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for THOMAS SCALLEY
Anthony Nguyen
June 8, 2011
Dear Scalley's,
This news is so sudden and I can only imagine how you feel, Melanie. I wish to send you my loving regards to stay strong as I hope time heals you and Gordon.
Nina Phan
June 1, 2011
Dearest Melanie and Gordon,
He may not be here, but he certainly isn't gone either.. If you take a look into your hearts, he's actually right there warming you up with the deepest love any family could ever give.
I know you're watching over us, Tom. We'll meet again someday.
Love always,
Cynthia Ziegler
November 5, 2010
Dearest Melanie, Gordon, and the Scalley and Biggar Families,
It is with a very heavy heart that I extend to you all my most sincere condolences for your loss.
May you find comfort in your treasured memories of the good times with Tom. My memory of Tom is his warm smile and friendly manner.
With deepest sympathy,
Mrs. Cynthia Ziegler
Maureen Reis (Jay)
November 4, 2010
Dear Melanie and Scalley Family,
I am so deeply saddened to hear of Tom's passing. He was a truly wonderful person and he will be missed. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you all and help you through this difficult time.
November 4, 2010
Dear Scalley Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep Tom and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Mary Beth Agnello and Family
Gayle Agnello
November 4, 2010
Dear Melanie,
I'm very sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I have fond memories of both you and Tom from high school. Please accept my deepest sympathies. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God bless you.
Karen Sinisi
November 3, 2010
Mel,
I am so sorry about your loss. Pictures say a thousand words, and it's obvious Tom was an awesome husband and dad. My thoughts are with you,
Best, K
Chrisanne Flynn
November 2, 2010
Dear Melanie, Gordon, and the Scalley Family,
I was so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. It is hard to think of Tom, with his quick laughter and kind words, not being here. He is much loved and will be forever missed. I pray that God will give you strength through this difficult time.
Love,
Chrisanne Curka Flynn
Betsy McInnis
October 31, 2010
Dear Melanie, Gordon and the Scalley and Biggar families,
What a sad, sad time for all of you. Please know you're in our thoughts and prayers today, and always.
With love,
Betsy, Bruce and Micki McInnis
October 31, 2010
May God Bless and keep the Scalley family now and forever, in God's hands.
Love, cousin Chrissy
Christine Cunningham Meehan
Mimi McMahon
October 30, 2010
Dear Melanie, Shirley and Cousins, Death is a separation not easily borne... know that you are in my thoughts and prayers today, and in the days to come. Love, cousin Mimi
Megan Byrnes Hatt
October 29, 2010
Dear Melanie and family- I was so shocked to hear the news. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss.
October 28, 2010
Dear Melanie and Family, I am so sad to hear of Tom's passing and I am very sorry for your loss. I send my thoughts and prayers and hope you find comfort in the love which surrounds you. -Robin (Lance) Henry, Moorestown, NJ)
October 28, 2010
Dear Scalley Family,
We are so sorry, saddened...and shocked to hear of Tom's passing. Please accept our deepest sympathies. May God be with you.
Marie and Bill Gensch & Family
Sheryl Scalley-Maltie
October 28, 2010
RIP my cousin....better things surely await you.
Sheryl Scalley
October 28, 2010
RIP my cousin...better things await you.
Faith Galvan
October 28, 2010
May you find comfort in the arms and thoughts of your family and friends.
Tom's positive and energetic presence will be greatly missed at IREM.
Stephanie Haug
October 28, 2010
Dear Melanie and Scalley family,
I am so sad and shocked to hear of Tom's passing. He lived behind me in Chatham Township. He was such a nice guy who always had a warm smile for everyone. Please accept my deepest sympathies.
October 28, 2010
We are truly sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you during these trying times.
Karen and Mike Kelly
Margaret O'Hara
October 28, 2010
Dear Mel,
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy on the loss of your dear Tom. The last time he and I spoke was at that fantastic 20th reunion of the CTHS Class of '86; I remember so vividly the warmth and the fun of that evening. Please know that you, Gordon and the Biggar and Scalley families will remain in our family's prayers. Much love, Mrs. O
Lynn & Kevin Kelleher
October 28, 2010
Dear Scalley Family,
We are so sad and will miss Tom deeply. He was a wonderful person, always positive and caring. He had a great smile and sense of humor. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and please let us know if we can help in any way. Love, Lynn and Kevin
Gordon and Tamara Burk
October 28, 2010
To Melanie and the Scalley Family,
Words seem inadequate to express the sadness and sorrow we feel. We consider ourselves amoung the fortunate ones to have been close friends with Tom. He was a genuinely kind, remarkable person with a warm embrace that made everyone feel special. We will always remember his sense of humor, that special smile and contagious laugh that made us all love him. Tom will always hold a special place in our hearts forever. May god give you, Gordon and your family peace and comfort during this difficult time and in the days ahead and may your loving memories of Tom give you the strength and peace.
