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BENJAMIN RICE ASTON left this life as he lived it, full of strength and surrounded by family. Rice, as he preferred to be called, was born and raised in Houston, Texas as a thirteenth generation American and fifth generation Texan. He was a graduate of St. John's School, Rice University and the University of Texas law school. In addition to his active oil and gas law practice, Rice Aston was a patriot, orator and historian. Curious and proud of his heritage, he became a serious student of genealogy, American and World History. He became a prolific writer of historical books and articles and an orator on many important historical topics. He is the proud great grandnephew of William Marsh Rice, the founder of Rice University. He also discovered that he was the descendant of several American settlers who first arrived on American shores at Salem, Massachusetts in 1620 and at Jamestown, Virginia in 1640. Ancestors included the maternal great-grandfather and grandfather of George Washington, five members of the VA House of Burgess, one member of Massachusetts and South Carolina First Provincial Congress, Second Governor of Massachusetts Bay Colony and a founder of Harvard University. Further back to the Old World, he discovered ancestors who ruled England and were signatories of the Magna Carter. Rice Aston was also deeply committed to his community and devoted countless hours to philanthropic activities. He was a member founder and member of the St. John's School Alumni Association, Director of the River Oaks Rotary Club, Director of the Rice Historical Society and editor of its periodical The Cornerstone, member of the Houston Philosophical Association and the James A. Baker III, Institute for Political Policy, member of Saint Martin's Episcopal Church. He was a member of several Patriotic/Lineage societies where he was often an officer and leader. He culminated his patriotic career by serving as the President General of the National Society of the Sons of the American Revolution. He was honored with the highest award the National Society gives, the Gold Good Citizenship. On his journey to this high office, he also devoted countless hours and support as a member to the Paul Carrington Chapter of the Sons of the American Revolution, where he served as Editor and President and received the 60th Annual George Washington Distinguished Service Award, the highest award that the chapter can give. He was also very active in the Texas Society of the Sons of the American Revolution, the Sons of the Republic of Texas, the Society of Colonial Wars in the State of Texas, San Jacinto Descendants, Jamestown Society and the Magna Carter Barons. He was the founder of the annual award to the outstanding enlisted man aboard the Aegis cruiser, the USS San Jacinto. Rice is succeeded by the love of his life, his wife, Ursula Goedecke Aston; his children, Sonya Aston, Rick Aston and his wife Lara and their children Andrew and Caleb, Alan Aston and his wife Fiona and their children Miles, Rice and Phoebe; his cousin George Rice Flint and his wife Cindy and their children George and Hannah; his cousin Louann Briscoe and her husband Frank and her children Christie, Calder and Kaylee; sister-in-law Waltraut Duckworth and husband Ed; brother-in-law Curtis H. Goedecke and his wife Tina; Otto Ernst Goedecke and his wife Barbara, and many wonderful cousins, nieces, nephews, friends and co-patriots. Friends are cordially invited to a visitation with the family from five o'clock in the afternoon until seven o'clock in the evening on Friday, the 23rd of February, in the Gold Room of Geo. H. Lewis & Sons, 1010 Bering Drive in Houston. A memorial service will be conducted at St. Martin's Episcopal Church at eleven o'clock in the morning on Saturday the 24th of February, with the Rev. John K. Graham and Rev. Robert T. Browne officiating. The family wishes to thank Joyce Hill and Imogene Randall for the support and care they provided to the Aston family. For those desiring, memorial contributions may be made in Rice's name to Rice University, P.O. Box 200175, Houston, Texas 77216; or to St. Martin's Church, 717 Sage Road, Houston, Texas 77056.

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Published by Houston Chronicle on Feb. 23, 2007.

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Howard Horne

March 20, 2007

Rice was one of the finest gentlemen I have had the pleasure of associating with in the National Society of the Sons of the American Revolution. He was sincerely interested in our very great Society. And, he was instrumental in obtaining the seed money to begin the effort to build and establish the Center for Advancing America's Heritage. His wise counsel will be missed.

Joe Hill

March 11, 2007

Ursula,
Please accept our sympathies at Rice's death. His life is a model for many to emulate. May he rest in Peace.

M Joseph Hill, ILSSAR
and Gen Hill

andrew johnson

March 10, 2007

My sincerest sympathy to the family of Rice Aston. He was a great man and a great President General

Glenn Fast

March 7, 2007

It was an honor to meet him as the PG while a member of the TXSSAR Alexander Hodge Chapter Color Guard.

Compatriot Glenn Fast
OKSSAR Historian

Bob Young

March 6, 2007

Our deapest symphany to the Aston Family and all members of the Texas Society, SAR. The Arizona Society will always rembember the visit to our state and his words to our state society.

Bob Young, Chaplain
Arizona Society

Franklin Appl

March 6, 2007

Rice was such a powerful voice for patriotism as one of the Sons of the American Revolution and a Son of Texas. He will be truly missed. My deepest sympathies at this time of sorrow.

