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Michael Fleming Obituary

Michael Paul Fleming
1963-2020
On July 1, 2020, Michael Paul Fleming, beloved and highly regarded by all who knew him, unexpectedly passed away in Houston, Texas. He was 57 years old.
Michael was born on June 25, 1963 in Orlando, Florida, the second-youngest of eight children. He is survived by his wife and college sweetheart, Natalie, whom he married in 1988; his children, Shannon (Rohit), Nicholas, Patrick, Michael Jr., Eamon, and Celeste; mother Terry; siblings Patricia, Claire, Harry, Frank, Madeline and Siobhan; and many, many cousins, including George Fleming, Maura, Lawrence, and Sean Tracey. Michael also leaves behind Rudy, his affectionate golden retriever of 11 years. Michael is preceded in death by his father, Joseph, and brother, James.
Michael, who in addition to being strong in his faith, was gracious and honorable, brilliant yet humble, and always believed in people. He was known for his dry wit and humor, appetite for history and genealogy, and love of all things Ireland, having visited the country over 19 times and being a founding member of the Houston Irish Society. He completed eight marathons in his lifetime, including four in Dublin, Ireland alongside his wife and children. Above all else, Michael was devoted to his family.
In 1984, Michael graduated from the University of St. Thomas in Houston, Texas, where he later served on its board of directors for fifteen years. In 1987, Michael received his law degree from the University of Houston Law Center. He was licensed to practice law in Texas and New York, and was also licensed as a solicitor by the Law Society of Ireland. In addition, Michael was Board Certified as a specialist in Personal Injury Trial Law and Real Estate Law by the Texas Board of Legal Specialization. At age 33 in 1996, he was elected County Attorney for Harris County, Texas, and then re-elected in 2000. In 2000, Michael successfully represented the county before the United States Supreme Court. He later established his private practice, Michael P. Fleming & Associates, P.C., in 2002.
The Fleming family will be present to receive friends Tuesday, July 7, 2020 from 6:00 PM until 9:00 PM with a Vigil Service beginning at 7:00 PM at St. John Vianney Catholic Church, 625 Nottingham Oaks Trail, Houston, Texas 77079. The Funeral Mass will commence Wednesday, July 8, 2020 at 10:30 AM at St. John Vianney Catholic Church. Michael will be laid to rest at Forest Park Westheimer Cemetery following Holy Mass.
The Fleming family wishes to express their deep gratitude for the outpouring of love and support from the community. Due to the COVID-19 Pandemic, the Funeral Mass will be live streamed Wednesday at 10:30 AM for family and friends that may be unable to attend due to concerns of the Pandemic. The family will schedule a Memorial Mass at a later date for a further celebration of his life. Please visit www.DettlingFuneral.com on Wednesday, July 8, 2020 to find the live streaming link. In lieu of flowers please consider contributions in Mike's memory to St. Mary's Seminary at www.smseminary.org .

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Published by Houston Chronicle on Jul. 5, 2020.

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Carol Jamail McAliley

June 29, 2025

Dear Fleming Family, it is still very difficult to believe that someone as wonderful as Michael is not in this world anymore. He added so much in so many ways, mainly just by being himself. I am grateful to have known him and many of his family members. I was closest to Michael's sister Siobhan and his cousin Sean. We worked together and hung out together a lot. I knew his mother and I was blessed to meet Natalie and his children when they were growing up. I think of those days often, as I miss those three especially, Michael, Siobhan, and Sean. I will never forget Michael, and I am grateful that I knew him and was able to see what a wonderful man he was. With love and respect, Carol Jamail McAliley

Carol Jamail McAliley

June 29, 2024

As the 4th anniversary of Michael's passing approaches, I would like to take a moment to acknowledge his family, Natalie and his now grown kids, as well as his immediate family of siblings, and of course, his cousin Sean, as close as a brother to Michael. I hope all of Michael's family are healthy and happy. Of course he would want that. I miss Siobhan and Sean as well as Michael, as we all became close at the store on Kirby Drive, where I got to know them all when we worked there together. I have many wonderful memories that I call on often. I will always sign this guest book, out of remembrance and respect for Michael and his entire family. Love to all, Carol Jamail McAliley

