In lieu of flowers, contributions to a loan forgiveness program may be made to the Tanya A. Gee Warriors for Justice Fund at the USC School of Law, 701 S. Main Street, Suite 202, Columbia, SC 29208.

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Published by The Herald on Sep. 29, 2016.

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Tom Marchant

September 27, 2022

A great and talented lady.

Tom Marchant+
379 Golden Bear Dr, J2
Pawleys Island, SC 29585

Catherine Acker

October 6, 2016

Sending love and prayers to our wonderful SC family. I know Billy greeted Tanya when she arrived in heaven. Maybe they're are having sketti and using their nakins today. God bless you.
Love Cathy

Jason Chehoski

October 5, 2016

The legal community is suffering a great loss, not only from Judge Gee's legal acumen, but also from her spirit and professionalism. We lose Judge Gee's potential as a great legal mind, which should have influenced our growing progress in the community for years to come. The biggest loss comes from no longer having a genuine, kind and pleasant human being in our lives. We all miss you.

October 4, 2016

I did not know Tanya but her strength through her trauma is truly admired! Love and strength to her family in the days, months, years ahead!!

Terry Walker

October 1, 2016

Tanya was a classmate of mine in law school. I always admired her dedication and her energy. But above all, she was simply a very nice person. I am sorry to learn of her passing, and my condolences to Chris and to her children and to her other family.

Tom Marchant

October 1, 2016

Tanya was great. She assisted me in preparation for our workers comp seminars for the Court of Appeals. Always giving, always prepared...one 'class of a lady'.

Tom Marchant
Pawleys

Wendy Fuess

October 1, 2016

I had the privilege of meeting Judge Gee in her chambers as she presided over the settlement of a wrongful death suit for my son. She was upbeat, funny, kind, compassionate, frank, and clearly brilliant. I trust in her faith but am sad for those who loved her that she has left behind. God Bless.

September 30, 2016

My condolences to her family and friends...I hope you can find comfort from each other and from the God of all comfort.

Jim Alexander

September 30, 2016

I met Tanya in Columbia when she was running for the Circuit Court. I was immediately impressed with her integrity, compassion, dedication, perseverance, and most of all, her humanity. She will be greatly missed.

Alicia Higgins

September 30, 2016

Terribly sorry for the loss of this remarkable woman. I admired her work from a distance and my condolences to her husband, children and family

September 30, 2016

We will be saying special prayers for Chris, Will, Sabin, Tanya's mom and dad, her father-in-law and mother-in-law, her sister and all her family as they celebrate the wonderful life of Tanya. Thanks be to God for the life that she had.
Joan and Charles Baxter

Sue, RN Criddle

September 30, 2016

Ms. Gee was one of the most beautiful people I have had the pleasure of taking care of. It was an honor to have helped in the small way that I could. God bless you Chris, kids and family.

Rose Manos

September 29, 2016

Chris, Will and Sabin: Tanya was a wonderful friend and co-worker. I wish I had 1/10th of her remarkable courage. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God wiling, I'll see you Wednesday at the service.

Latoya Dixon

September 29, 2016

I met Tanya in high school when she joined the basketball team. She was new but right away came in and made her place on the team. She was a one of a kind friend, always willing to give me a ride home, nice to everyone no matter who you were or where you came from, and a pretty tenacious ball player. I read all the information on her passing and thought, yep that's Tanya. That's exactly how she was in high school-willing to help anyone who needed it. I feel fortunate to have had an opportunity to cross paths with her on her journey. I'm inspired by who she was as a high school classmate and as an adult. I want to honor her memory by making a difference in the lives of others as she so obviously did.
My sincere condolences to her family. May God bless you and comfort you during this time.

Paul deHolczer

September 29, 2016

May her friends and family take great comfort in memories of an exceptional person and an exceptional life.

Sean, Marlene, Noah Redner & Stephanie Huisman

September 29, 2016

"The loss of a friend/family member is like that of a limb; time may heal the anguish of the wound, but the loss cannot be repaired."
Tanya was an amazing, and determined young woman, who never let anything get in her way! She touched the hearts of those around her. She will be greatly missed, by all who knew her!! Love you neighbor, may you rest in peace!!

