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VIOLA ELDER July 2, 1924 - June 13, 2006 Viola Elder was born on July 2, 1924. Her parents were Pascal and Suebirta Conley. Viola had one sister, Juanita, and five brothers, Oscar, Roosevelt, Henderson, Thurman, and Houston. She was raised on the family far m in Tony, Alabama, right outside of Huntsville. After graduating from high school, Viola went to Talladega College in Talladega, Alabama. Viola worked in Washington, DC during World War II as a clerk typist for the Department of War. She also briefly worked as a typist for a Washington DC newspaper. She married Randolph Elder in 1947 at the age of 21. Randy and Viola moved to California in 1949 at which time her eldest son, Kirk, was born. Larry was born three years later. Her youngest child, Dennis, was born almost two years after that. Viola joined Western Knoll Congregational Church where she also taught Sunday School. She was a den mother for her sons' cub scout troop and also co-sponsored the cubs' related little league baseball team on which her sons played. The family started a cafe, Elder's Snack Bar, in the Pico-Union area of Los Angeles, in the early 1960s. After helping her husband get the restaurant up and going, Viola began working for the phone company as a clerk. Soon, she was p romoted to supervisor where she remained until she retired. Active in church and charitable organizations, Viola-an excellent seamstress-volunteered as a sewing instructor for a local public junior high school. In 1984, she served as a seamstress coordinator for the opening and closing ceremonies at the Los Angeles Olympics. She continued her church and community work for the rest of her life. Many people knew her as the Chief Justice of the Supreme Court because she appeared weekly on her son Larry's nationally syndicated radio show. For almost ten years, she brought charm, humor, and-most of all-commonsense to her hour-long Friday radio show appearance. Her radio work led to offers to appear in national television commercials. She appeared in a Kentucky Fried Chicken commercial and another for Kellogg's cereal. Viola also accepted speaking engagements and appeared on television talk shows. The Friday before she passed, a caller to Larry's radio show referred to Viola as "America's Mom." You c ould almost see her smile through the radio. When a close family friend learned of her death, he said, "She crackled with energy and I saw that every time I saw her. She was so observant and so thoughtful that I wish I could have been like that. I will miss her terribly." Viola leaves behind a large extended family, which includes beloved husband Randy, her sons, her daughter-in-law, her brothers, her grandchildren, her great grandchildren, as well as several cousins and other relatives.

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Published by Los Angeles Daily News on Jun. 16, 2006.

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Audie Daley

July 4, 2006

Dear Larry, Randolph, Kirk, Dennis & Family:

What a wonderful experience it was for me to meet Viola Elder last year! A few weeks ago, via "snail mail," I sent the Larry Elder website a letter and five photographs that I took of her at the Nixon Library.

At "Find A Grave," the Angel's Flower Garden has honored her with over 134 notes/flowers and letters of condolence. On July 2nd we celebrated her birthday.

Here's the website of the "Chief Justice of the Supreme Court" & "America's Mom."

Click here: Find A Grave: Viola Conley Elder (1924 - 2006)

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Best wishes,

Audie Daley (Algernon Lives Forever)

Laura Oreskovich

June 24, 2006

Dear Larry & Family,

Your mother, Chief Justice of the Supreme Court, was a wonderful example of living life to the fullest. I met you both at the Nixon Library and I was honored. I will miss her honest opinions. She made me smile and nod literally hundreds of times as I listened to her practical advice. I loved the way you treated her, your relationship is exactly what I would hope for with my children. She will be missed by millions.

Jim and Linda Gilman

June 21, 2006

Randy, Kirk, and Larry,

What a pleasure to have briefly met your mom, Larry and Kirk, at a KABC movie preview. She blessed our lives once a week for but a few minutes. How blessed you were to have had her for so many years. Though you'll miss her immeasurably, take comfort in the knowledge of where she is now - helping our Lord get everything ready for you.

ILONA ARMONI

June 21, 2006

For the family of Viola Elder.

My condolences for your profound loss.