Carol Jamail McAliley

June 29, 2022

I think of the entire Fleming family, not just today, but very often. I am grateful that I knew Michael and had the opportunity to be at the same place when he, Siobhan, and Sean all worked at my family's grocery store. It was a privilege to call Michael a co-worker, but most importantly, a friend. The same goes for Siobhan and Sean. I miss them all every day. Love always, Carol

allen tanner

June 29, 2022

Miss Mikes smile from days we did court appointments when we were young and always remember him when drive down Richmond and see building he and Harry had my favorite hot dog stand. Mike was a great guy and dearly missed,

Carol Jamail McAliley

June 29, 2021

Dear Fleming Family, I have thought about you all over the past year many times. I miss you, and it's hard to imagine this life without Michael in it. I know if I miss him as much as I do, it must be much more difficult for his wife and children, and brothers, sisters, mother, and cousins, as well as his friends. I wish I could have been there to celebrate his life with everyone else. Please know that I will never forget what a special person Michael was. I am grateful that I had the chance to work with him and two of his closest relatives, his sister Siobhan and his cousin Sean. The three of them were an asset to our grocery store on Kirby Drive, and I was lucky and blessed to be able to call them my friends. I miss all three of them very much. Michael's final resting place is also where both of my parents are, my father being Michael's former employer, and my dad had great respect for Michael. My young daughter was also laid to rest there, too. My thoughts and prayers are with all of Michael's family and friends as the one year anniversary of his untimely passing approaches. I know what it feels like from my own losses, and I will be praying for comfort and peace for his loved ones, as well as the joy that the many memories of his life can bring. With sincerity, respect, sympathy, and love, Carol

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Sian Pitman

July 20, 2020

The week I found out that Michael Fleming passed away, through a letter which Claire sent to my Mum, and I was completely shocked to hear the news.

I wish to send my heartfelt condolences to Michael's wife and children, and to the greater Fleming family.

Michael lived a few doors away from me growing up and I will always remember him as the boy who taught me how to ride a bike. His father was my father's best friend, and we lived on the same block in Vancouver. Many long, and carefree summer days were spent at the Fleming's house where we rode bikes, threw stink bombs (from a downtown store called "Crack a Joke "), played monopoly, crawled into the 'moon room' under the house, lit aerosols on fire, listened to comedy records in the living room, and grossed each other out with Dr. Fleming's skin disorder and plastic surgery magazines.

Michael was kind and responsible, and I know my Mum was always happy to know we were going to the local park (near's Joe's grocery ) with Michael, Siobhan and Bruno.

My family has so many fond memories of Michael, and I am truly sorry for the loss his family is now facing.

Please accept my deepest sympathy,
Sian Pitman - a far northern neighbour

Carol Jamail McAliley

July 13, 2020

Dear Mrs. Fleming and family, I just found out that your wonderful son, Michael, passed away a week after his birthday. I am truly shocked and extremely saddened by the fact that someone as wonderful as Michael is no longer on this earth. I have known the Fleming family, especially Michael and Siobhan, for over 35 years, and I love them. Michael and Siobhan and their cousin Sean Tracey worked with us at my family's store, Jim Jamail and Sons, in the 1980s, and all 3 of them were assets to the business, and along the way we became good friends, and I admired and respected them. We had some wonderful times together outside of work as well. Even that long ago, the 3 of them were already talking abd planning for their future, and they were all set on becoming attorneys, which they did. Michael, his lovely wife, Natalie, and his children were just a precious family when I met them after Michael and Siobhan's father passed away and I went to Michael's home after Mr. Fleming's service. Michael was a very special person in so many ways, and anyone who was fortunate enough to know him would agree. I would love to come to the memorial mass when it can be arranged. Please know, Mrs. Fleming, Siobhan, and I have to say Sean as well, because those 3 were more like siblings than cousins, that you are all in my thoughts, prayers, and heart during this time, and I hope to be able to see you, Siobhan, I love you and miss you very much. May God bless your entire family and give you all the peace and comfort that you need. Sincerely and with love, Carol Jamail Mcaliley

Marcel Naddaf & Family

July 9, 2020

Dear Natalie & Family
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
May his memory be eternal.
We have you all in our prayers
Marcel, Caridad. Mikhael and Therese

Marcel Naddaf & Family

July 9, 2020

Dear Natalie & Family
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
May his memory be eternal ☦
We have you all in our prayers
Marcel, Caridad. Mikhael and Therese

Marcel Naddaf & Family

July 9, 2020

Dear Natalie & Family
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
May his memory be eternal ☦
We have you all in our prayers
Marcel, Caridad. Mikhael and Therese