With our love and deepest heartfelt sympathy,
Stephanie Swanson
October 28, 2010
To Tom’s Family,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you all. No words can express how deeply saddened we are by Tom’s sudden passing. I have so many great memories of Tom through the IREM Houston monthly luncheons, meetings and activities. He was certainly a “go-getter” and a True Treasure to everyone! He will be truly missed. May God strengthen you all through this difficult time.
Susan Aho Decelles
October 28, 2010
Dear Melanie and the Scalley family,
I am so sorry and sad for your loss. Melanie, I'm so glad your parents are nearby to help you. You don't know how many people are thinking of you and praying for you and Gordon. May everyone's love and support help you through this time. Tom was one of the good guys from high school and I have fond memories of him.
Dave Aiello
October 27, 2010
Melanie:
My family and I are very sorry to hear that Tom passed away. We will pray for you and your family. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.
Colette & Jim Worm
October 27, 2010
Mel & Gordon,
Jim & I & the kids have nothing but fond memories of times spent with your family. Sending hugs your way.
Virginia Guidry
October 27, 2010
Melanie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time of sadness. I am truly sorry for your loss.
October 27, 2010
Mel,
Words can never express our love and sympathy for you and Gordon, and your families. Tom will always hold a special place in our hearts, we were blessed to know him, and he was blessed to have you and Gordon in his life. Please know we are always here for you. Love, Charlie, Lori, Kate and Chas
Katie Brenan (Lane)
October 27, 2010
So saddened by the loss of Tom. I have wonderful memories of him. All my thoughts and prayers are with Melanie and his family
Cindy Wedholm
October 27, 2010
Melanie,
Our hearts are filled with sadness for you and your family. Please know that we are sending prayers and strength your way. With our deepest sympathies,
Kim Bradshaw-Lewis
October 27, 2010
Dear Melanie & The Scalley family,
I was so sorry to learn of your loss. Having known Tom throughout my years in Chatham I feel lucky to have known him as a great guy. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Kim Bradshaw-Lewis
Rosemarie Gallo
October 27, 2010
To Melanie and the Scalley Family, I am at a loss for words. I hope you may find comfort & strength in one another at your time of sorrow. Tom was a wonderful human being & will be dearly missed. Rosemarie Gallo CTHS 1986
Craig Caputo
October 27, 2010
So sorry to hear about this, Mel. You and your families are in my prayers.
Kathy Kerwin-Miller
October 27, 2010
Dear Melanie and The Scalley family,
Those of us that had the opportunity to attend High School with Tom, want you to know that we are so saddened by the loss of Tom. He will be greatly missed and our thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time.
Kathy Kerwin Miller CTHS 1986
Lynda Whitehead
October 27, 2010
Melanie,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Sharon Ostern introduced us and we all had dinner a few years ago. My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.
Helga Pitt
October 27, 2010
Dear Mel,
Jon and I were so very sad to hear about Tom's passing. He was a wonderful person and I will always cherish the memories of the times we all spent together. Know that you are Gordon are very much loved and that you are in our heartfelt thoughts and prayers. I am always here for you both - now and forever.
Jennifer Johnston
October 27, 2010
Tom will always be remembered by me with a giant smile! He was the best friend of my Husband Derek. Derek and I are devistated. The first time I met Tom, was in a small sushi restaurant in Montclair where Derek introduced his "Best-Man" for our wedding. He was the BEST Best Man ever! He really kept the party going! Tom is the best example of "good people". I will never forget him and sense of humor. I pray you and Gordon are at peace and wish you all the prayers in the world. Many hugs, and lots of love, Jennifer
October 27, 2010
Melanie and Gordon....Tom was a loving, gentle person who brought so much energy and life into everything he did and people he met. I had the great fortune of working with Tom on many IREM events and his enthusiasm and can-do spirit was such a pleasant experience for me and others. Mary Butler (Houston)
West Lee & Bob
October 27, 2010
To the Scalley Family:
We are sorry for your loss. We are praying for you. May God grant you peace and allow you to take comfort from the memories of love and a life shared, now, and in the days ahead.
