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Richard Bolender Obituary

Bolender, Richard R. "Dick" Saturday, December 10, 2011, age 68 years. Loving husband for 45 years and best friend for 53 years of Christine E. Bolender (nee Keyes). Proud father of Michael (Kim) Bolender and Lisa (Rob) Reid. Devoted grandfather of Brittany, Cindy, Brianna, Taylor, Robby and Madison. Also survived by brothers-in-law, sisters-in-law, cousins and other relatives and friends. Visitation Wednesday, December 14, from 12:00 PM until 5:45 PM at ST. STEPHEN CATHOLIC CHURCH, 1441 W. Oakwood Rd., Oak Creek, followed by the Mass of Christian Burial at 6:00 PM. Dick served the city of Oak Creek for 10 years as Alderman and Mayor, but is best known for being a loving husband, father, grandfather and a loyal friend to many. Dick was an organ donor, Memorials to Wisconsin Tissue Bank appreciated. HERITAGE FUNERAL HOMES Johnson Reiss Klemmer Scheuerell Tyborski (414)761-2750 Guest Book and Directions www.heritagefuneral.com

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel on Dec. 13, 2011.

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Linda Prodoehl

December 18, 2011

Dear Bolender Family,
I used to work at Walgreens in South Milwaukee and in Cudahy many years ago, and I think it was in Cudahy I would wait on Mr. Bolender. He would bring in rolls and rolls and rolls of film ( this was before he was Mayor.)and he was always very particular about the pictures being done, and I remember when I first started waiting on him he would SCARE me a little bit because if the pictures werent done right he was a little angry and frustrated,(sometimes the photos would get lost or done wrong). But then once I got to know him and I knew what the pictures were for and how important the pictures were to him,and for his line of work, he was a PLEASURE to wait on. I remember asking what the pictures were for and when he told me I understood the importance. In my 20 some years with Walgreens I must say Mr. Bolender was one of my FAVORITE customers I took care of.I worked at alot of different stores in my 20 years and the customers I took care of in that time I remember the ones that meant the most and the ones you could talk to and when you saw them you could say "Hey Mr or Mrs.So and So, How are things going" and Mr. Bolender was one of those customers of mine.He always treated me with Respect. My Deepest Sympathy, Thoughts and Prayers go out to the WHOLE Bolender Family, I am so VERY SORRY for YOUR LOSS.
Sincerely,

Staci Maiman

December 17, 2011

Dear Chris,
I have not seen you since we worked together in South Milwaukee, but I am thinking of you and wish to extend my deepest condolences. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May you find comfort in your fond memories of your husband, father and grandfather.

Steven Correll

December 15, 2011

Dear Chris,Mike and Lisa
I would just like to say that richard was a father figure to me when i was younger.Growing up i learned a lot of lessons from him that have helped me through my life.He will be deeply missed and my thought and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time.

Deepest Sympathy
Steven Correll
Oshkosh Wisconsin

Darlene and Mark Kalinowski

December 14, 2011

Dear Chris and family
We were so sorry to hear about Dick. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

John Hohenfeldt

December 14, 2011

Dear Bolender Family:

My deepest sympanty on the loss of Mayor Richard. I had the pleasure of working with him as the Mayor of Cudahy from 2004 to 2007. He always looked out for the people of Oak Creek, and fought for the good of the masses, other communities in the region.

If more "politicians" were cut out of the fine fabric mold that Dick was, something may actual get done for the good.

He was a truly honorable man, a man of his word, and also a fun and fine person to talk to.

We have all suffered a great loss with his passing! Please everyone, keep him, and his family in your thoughts and prayers!

John Hohenfeldt

Mike & Kathi Tomic

December 14, 2011

Dear Chris & Family, the love you shared for each other, your family and the community will be a fond memory to all who are saddened by your loss of a great man. He served the City of OC so proudly and will be surely missed, but for what he accomplished, will be remembered by so many! It was a pleasure to know him. God Bless the Bolender's, past, present & future!

Gwen Spangler

December 14, 2011

Mike,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts.

Barb & Al Sprey

December 14, 2011

Dear Chris, We were very saddened to hear of Dick's passing. Please know that you and your family are in our hearts and our prayers.