Marcel Naddaf & Family

July 9, 2020

Dear Natalie & Family
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
May his memory be eternal
We have you all in our prayers
Marcel, Caridad. Mikhael and Therese

Marcel Naddaf & Family

July 9, 2020

Dear Natalie & Family
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
May his memory be eternal ☦
We have you all in our prayers
Marcel, Caridad. Mikhael and Therese

Marcel Naddaf & Family

July 9, 2020

Dear Natalie & Family
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
May his memory be eternal ☦
We have you all in our prayers
Marcel, Caridad. Mikhael and Therese

Marcel Naddaf & Family

July 9, 2020

Dear Natalie & Family
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
May his memory be eternal ☦
We have you all in our prayers
Marcel, Caridad. Mikhael and Therese

Marcel Naddaf & Family

July 9, 2020

Dear Natalie and Family
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
May his memory be eternal ☦
We have you all in our prayers ,
with deepest sympathy,
Marcel, Caridad, Mikhael & Therese Naddaf

Dr and Mrs Robert Ivany

July 8, 2020

Dear Natalie, Marianne and i send you our deepest condolences. I benefited greatly from having Michael on our board of directors at the University of St Thomas. He was a dedicated member who cared about our students. His humor, sharp mind and positive attitude were always welcome at meetings. We will pray that the good Lord comforts all of your family as He surely has welcomed Michael to His reward with Him.
Bob and Marianne

Ger Fleming

July 8, 2020

We were shocked and saddened to hear about Michaels death. We were looking forward to many future evenings sitting with you all on your patio hearing about the Fleming family history from Michael, talking about all things Ireland and eating Michaels deep fried Brussels sprouts. We will be with you all in spirit today as we remotely attend the funeral. We send you all of our love, prayers and support.

David Casserly

July 8, 2020

Dear Natalie and Family,

Im so sorry for your loss. Michael was a good friend and always there for me. I will miss him greatly. I know he is looking down from Heaven with such pride and joy. My heart and prayers go out to you and all your family.

Sincerely, David Casserly

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Ger Fleming

July 7, 2020

We were all in shock and disbelief when we heard about Michael. He was always so welcoming whenever we would visit, a real sense of Irish hospitality. I was looking forward to future visits, sitting on the patio, hearing more about the Fleming family history and eating his deep fried brussel sprouts. With Gods grace we'll all be together again.

Kim

July 7, 2020

Dear Natalie and Family,
We were all saddened and shocked at the news of Michael's death. He and all your family were a bright light for so many years at St. Thomas More where we all were a family of families. Be assured of our continued prayers and Jesus's loving embrace.

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Tom Padgett

July 7, 2020

Mike and I had cases against each other when he was the County Attorney. He was always gracious and professional. I appreciated him as a lawyer and a person. He will be missed. May perpetual light shine upon his soul.

Siobhan Fleming

July 7, 2020

Requiescat in pace, Michael.
I know the St. Arnolds is flowing in heaven these days. In fact, I bet you are having the patron saint of brewing himself pour you a beer as youre surrounded by all the Flemings and Eccles and finally getting answers to those genealogy questions you had (William B. Fleming wasnt born in Mahoonagh was he? I told you!). As you watch over Natalie and the kids, if you can, please send me a sign and tell me where Forrest Fenns treasure was found and what he meant in that poem with the hints? I promise I wont tell Stafford.
Éirinn go Brách
Siobhán

James F Murphy

July 7, 2020

The Basilian Fathers offer our deepest condolences to the Fleming Family. We lift his name in prayer at mass.

Mary Lou Lauren ( Nee Eccles)

July 6, 2020

My heartfelt condolences to the family upon the sudden and shocking loss of your husband and father. I didnt get to know my nephew well given the distance between our countries and our cities, which is tegretawas fortunate in having in you, a wonderful familywho must have brought him countless joys in life .
I pray that you are all comforted by the knowledge that Michael is
Surrounded by divine love, greeted in heaven by his many relatives and will be there to welcome all of us.

Monica Claypool

July 6, 2020

May the love of friends and family carry you through this difficult time . Kent and Monica Claypool

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Coral Herrera

July 6, 2020

Dear Natalie and family, We were so shocked and sorry to hear about your loss. We well keep your family and Michael in our prayers. The Herrera family

Don & Debbie Stricklin

July 6, 2020

Natalie and family, you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Sending love from far away.

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Kathie Winckler

July 6, 2020

Such a great tragedy for you and your family and everyone who knew Mike. Please accept my deepest sympathy. K.

