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Gary Wenke Obituary

Wenke, Gary D. Sr., retired Bimbo Bakery Truck Driver and military veteran, passed away Saturday, Nov. 29, 2014, Gary was born Oct. 18, 1949, in Wichita to Francis (Frank) Wenke, Sr. and Charladine L. Wenke. He graduated from Wichita East High School in 1967. Gary married Patricia "Jan" Reamy on May 3, 1971. Gary served in the United States Marine Corps and the Kansas Army National Guard. Preceded in death by his parents and grandson, Taelor Gage. Survived by his wife, Jan; his son, Gary Jr. (Jacque); grandchildren, Jakob and Jenna; his daughter, Erin; and grandson, Alex; his siblings, Frank Jr., Judy Reimer, Roy Wenke, and Cheryl Rowland. Visitation will be held on Friday, Dec. 5, 2014, at 9 a.m.; with funeral services at 10 a.m., both at Westview Baptist Church, 1325 S. Meridian, Wichita, KS 67213. Interment at Greenwood Cemetery following the service. Memorial to: The Wounded Warrior Project, 4899 Belfort Road, Suite 300, Jacksonville, FL 32256.

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Published by Wichita Eagle from Dec. 3 to Dec. 4, 2014.

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December 14, 2014

To, first Gary's imediate family, I almost flipped..Gary and Stanley looks so much alike, also Eva, facial features quite abit alike, sorry we did not make contact with him, while in Wichita..But, we were sadden, learning that he had died. Much LOVE and HUGS to all of you...Marguerite Shutts Bundick...

David Gertz

December 5, 2014

We all have lost with the death of Gary. He was a special person that could brighten the day with his grin and I don't think that he ever met a stranger. My brothers and me have known the Wenke boys for a long time and his passing was a loss to the family.

December 5, 2014

Gary Wenke Family,
We have two ways of remembering those who leave us, as they begin their final journey. We cry over their absence, or smile, remembering them through the countless memories that are left behind... I am sure Gary would want us to smile forever. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times as you celebrate a life well lived. Stay strong. Mike Jackson, friend /co-worker

The Wenke Family

December 4, 2014

On behalf of the family, we thank you for all the kind words and prayers. It is very heart warming to know that he touched so many lives. We appreciate it!

Glenda & Larry Campbell

December 4, 2014

We are sorry to hear of Gary's death. We pray you and the family will find peace and strength in God's love. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Major Justin Rutledge

December 4, 2014

You will definitely be missed, but your service to this great nation will never be forgotten.

SHEILA POWELL (FORMERLY DUES)

December 4, 2014

I remember how kind he was when I was on the IED lane prior to hitting ground in Iraq. He was compassionate, funny, and had a great love for people. My condolences to his family--please know your loved one was a professional soldier who always put others first.

SSG Kerry Hurd

December 4, 2014

Oh how you will be missed. I remember you bringing me my potato bread and all of our long talks in the supply room. I will see you in Heaven my friend.

MSG Retired David Kennedy

December 4, 2014

I served with Gary for many years in the Kansas Army National Guard. He was my right hand man when it came to drawing and turning in ammunition. Always had a positive can do attitude and ready to go the second mile. He just stopped in my office a few weeks ago just to say Hi. Maybe he was really saying goodbye.

Dennis Travis

December 4, 2014

Through out life you meet people that you just know are special. Gary will always be on my list of these people. The impact of his passing will be felt by many. I consider myself lucky to know the Wenke family and share the sorrow of Gary's passing with you all.

Alecia Benn Smith

December 4, 2014

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Gary Sr. always had a smile and a welcoming attitude whenever entering his home.

December 4, 2014

Cheryl, so sorry for your family's loss. {In grief I will not say "He is no more" but in thankfulness I will say "He was."
Thoughts and prayers are with you. Dorothy

Sherri Kirkwood

December 4, 2014

I had only known Gary a few months, but I've know Frank Jr and Roy my whole life. Everytime I saw Gary he was always mowing the lot between the houses. I'm so very sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

AP Besser, Jr.

December 3, 2014

Gary would stop by the office after work to see how I was doing. A man who cared about others, especially his soldiers, before himself. Our loss is heaven's gain!