With sympathy,
Jim Sinclair
October 27, 2010
Dear Melanie & Gordon,
I am so sorry that Tom is gone - but he will never be forgotten. I had the privilege of working with Tom at Brookfield and in the IREM Houston chapter. He was fun to be around, always positive, and a genuinely nice person. I will miss his sense of humor and his smile. May God give you, Gordon and your family peace and comfort during this difficult time and in the days ahead.
Jeannie Scalley
October 27, 2010
Aunt Shirley, Darlene,Linda,Sean and Karen,
We will dearly miss Tom. All that knew him, should consider themselves lucky to have had him in their lives. As always, we love
you and will be here for you in this difficult time.
Brian and Jeannie Scalley
Kimberly Thomas
October 26, 2010
To the Scalley Family: I'm really sadden of his passing. He was an amazing person to me and my family. My husband and I will forever be greatful for him giving us a chance by allowing us to lease on of his beautiful properties. He helped in such a major way there are no words to describe how he changed our lives. He will be truly missed. Our hearts are broken for your loss. God Bless your entire family.
Gary S Sagendorf
October 26, 2010
Many of us from Tom's hometown, Chatham Township, New Jersey, still live in the area where Tom grew up. We were stunned and saddened to learn of Tom's death. Our prayers and thoughts now are with Melanie, Gordon and the Scalley Family. If there's anything we here in the Chatham area can do please let us know. We're so sorry and extend our deepest sympathy.
Ron Megow
October 26, 2010
Mel, I am so sorry for your loss. Tom and I worked together the last 3 years and he was known and well liked by everyone at the buildings. He knew and took time to talk to everyone from the shoe shine guys to executives. He will be dearly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Gordon and your family.
Lisa Hensley Lewis
October 26, 2010
Dear Scalley Family,
May your faith be your light during this difficult time. My deepest sympathies and prayers are with you. I, too, knew Tom from working at Crescent and through IREM. He was an outstanding young man. His wit, humor and intelligence will be missed by the many people whos lives he touched.
SHEA OSTERN
October 26, 2010
AMAZING MEMORIES OF ALL OF US THROUGH THE YEARS-NJ, THE CAPE, HOUSTON, TIKI AND SO CAL. I CAN NOT EVEN BEGIN TO EXPRESS THE SADNESS. IN LOVING MEMORY OF TOMMY.
Todd Dittmann
October 26, 2010
To the Scalley Family,
I am very sorry to hear of Tom's passing and pray that you are strengthened in faith, hope and love. Tom was a great guy with whom I shared a floor in the Continental building. You have my condolences and deep sympathy,
Rose Hernandez
October 26, 2010
To Tom's Family,
Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss. I know Tom through the local IREM chapter and am deeply saddened by his unexpected passing. He was always such a friendly face with a kind word and great sense of humor. We will miss him. May your loving memories give you comfort and God provide you with strength and peace during this difficult time. With deepest sympathy,
Ashley Evans
October 26, 2010
Scalley Family,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Tom. I have so, so many great and wonderful memories at IREM Events, sports outings, and much more. He will truly be missed. I will keep you and your son in my thoughts and prayers.
October 26, 2010
Mel, I am very sorry and sad for your loss. I really enjoyed working with Tom these past few years and I will miss him dearly. God Bless You and Gordon. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Veronica Gutierrez
Donna Messina
October 26, 2010
To The Scalley Family
I am sorry for your loss. Tom was an associate at Crescent and a good man. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God provide strenght and peace and your memories lift you in you time of sorrow.
Diana Bagley
October 26, 2010
My thoughts and prayers go out to you, your son and the rest of the family. I worked with Tom at Crescent and it saddens me to hear of his untimely departure. Take care and my deepest sympathies.
Karin Read
October 26, 2010
Dear Melanie,
My heart goes out to you and your family. I am deeply sorry for your loss and keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Kathy Duffy-Mosquera
October 26, 2010
Dear Scalley Family,
No words can say how deeply sorry we are for your loss. Hope the love and prayers of friends and family will bring you some comfort at this tragic time.
Love and prayers,
Kathy Duffy and The Duffy Family (Denville,NJ)
Joanna Ruiz
October 26, 2010
Melanie, I am so very sorry for your loss. I have no words to express my shock and sadness for you. If you need anything, please let me know. You are in my thoughts and prayers and have my deepest sympathy.
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