Gail & John Perla

December 14, 2011

Dear Chris, Mike and Lisa,
Our deepest sympathy to you and your families. Dick was one of the first people I met when I started at American Family over 30 years ago. Dick always had that twinkle in his eye, a sense of humor, respect for others and endless love for his family! He has had an impact on us all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Deb & Rick Carriere

December 14, 2011

Dear Chris and Family: Our condolences on your loss. Dick was a great person and I think the City of Oak Creek benefited by having him as Mayor for the last 10 years. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

December 14, 2011

My deepest sympathies to Chris, Michael & Lisa. Your family was the only family on our little corner with children. I mostly remember the costumes Chris made every year for Mike & Lisa to go trick or treating. Also my youngest son for all the time he spent on the Bolender farm, Dick was always letting them come over to the farm. We were neighbors for 20 some years, but as time has passed you find out life goes on, so prayers are out to you Chris, Mike & Lisa. Your old neighbor now living in Fl. Darlene Correll.

Kristin Keller-Witchek

December 13, 2011

Dear Chris, Mike, Lisa, and family,
I was very sorry to hear about Dick's death...he was truly one of the most decent, loving, kind, giving and honorable people I have ever known. He was "A man among men". I will keep you all in my prayers in the days to come.
-Kristin

Mary & Brian Henry

December 13, 2011

Dear Chris, We were extemely shocked and saddened to hear the news about Dick. We just want you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Patrick and Joan McCarrier

December 13, 2011

Dear Chris and family, Our deepest sympathy for the loss of Dick. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Dick was a pleasure to know and will be missed. Take Care

Greg Blavat

December 13, 2011

Mary Ann and I wish to express our sincere condolences to Chris and the entire Bolender family on the passing of a great guy.

Patty Walsh

December 13, 2011

Dear Chris, Michael, Lisa & families: Our hearts go out to you upon the untimely passing of Uncle Dick. He will be greatly missed. You are all in our thoughts & prayers. Peace and love be with you...

Jim "The Big Kahuna" Kaluzny

December 13, 2011

Christine, Mike & Lisa,

My deepest sympathies to you and your families.

None of us have to tell what a special person Dick was!!

I am proud and honored to have had the pleasure of knowing Dick, by being friends with Mike, back in the St. Sylvester's days.

I also had the chance to speak/discuss numerous topics with him, while at WTMJ-Radio, as well as with GO Riteway Transportation Group-Oak Creek.

He will be greatly missed.

GOD bless all of you!!

December 13, 2011

Mrs. Bolenger and Family, We were sorry to here about your loved ones passing. He was a kind and compassionate man. A great mayor!! He will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you at this difficult time. Peace be with all of you.

MARY AND JIM MOORE (OAK CREEK,WI)

Mary Barrett

December 13, 2011

You were a fabulous advocate for the city of Oak Creek. I am glad I had the opportunity to work for you and also call you my friend. I will miss you. Mary Lee Barrett (Sara Lee)

Tanya (Tracy) Ryan

December 13, 2011

Deepest sypmathies to the Bolender family. I had the pleasure of working with Dick at American Family in Racine. He will be greatly missed.

Terri & Tom Ross

December 13, 2011

Lisa, and Family,
We are sorry to hear of the passing of your father. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. You all should be proud of the great work he has done for the City of Oak Creek. He will be missed!

December 13, 2011

Christine & Family - Jane and I offer our sympathies to all of you on your loss of Dick. You probably don't remember us but I was responsible for the his hiring at Am. Family back in the late 60's in Milw. We transferred to Il. in '71, In. in 75 & then returned to my hometown of Marshfield in 1978 - Agt. for 7 yrs. & then started an Ind. Agency in 1985. I just retired in July selling the Agency to my son & son-in-law.
I have many good memories of our days playing softball together. Now both Dick and Jim Wink (probably many others who I am not aware of) have passed their earthly lives - all too soon. Again, our sympathies - Dick did well in life and am sure he passed on many of his fine qualities to his children who have obviously been very successful in life. May the Lord grant all of you strength in overcoming your tremendous unexpected loss. JIM & JANE SCHALOW M330 FELTON LANE MARSHFIELD, WI. 54449

Vicky Cassista

December 13, 2011

I will miss you, you were a great friend.

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