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Janet I Plotkin Bornstein
April 23, 2025
Thinking of Kate's sweetness, gentleness, kindness through all the years. May she be resting in peace.
Sarah Antine
April 27, 2023
I hope your fond memories of Kate will give you comfort.
Janet I Plotkin Bornstein
April 23, 2023
Kate's Light shines as brightly and strong as ever.
With loving memories forever
Janet I Plotkin Bornstein
April 23, 2022
I cannot believe it is 6 years since Kate's passing. After all these years, Kate's sweet, thoughtful, caring and most gentle presence stays with me.
Always in our hearts.
Sarah Antine
April 23, 2019
I remember many experiences I had with Kate since she was my good friend. She came to Shabbat dinner many times and to the most profound Seder discussion at our apartment. We lived close by.
I was in the MFA program at Hunter with her. I went to an elementary school with her to hear her read her poems to students about the sea. I loved her Marine Snow poem and her puffer fish poem. These were well researched poems that taught about the sea as they entertained. I can still imagine her voice and expressive performance style when she read. At the end of her performance A group of students came up and hugged her. As we left, she told me how much she enjoyed reading to the children and it was meaningful to her that her poems were appreciated.
I remember a poem she wrote and shared around the table at Hunter called skipping, which was about her experience skipping a grade in school because she already knew how to read.
I remember a poem she wrote that was in the style of a letter from her father, who had been an English professor but had had a stroke or an illness. The poems lines got shorter and shorter until the last word was like a string. Now it reminds me of a kite, tethered by her words to the earth, yet flying above us.
She was such a talented poet embodying formal poetry in a way that was conversational and thus totally new, writing sonnets reminiscent of Shakespeare, using language as a symbol of the catch in your throat when you grieve. and yet and yet and yet...
I miss her very much.
Love,
Sarah Antine
JANET Plotkin Bornstein
April 23, 2019
I often think about Kate...her sweet, gentle, kind and oh so caring ways!
Very much missing our Laundry Room conversations....
I cannot believe it is 2 years!
October 29, 2016
I would appreciate any information on memorial services. I knew Kate well
and will miss her greatly. Peter Van Dewater [email protected]
Janet Bornstein
June 21, 2016
I knew Kate as her neighbor in her apt. Building on the Upper Westside of Manhattan. Although we hadn't known each other well, we talked about her health, her work and various other matters, at moments when we would happen to be in the laundry room together. Kate was the sweetest, most gentle and most humble of them all. I am so saddened to have learned tonight of her passing. My heartfelt condolences to Kate's family and loved ones.
Janet
[email protected]
Jeff Hoon
May 10, 2016
Dot:
Our deepest sympathy and prayers go out to you. How hard it is to lose a beloved daughter.
Sincerely
Jeff and Patricia Hoon
Will Heath
May 8, 2016
So sorry to hear about Kate's passing. Deepest sympathies from the Heath family.
May 6, 2016
Dotty I am so sorry to read of your loss. My heart goes out to you.
Carole Curtis
Alice Anderson
May 4, 2016
I am a friend of Dotty Light (from WALLA) and knew Martin from the Purdue English Department...my condolences to the family/friends of Kate Light...my thoughts and prayers are with you...
Sarah Antine
May 2, 2016
Kate befriended me in the MFA program at Hunter College. She was a dear trusted friend who came to seder at my apartment and walked with me in Central park when I was having contractions. I just called and she came.
- Sarah Antine
Nanci Johnson
May 2, 2016
I knew Kate as a child when we went to elementary school together.Even then it was so clear how creative and talented she was. What I remember the most though was what a kind and loving spirit she had.I can only imagine how many lives she touched. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends.
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