Angel Burg

July 6, 2020

My very first boss at the Harris County Attorneys Office. Deepest condolences and prayers for his wife, children, family, and friends.

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Kate Conlan

July 6, 2020

Dear Celeste and Family,
I was so sad to hear of your father's sudden death. He must have been an exceptional man to have helped raise the bright and lively and generous young woman that you are. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Kate Conlan
Upper School Counselor, Duchesne

Louise Reynolds

July 6, 2020

Natalie, John and I were absolutely stunned to hear of Michaels untimely passing, our hearts ache for you and your dear family.
Michael was truly loved and treasured by all who knew him and will be greatly missed.
Our hearts, prayers and support are with you during this extraordinarily difficult, heartbreaking time.
With love and prayers,
John and Louise

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Sean K Thompson

July 6, 2020

When I was a wide-eyed kid in university, Michael was a strong, positive presence who compelled respect, and who always had time and attention for guys like me. Ill never forget his kindness and his leadership qualities that inspired me.

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Shawnda Small

July 6, 2020

Natalie, my condolences to you and your family. God will comfort you and hold you close during this time. I will continue to pray for you and your family.

Rosa M Delafuente

July 6, 2020

Attorney Michael Fleming was truly one of the best County Attorney 's I've worked for. His honesty friendliness, professional respect was acknowledged by all.
The golden Irishman truly represented the Harris County Attorney Office and the people of Harris County.
It was a pleasure working with you sir.

Mark Fury

July 6, 2020

At certain crucial moments in my life, when I needed clear thinking, wisdom and counsel, it was my friend Michael Fleming who quietly but eloquently lit the path. He had my back. His counsel was as tender as it was profound and correct. It is the quality of interaction rather than the quantity that sometimes make certain friendships deep and abiding. I will miss you, Michael Fleming, as my life has been deeply blessed by you. See you in Heaven!

allen tanner

July 5, 2020

I knew Mike when he was a young criminal defense lawyer and he practiced with his brother Harry. They were the nicest down to earth young men. They were both excellent lawyers and I always liked talking to them on cases .They owned a hot dog stand on Richmond Avenue which I used to love going to. It was amazing when he was elected County Attorney at only 33. That was a great accomplishment. He became a civil lawyer and our paths only crossed several times the past 20 years, but he still had the same beautiful smile and way about him. RIP Michael.

Elda García-Ditta

July 5, 2020

Dearest Shannon, Celeste and Family,

My most sincerest and deepest condolences for the loss of your precious father. I remember his kindness and positive spirit at Father Daughter Masses and other school events. I remember how your eyes would light up when you would talk about his love for all things Irish. His beautiful spirit is reflected in your love for others. God bless you all.

I love you.
Mrs. Garcia-Ditta

Charles , Miriam and Celeste Cleveland

July 5, 2020

We are heartbroken for your immense and sudden loss. We will always remember Michael as a man who loved his country and who was devoted to his family. His legacy will live on.
We pray for you, Natalie and all his children that you may find comfort and peace.
The Cleveland family

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Dick & Karen Moore

July 5, 2020

We are so proud to call Michael our friend. Our hearts hurt so much at his loss. Love and prayers to his family and friends. Always our special love to Natalie. O

Madeline Fleming

July 5, 2020

Michael and I spent the majority of our toddler years ( ages 1 through 6) at our home in Vancouver, Canada. We watched re-runs of the Dick Van Dyke show, Underdog, and Gilligans Island. During summers, we played together with our neighborhood friends, took swimming lessons together and made many trips - along with Bruno our familys German shepherd- down the block to Buds the local candy store and then often headed across the street to the beach. Into adulthood, Michael was always kind, loyal and unselfishly available to listen when I or my husband and children needed to bend his ear to receive advice or anything at all. We are all very shocked and extremely saddened at his unnecessary death. Like our brother Jimmy in 2017, Michael died in the prime of his life. We know our Dad Joe, our brother Jimmy, Nana, & all of our grandparents are receiving him into heaven.

Jim Jamail

July 5, 2020

Our condolences and prayers go out to all members of the Michael's family. We wish you all peace and many blessings during this time of loss and mourning.
Kathy and Jim Jamail

Randy and Nancy Sparks

July 5, 2020

Natalie, we are so sorry for the loss of Micheal. He was an admirable friend, husband and father. Our hearts are broken for you. Please know we are sending our love and prayers to you and the family.
Randy and Nancy Sparks

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