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Alben Detel Jr.

1949 - 2019

Alben Detel Jr. obituary, 1949-2019, Independence, MO

BORN

1949

DIED

2019

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Royer's New Salem Funeral Home - Independence

1823 N Blue Mills Rd

Independence, Missouri

Alben Detel Obituary

Alben ""Sonny"" Detel, Jr., 70, of Independence, Missouri, died peacefully at home on May 24, 2019, surrounded by his family. Sonny was born in Kansas City, Missouri, on January 27, 1949. He grew up in Sugar Creek, Missouri, and attended Van Horn High School. In 1967 he began working at the Area Transportation Authority (ATA). After 43 years of service there, Sonny retired as a Senior Diesel Technician. Many of his years at the ATA were devoted to training employees on building transmissions and engines. Sonny's real passion was helping others. You never had to ask him-he was just there, helping those in need, even people he did not know. Whether shoveling a driveway for an elderly neighbor or working on your car, he loved helping and never accepted anything in return. He was also known for his ability to build and repair almost anything. Sonny's generous spirit will be greatly missed.
Sonny was preceded in death by his parents Alben and Velma Detel and 2 sisters. Sonny is survived by his wife Robin, of the home, children Troy Detel, Shauna Caylor, Brian Detel (Heidi), Trecia Moore (Malcolm), Chris Moore, and Tana Detel. Sonny is also survived by his 5 grandchildren and his 3 siblings. Friends and family will gather on Saturday, June 1, 2019, from 12:00 p.m. to 3:00 p.m., at 1006 S.W. Crystal Creek Pl. Blue Springs, MO, to visit, tell stories, and celebrate Sonny's life.

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Published by Kansas City Star on May 29, 2019.

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Robin Detel

May 23, 2023

It´s been four years now since you´ve been gone. I miss you now. Just as much as when you left me you´ve missed so much the grandkids growing up. I wish you were here with us. I love you so very much till we meet again all my love.

Robin Detel

May 23, 2022

It´s been three years since you left me. I´ve missed you so much. I just don´t know what to say, I want to be with you so much. I´m sorry that I didn´t say all the things I needed to say before you left me. It has been 40 years ago on May 12, 2022 that you came into my life. I always said we´d make it 40 years but we didn´t I love you so much Sonny, As I write this tears are running down my cheeks.
Happy anniversary Dear May 11, I know you are all around me I feel it each minute of each day. I love you with all my heart and soul. Remember what you told me before you left me (you will be waiting at the gate´s for me when it´s my time to go.) I pray to our Dear Lord to reunite us soon. I send you all my Love with a kiss each morning and night.
Till we meet again my love.
Your wife. Robin

Robin Detel

May 23, 2021

Sonny, It has been two years now that your earthly body has departed from me but I know in my heart that your heavenly spirit has been with me each and every day. Our dear Jesus Christ knows how much I have missed you I talk with both of you each minute of the day for you both are with me I know this! I have been ready to meet our Lord Jesus for sometime now and to be with you again my dear sweet husband that day will come and what a wonderful day that will be. Amen

Robin Detel

August 30, 2019

Robin Detel

August 30, 2019

Robin Detel

August 30, 2019

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Mary Detel Chapman

May 31, 2019

I have many childhood memories of Sonny. He was one of a kind and will be missed. Prayers for Sonny's family. R.I.P. ❤

Barry Pair

May 29, 2019

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Robin Detel

May 29, 2019

I will always love you my dear sweet husband.

Robin Detel

May 29, 2019

I will love you always

Sandy DeSchepper

May 29, 2019

So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Rhonda (Gilmore) Shields

May 29, 2019

I am so sorry. I remember so many good times when we were little and my grandfather came to visit from California. Prayers for all of you.

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