Art Hall

March 6, 2007

Ursula- You will remember that we first met when Rice installed me as President of the Athens SAR chapter. It was then that you and I discovered our common Hallettsville roots. I remember you both fondly and will miss Rice and his many contributions to our society.
Art Hall
Athens, TX

Robert Farling

March 6, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. I am still using the message that Rice delivered at Congress when he became President General. I had his permission and everyone just loves it. God be with you. Bob

Brian Worcester

March 6, 2007

My sincere sympathy on the passing of a great man from this earth to a better place.

Ed Butler

March 6, 2007

Rice was an icon among his fellow lawyers and among SAR leaders. His command of the English language allowed him to write glowing prose about the founding of our country, and the principles upon which it was founded. Clearly, he was a patriot and a natural leader.

Robin and I will always treasure our time with Rice and Ursula in Paris, France. It was a wonderful experience marching down the Champs d' eleyse and watching him place a wreat near the eternal flame under the Arch de Triomph.

Rice will be sorely missed by me and others in SAR.

Edward "Bud" Casey

March 6, 2007

Rice was a real gentleman and a great patriot. I always thought of him as a good friend.
Bud Casey

Richard Ashmun

March 6, 2007

He will be remembered by all of SAR.

Donald N . Moran

March 6, 2007

Rice was a very special President General of the SAR - having served in his administration as editor of the Headquarters Dispatch, his support and intelligent approach to directing the Society was a credit to him and of great value to the Society.

Don & Linda Moran

Larry Guzy

March 6, 2007

Rice's love of history had inspired me to share some of his stories with my chapter and with school children when I make presentations. What a great role model.

Price Legg

March 6, 2007

ALSSAR, past State President

Jim Willis

March 6, 2007

May God bless you through this time
of sorrow

Bob Bowen

March 6, 2007

Rice is responsible for my involvement in the SAR today. He nominated me for membership on the Flag Committee in 2001, encouraged me to attend my first Trustees meeting in 2001, and was a valued friend and mentor. I will miss him, as will countless other Compatriots who are privileged to be able to call him "friend". - Bob Bowen, Virginia Society

George Reech

March 5, 2007

Ursula:
You are not alone. We,in SAR, and all who knew him grieve with you. He was a truly great American and a wonderful personal friend.

SAR Lynn Breaux

March 5, 2007

To Ursula, We pray for the entire Aston family. Rice inspired us all and for that he will always be remembered

Robert Parvin

March 2, 2007

Your support and advancement of America and its Patriotic Ideals through your membership in the SAR are an inspiration to me.

Jim Robertson

March 2, 2007

Ursala,
Corinne & I have many fond memories of Rice and the times that we spent with the two of you at various chapter, state and national SAR meetings.

Johnny and Renee Felder

February 28, 2007

Dear Ursula,
God's peace and love for you and your family.

Bob & Mary Coker

February 24, 2007

Gone but never forgotten...

Kay Egger

February 24, 2007

To Sonya & Family,
I did not know Mr. Aston, but I've known Sonya for many yeas; after coming to know Sonya's stories, and her own character, I am certain that Mr. Aston was a superlative and gracious man; God Bless and love to all of you. May your mourning pass peacefully. Kay Kurtin Egger

Jim & Judy Massingill

February 23, 2007

San Antonio Chapter TXSSAR
We loved you Rice.

Holly and Jim Darby

February 23, 2007

Rice was a wonderful friend since we were babies. We will surely miss him and especially his dry sense of humor. Our prayers are with his family.

Sharon & Lovell Aldrich

February 23, 2007

We are sorry that we can not be with you; but you and your family are in our prayers. May God bless and be with the Aston family in your time of need.

Cathy & Miles Klaff

February 23, 2007

Dear Sonya,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Djana Suljic

February 23, 2007

Dear Aston Family,
Our deepest sympathies are with you. We will miss Rice so much. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Judy & George West

February 23, 2007

Ursula
- Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Rice was
indeed a true leader and had, and still continues to have, a profound influence on George's participation in SAR.

Frank Pounders

February 23, 2007

Rice, you were and are a great patriot and leader in the cause of freedom. On behalf of all the members of the Dallas Chapter, SAR, Frank Pounders, Chaplain

Janice Stafford

February 23, 2007

My prayers are with Sonya and her family at this time

Dallas Windham

February 23, 2007

To a wonderful co-patriot who devoted so much of his time to both the National and Texas Societies of the Sons of the American Revolution. Your service is greatly appreciated.

Willie Walker

February 23, 2007

The entire family is in our prayers

Calder Richardson

February 23, 2007

Dear Ursula,

Sending our condolences. Rice will be greatly missed. He, and you and family, are in our thoughts and prayers.

Calder, Deanna, Abbey, Evan and Austin

Sheila & John Matthews

February 23, 2007

We send our thoughts and prayers to Rice's family and friends.

Joe & Nita Ware

February 23, 2007

Dear Ursula,
We're thinking of you and send our sympathies and love.
Joe & Nita

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