Beth Ann Crozier-Dodson

December 3, 2014

Erin, Mike and I are so sad for you and your family over the loss of your Dad. Thinking of you and sending love.

Rex Abrahams

December 3, 2014

Dear Jan and family,
My sincere condolences on Gary's passing. I always enjoyed working with him at ETS. He was a hard worker and took great pride in his work. I know he will be missed. My sympathies.

Lynn Nash

December 3, 2014

I knew Gary from Faith Baptist Church. He always had a smile and was a very kind Man. Thank you for serving our Country Gary, may your rewards in Heaven be great.

Jan Eaton

December 3, 2014

Gary and Jacque, So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

James Scott

December 3, 2014

Gary was a great guy and always had a positive attitude. I met and worked with him in Iraq. He was always a guy you could talk to at anytime. He will be missed. RIP my brother in arms and see you in heaven.

SFC Bruce Laffery

December 3, 2014

I served with SGT Wenke in Iraq. He was a good man and a great Soldier. I am proud to have served with him. My condolences to the family.

Gene Longberg

December 3, 2014

Knew Gary when he served with the 242nd Eng. Co. He was a great guy and will be missed by all. Condolences to his family.

December 3, 2014

Gary was a great man to have served with. Prayers are with him and the family. God bless an keep you all, and bring you peace.

Sergeant First Class Moreno

December 3, 2014

Terrible loss... To his family- please know that Gary was the best guy & soldier ever! That great smile of his and his genuine care for soldiers & mission will never be matched. He was a great mentor to the junior soldiers and had such a great attitude, I normally don't sign these things or on FB, but had to let you know what a great impact he made on me and every person he dealt with, God bless you and him.

December 3, 2014

Gary and Jacque, so sorry for your loss especially tough this time of year. Thinking of you, and hoping your family has a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. Love, Terry Aramburu

Dad and the love of his life.

Gary Wenke, Jr.

December 3, 2014

Dad and his brothers and sisters.

December 3, 2014

Dad as a young boy, same great smile!

Gary Wenke, Jr.

December 3, 2014

Dad's famous smile!

Gary Wenke, Jr.

December 3, 2014

Dad in Florida fishing trip.

Gary Wenke, Jr.

December 3, 2014

Terese Davis

December 3, 2014

Our condolences for the Wenke family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Daughter of Carl Jones (Neighbor) Gary will be missed by all.

Sgt Benjamin Lewis

December 3, 2014

I served this man in the military for several years he's a great friend and always think of him as one of my family membersI will miss him so much until we meet again in the heaven

Chad Willcutt

December 3, 2014

I met him when I arrived at the unit on South Seneca, very funny guy and I loved talking with him, just a shame hes gone.

Emilia's Restaurant

December 3, 2014

Gary we loved you. So sorry for your loss. Lots of prayers.

Paul Blattner

December 3, 2014

Worked with Gary at Sara Lee / Bimbo Bakeries for 6 years. He was a great person, and a great employee, usually out-working those who were much younger than him. He always had a smile on his face and a positive attitude, regardless of the situation. Very sorry to hear of his passing.

Terry Murray

December 3, 2014

Met Gary on our deployment to Iraq, never met a man that could keep such a positive attitude in such a negative situation! I am proud to know Gary and call him my friend. Use to run into him on the turnpike at truck stops and it always made my day to get the chance to talk to him and catch up. God bless you brother!!! You are loved and will be missed!!!

Danny Lawson

December 3, 2014

I worked with Gary for many years at ETS Graphics. He was not afraid of hard work, long hours, and he was always was smiling and laughing. Everybody I know liked Gary! My condolences to his family as they face this difficult time.

Bob Linnebur

December 3, 2014

To the Wenke Family, sorry for your loss.

Bub & Linda Lovelady

December 3, 2014

Frank, just learned of Gary's untimely passing and wanted to express our sincere sympathy to you and the rest of your family. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Love you, Bub and Linda Lovelady

Patty and Brent Schmidt

December 2, 2014

Worked the warehouse in Kansas city and talked to Gary whenever I saw him. Nicest guy you could ever meet. Always a smile on his face. Gonna miss him. So sorry for your loss. Good man. Prayers for your family.

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