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Marjorie Snyder
November 16, 2016
Tish came to Kalamazoo College in 1953, the year I was born. K was the only school I got into so it seems our paths were destined to cross. I had no idea when I showed up in her office in 1971 to tell her I wanted to play on the tennis team that she would become for me, as well as for many many other student athletes, my teacher, role model, mentor, and friend.
Since tennis wasn't till the spring, she instantly tried to recruit me for her field hockey team. I said no I am not wearing a skirt to play sports and went out for swimming instead.
Thank goodness she didn't hold it against me when a friend and I went to her office in the late Fall with the notion that we wanted to start a women's basketball team and we thought it would be a fine idea for her to be our coach. We didn't really think about the fact that she already had a fulltime job as a teacher, coach and administrator or that she wouldn't be paid for doing it or that she'd have to find money somewhere to fund the team (perhaps from her own pocket), or that she didn't have any training as a basketball coach, or that she might have a personal life. She just jumped right in and made it happen. As she made so many things for female athletes just happen when there was very little institutional or cultural support to do so. Suddenly there would be resources for new uniforms, or equipment, or money for a trip to nationals. Tish was nothing if not resourceful, persistent, and generous.
At the start of the tennis season, Tish said she fully expected me to be number one on the team. This was my first lesson in having her set the bar high. I instantly settled into number four. She never stopped pushing me though, and eventually I made it. I loved her faith in us as athletes, her pride in the execution of a great shot and her talent for teaching a new skill. She made me want to be better. As my teammate Vicky Stromee recalled, She was surely a force and an inspiration in our young lives.
Tish gave her all to us. She was passionate and intense. One day at practice before an important field hockey match with Olivet (yes, she did finally get me to join the field hockey team), she was unhappy with our effort. She grabbed a teammate's stick and began imitating a particularly talented Olivet player, showing us what was going to happen to us if we didn't work hard. In the process, she wrenched her knee and was in obvious pain but she was so angry with us that she stood there stoically leaning on the stick until the end of practice, continuing to push us to be our best. It was only the next day that we found out she had torn her ACL. And we did beat Olivet.
She had such confidence and belief in us and what we could achieve in life. She hired me as the Women's Basketball Coach at K when I was 23 and had no experience as a coach. I spent many hours in her office picking her brain about how to effectively coach. I wanted my players to want to play for me as I had wanted to play for her. It's no accident that I became a coach, went to the same graduate school as she did, and have spent most of my professional life advocating for equitable sports opportunities for girls and women. Tish was my role model and champion.
She always supported my educational and career pursuits, had an enthusiastic interest in the work I was doing and remained a staunch Title IX advocate to the end.
She was also just plain fun to be around. Quick with a laugh and the unmistakable trademark twinkle in her eyes. She had a naturally happy face with the kind of smile lines that all of us aspire to. You just felt good around her.
I am so grateful that I could spend some quality time with her in the past few years. Sharing my work, listening to her analyze the current state of K College athletics and the world, walking in her garden, talking about art. She never stopped being the coach telling me what I was doing wrong on the golf course, how to fix my swing, suggesting strategy. She was engaged in life and maintained friendships with many of her students and players long after they left K.
I will miss her terribly but feel so fortunate to have crossed paths with her so early in my life so that I had decades to develop under her watchful and supportive eye. I know many of you do as well.
Rest in peace Tish.
Amie Tyler
October 3, 2016
I will always remember her laugh and sense of humor. She was a great coach to me and many others. I have a lot of great memories of playing tennis at K with her.
September 29, 2016
I met Tish 50 years ago, what a dedicated person all her life. She was ONE of a kind person that only comes along once in a lifetime!
Chris Ballingall
Meegan Holland
September 28, 2016
A groundbreaker at K-College. My condolences.
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