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Harold Arthur Souther Jr.

1945 - 2019

Harold Arthur Souther Jr. obituary, 1945-2019, Kansas City, MO

Harold Souther Obituary

Harold Arthur (Hal) Souther Jr. Harold Arthur (Hal) Souther, Jr., 74, of Overland Park, Kansas, died September 20, 2019 at The Forum of Overland Park. Hal was born February 19, 1945 to Betty June (Cumbie) and Harold Souther, Sr. in Norfolk, Virginia. He graduated from North Kansas City High School in Kansas City, Missouri and obtained a B.A. degree from the University of Missouri at Columbia, later earning additional graduate hours. Soon after college Hal entered the U.S. Air Force, where he served as a meteorologist during the Vietnam War. A nearly 30-year career followed in medical sales and management, his easy manner and gentle sense of humor endearing him to colleagues and clients alike. On March 27, 1976 Hal married Mary Denise (Dennie) Oades. They lived in Kansas City, Plantation, Florida and Austin, Texas, where they welcomed their children Carolann and Richie, later returning to the Kansas City area in 1999. Hal loved tearing down and building back up every house he lived in, making each home more beautiful and welcoming. He also enjoyed offering his skills at St John's United Methodist Church and the Neighbor2Neighbor ministry. He participated in the men's ministry and taught Disciple Bible Study at his church, the United Methodist Church of the Resurrection. Hal was a car enthusiast and especially enjoyed revamping his Cutlasses and displaying them in car shows around town. He loved traveling and spending time with family. He was the unofficial photographer for the Oades and Souther families for 38 years. One of Hal's great qualities was acceptance of others. He was a kind, humorous, non-judgmental man, and a loving son, brother, husband, father, grandfather, and brother-in-law. Hal is survived by his former wife, Dennie Oades, his daughter and son-in-law, Carol and Scott Lewis, his son and daughter-in-law, Richie and Nicole Souther, eight beautiful grandchildren who loved their PaPa: Lilly, Abby, Austin, Liam and Amelia Lewis, and Teagen, Colin, and Quinn Souther; and many loving in-laws, nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents and his sister, Lynn J. Souther. Services will be held Saturday, November 9 in the Wesley Chapel (Bldg. C) of the United Methodist Church of the Resurrection, 13720 Roe Ave., Leawood, KS 66224. Visitation begins at 9:30 AM, followed by a memorial service at 10:30 AM. Hal's cremains will be buried at the Highland Cemetery of Prairie Village. Memorials are suggested to the Heart of America Chapter of the Alzheimer's Association (3846 W 75th St #4126, Prairie Village, KS 66208), Garden Terrace Nursing Home (7541 Switzer, Overland Park, KS 66214), or Great Lakes/Elara Caring Hospice (9233 Ward Pkwy Ste 201, Kansas City, MO 64114). The family is grateful for the compassionate care provided by staff at each of these organizations.

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Published by Kansas City Star from Nov. 2 to Nov. 3, 2019.

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Joy Souther Cullen

October 27, 2023

It was good to remember my cousin, Hal Jr. today and read the story of his life. My brother, his cousin, Billy Bob Souther, loved to remodel "homes and churches." He is in heaven as well. Billy's son, William Souther Shannon, loves to restore cars. Guess the Souther genes appear in various times and places. Love to Dennie and the family. Joy Souther Cullen

Joy Souther Cullen

October 27, 2021

Hal Jr. was one of two boy cousins . . . Bobby Moyer, son of our Aunt Bernice Souther Moyer Kermode, who I proably saw only a couple of times in my life. One summer he lived with my family in Dallas, Texas. Then there was Hal Jr. who I first saw when he was born to Harold and Betty Souther. My best meories of Hal are those as adults . . . a visit to their home in Florida ??? and then a wedding in Texas and that wonderful supper together with Dennie and Bob at Margiannos in Dallas. I'm glad for this reminder today of a sweet man, my cousin.

Bill Blaylock

March 22, 2021

Please accept this very belated codolence on your lose of Hal.

I knew Hal as a freshman at Baylor Univiersity in the 1963-64 year. He lived a few doors down from me in the dormitory. We became close friends. The obit and the postings were comforting to read. They reinforce that he was the Hal I knew. We were both car guys. He used to talk incessantly about his pre-WWII Ford and all he did to bring it back to life. I saw Hal twice after that freshman year. Once he drove down with a college friend, maybe about 1966. And another time he came down when his sister was just starting Baylor, visiting for maybe a day.

Best regards to all of you.