Jenny Smith

September 29, 2016

Tanya was a mentor and friend to me. She was my first boss after law school and taught me how to review and write appellate law opinions, etc...
She had Sabin the day we found out our bar results. And she called us all individually from the hospital room to say congrats that we had passed the bar. Because that was Tanya.
Today, I walked by a book she bought for me. I bought a house-a fixer upper-when I was working at the court of appeals and she bought me a book written by a woman carpenter to help me as I got to work fixing things up. She was always so thoughtful and inspiring like that. She could solve any problem that arose at work. And she made me want to be a better lawyer and a better person.
Will and Sabin, your Mom was a cool and special person who made the world a better place. I will miss her.
Chris, yall were an incredible team and her love for you was palpable. My prayers for your family are constant. Godspeed, Tanya.

Rachel Hillebrand (Walker)

September 29, 2016

To the Koon and Gee Family:
My deepest sympathy to the family. May you all find peace at this time of grieving and know that I am thinking of all of you. I only met Tanya a couple of times, but what little time I did get to know her, she was a wonderful person!

Glenda Lindler

September 29, 2016

Chris and family, My heart is heavy for you, but Tanya's load has been lifted. I have never seen more strength and spunkiness in anyone other than Tanya. Her courage through all this has been remarkable. God used her giving spirit and strong faith to show others the way. God bless and keep you through all the difficult times.

Marla Palmer

September 29, 2016

I didn't know Tanya, but I am friends and colleagues of some of her family members (Ryan and Megan Koon). What an exceptional human being and testament to hope and goodness she is. May her memory be eternal!

Sonia Radcliffe Bell

September 29, 2016

You are all in our thoughts and prayers. May the wonderful memories of Tanya comfort you in the days ahead. She will be missed. We are here for you.

Penelope Hinson

September 29, 2016

Chris and family, please know that you have been - and will continue to be - in my thoughts and prayers. As you seek solace, don't forget to 'listen to the band'.

Janice Martin

September 29, 2016

What an awesome role model and inspiration. Praying for peace and strength for the family.

Charles Feemster

September 29, 2016

I am so sorry for your loss.

I cannot imagine the pain you are feeling.
I am sure there are many great memories you have that can bring a smile to your face and heart. Keep remembering those times.

May the "Lord Jesus Christ himself and God our father who loved us give you comfort and comfort your hearts and make you firm. (2 Thessalonians 2:16,17)

September 29, 2016

We are all better for knowing such a strong and wonderful person. Heaven has another Angel. Prayers for the family.

Carl L. Solomon

September 29, 2016

Chris, children and Family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at the time. May God Bless...John & Karen Shealy

September 29, 2016

My heart is sad to hear of Tanya's death, I met her when she volunteered at Logan Elementary through the Pro Bono Program,she was always so nice and pleasant. I have never forgotten her. God bless you and her children.

Tim Mobley

September 29, 2016

Chris, I never met Tanya, but it certainly sounds like she lit up the world around her. I'm so sorry for your loss, but I am thankful that she had an eternal perspective. I pray that God gives you continual peace and joy that only He can give.

Melissa DeLeon

September 29, 2016

Tanya will be missed, but our memories are forever. Prayers for everyone who loved her

Roger Adams

September 29, 2016

I remember Tanya told me she was going to be in law and nothing would hold her back.I'm proud to see she did it .I have not talk to Tanya in a long time and I hate to admit that.To her family my prayers and heart is with you.Y'all have lost a special lady but always remember Tanya will be looking in on you all and her love for y'all is everlasting just like the good lord.I hope y'all will find peace in that.Tanya was a beautiful woman inside and out she will be sorely missed.

Brian Hefner

September 29, 2016

Chris, I am truly sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you and your family.

scheerers

September 29, 2016

thinking of yall at this hard time. just know lord is n control

marion tompkins

September 29, 2016

So sorry for your loss..I did not know Tanya, but was inspired to live a fuller life after reading this obituary.

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