Bill Blaylock
469 569 3638
[email protected]

Joy, Bob, Jane, John, Julie & Cathereine Cullen

Joy Souther-Cullen

November 4, 2019

Hal Jr. was my cousin. I remember when he was born. I was just 4. His dad, Harold Souther Sr., was "my dad" for many years after his older brother, Billy Souther, died. My children and I were sharing memories last night of the times they met Hal and Dennie. We were home on furlough from SE Asia - that making visits through the years very few. I do know that Hal made a visit to Southwestern Seminary on the day our son graduated. As he walked down the aisle of the chapel, I thought it was my dad coming down. That's how much Hal looked like dad. My last memory of being with Hal and Dennie was several years ago when we met for dinner at Margianno's in Dallas. I don't know if his children's wedding was before or after - but the dates don't matter - just the memories. So we Cullen-Southers are grieving the loss with Dennie and the children. There's a great reunion in heaven one of these days.

November 3, 2019

Remembering Hal

He was a delightful, caring, life loving man. We are blessed with so many happy memories of Hal. He was a bright light in the world. His presence always came with a hug and a big infusion of love and caring most often delivered in a vintage Cutlass convertible. That presence will be greatly missed.

One evening he told a group of close friends that, when he died, he wanted us to sit him on his Harley and head him down the MOPAC freeway . We all laughed. Little did we know back then that Alzheimers would take him away from his family years before he died. During his last trip to Austin it was clear that he had difficulty remembering some things, and I was so glad that Dennie brought him to Austin so that we could see him one more time before he became unable to know us. It was a gift to be with him.

My heart is sad for Dennie, Richie and Nicole Souther, Carolann and Steve Lewis and the beautiful grandchildren Lilly, Abby, Austin, Liam and Amelia Lewis, and Teagen Lewis, and Colin, and Quinn Souther whom he loved so dearly. I love you all and know the pain of loss
is hard to bear.

You are all in my prayers as you grieve your beloved grandfather, father and dear former spouse and friend. i grieve with you and ask that God wrap you in his arms and bless you
with peace and assurance in this time of loss.

With Love and Deepest Sympathy,

Jane Walters

Jane Walters

November 3, 2019

Remembering Hal

He was a delightful, caring, life loving man. We are blessed with so many happy memories of Hal. He was a bright light in the world. His presence always came with a hug and a big infusion of love and caring most often delivered in a vintage Cutlass convertible. That presence will be greatly missed.

One evening he told a group of close friends that, when he died, he wanted us to sit him on his Harley and head him down the MOPAC freeway . We all laughed. Little did we know back then that Alzheimers would take him away from his family years before he died. During his last trip to Austin it was clear that he had difficulty remembering some things, and I was so glad that Dennie brought him to Austin so that we could see him one more time before he became unable to know us. It was a gift to be with him.

My heart is sad for Dennie, Richie and Nicole Souther, Carolann and Steve Lewis and the beautiful grandchildren Lilly, Abby, Austin, Liam and Amelia Lewis, and Teagen Lewis, and Colin, and Quinn Souther whom he loved so dearly. I love you all and know the pain of loss
is hard to bear.

You are all in my prayers as you grieve your beloved grandfather, father and dear former spouse and friend. i grieve with you and ask that God wrap you in his arms and bless you
with peace and assurance in this time of loss.

With Love and Deepest Sympathy,

Jane Walters

November 3, 2019

Remembering Hal

He was a delightful, caring, life loving man. We are blessed with so many happy memories of Hal. He was a bright light in the world. His presence always came with a hug and a big infusion of love and caring most often delivered in a vintage Cutlass convertible. That presence will be greatly missed.

One evening he told a group of close friends that, when he died, he wanted us to sit him on his Harley and head him down the MOPAC freeway . We all laughed. Little did we know back then that Alzheimers would take him away from his family years before he died. During his last trip to Austin it was clear that he had difficulty remembering some things, and I was so glad that Dennie brought him to Austin so that we could see him one more time before he became unable to know us. It was a gift to be with him.

My heart is sad for Dennie, Richie and Nicole Souther, Carolann and Steve Lewis and the beautiful grandchildren Lilly, Abby, Austin, Liam and Amelia Lewis, and Teagen Lewis, and Colin, and Quinn Souther whom he loved so dearly. I love you all and know the pain of loss
is hard to bear.

You are all in my prayers as you grieve your beloved grandfather, father and dear former spouse and friend. i grieve with you and ask that God wrap you in his arms and bless you
with peace and assurance in this time of loss.

With Love and Deepest Sympathy,

Jane Walters

Janet Newland

November 2, 2019

I hold many happy memories of times with Hal in high school and in college. Those memories will always be mine....and hope to meet with Hal again some day in a better place. His life sounds so full and happy. God's blessings to Dennie and his children.

Judy Hayes

November 2, 2019

Our memories of Hal are timeless. So many joyfilled times together. When we think of him, we always smile.

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Nov

9

Visitation

9:30 a.m. - 10:30 a.m.

Wesley Chapel (Bldg. C) of the United Methodist Church of the Resurrection

13720 Roe Ave, Leawood, KS

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9

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10:30 a.m.

Wesley Chapel (Bldg. C) of the United Methodist Church of the Resurrection

13720 Roe Ave, Leawood, KS

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