Mrs. Elder will be sorely missed by so many who enjoyed her deep wisdom, dry humour, and too for never waivering in her position as a woman in the world. A woman who presented herself as a mother, who knew her love for her children was valuable not in her words, but in her deeds, a wife, a community member, and of couse as Chief Justice on Larry's show. Greatness is represented by character, values, dignity and does not make noise. Mrs Elder was a great woman, and her legacy lies in the countless lives that she has she touched.

Mike Callahan

June 21, 2006

Sorry to hear of your loss, Larry and family. Your mother bridged the old world of the rural South to today's world where we are personally impacted by fast moving international events. Her commonsense views were enjoyed and respected by myself and many others.

jane roberts

June 20, 2006

Larry, I met you in a Malibu restaurant one Sunday morning srveral years ago.You were very nice to my two sons and me. I loved listening to your mom because I had lost my own mom. Your closeness to her will give you great strength and peace throughout your life.

Michael Cannon

June 20, 2006

Larry-

My deepest condolences to you and your family, as hearing your tribute today to your mother on your radio show brought me to tears. We will all greatly,greatly miss her. God rest her wonderful heart and soul.

Stephanie Bell

June 19, 2006

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Jane Koetzner

June 19, 2006

Dear Larry, so sorry to learn of your dear mother's passing. My sympathy to you and your family. I have enjoyed listening to you and your Mom for years.

brian thompson

June 19, 2006

i 'am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. the world could use a couple of million more

people with her qualities.

may god bless and keep the elder family

JC Lewis

June 19, 2006

To The Elder Family: My heart skipped a beat upon learning of Mrs. Elder's passing. My condolences.

Pete Garcia

June 18, 2006

Mr. Elder, Kirk, Larry I'll miss talking with Viola every time I needed advice or when I just wanted to hear that one of a kind laugh. I spent 18 years of my second life with her and I'll truly miss that. My sister will miss her Sweet Potatoe pies at Christmas and my brother in law will definitely miss her chutney. But of course we will miss Viola the most. Kurt and Larry as we know you'll take great care of your dad. Send him my best.

Florentino Moreno Jr and Family

June 17, 2006

Our Condolences to you and all your family members on the passing away of your beloved mother

Suzy Brayton

June 17, 2006

You mother was truly elegant and beautiful. Her voice, wisdom and humor will be sorely missed.

Tom and Janelle McArthur

June 17, 2006

Sorry for your loss and our loss.

betty gilliam

June 16, 2006

You were so blessed to have such a wonderful mother.

Vida Vescera

June 16, 2006

So sorry to hear of your loss...we will all miss her. We are all the better for having known her...thank you for sharing such a wonderful person with us. Our thoughts are with you.

Ernestine Dobard-Hall

June 16, 2006

Sorry to hear of your loss, May God bless your family. A co-worker from the phone company.

Lessie Toney

June 16, 2006

May God bless your family. A co-worker from the phone company.

Mary Burr

June 16, 2006

I will also miss the Chief Justice. She always made Friday afternoons a little more enjoyable. Sincere condolences to you Larry, your father and the rest of your family. She sounded like a great lady.

Don and Bettie Matson

June 16, 2006

We send our sincere condolences to you and your family. We so enjoy listening to your show and will miss your Mother -- she was always a special bonus.

Take good care of your Dad - he will need you.

Marie Royal

June 16, 2006

Larry: Once when I tried to get near enough to you to get your book "The Ten Things You Can't Say in America" signed by you and was unsuccessful, on the way back to my seat, your mother graciously signed it Viola, AKA Chief Justice. We'll sure miss her on Fridays as I know you miss her already.

Rita Antonelli

June 16, 2006

Larry & the Elder Family - I always enjoyed listening to The Chief Justice for her words of wisdom on the current topics. She was down to earth and passed on to all of us how to live in this world as a human being. Please accept my sympathy.

Elizabeth Schoonover

June 16, 2006

Dear Larry and Family...I will miss your Mother(The Cheif Justice) She always made me smile...Stay strong and may God bless you and yours...A Fan....Elizabeth Schoonover...Hawthorne,Ca

Martha M. Ivey

June 16, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Perry and Kathy Bradshaw

June 16, 2006

Please accept our deepest sympathies. She was a great Mom.

William Cordero

June 16, 2006

My condolences to the Elder family. Although I did not know Mrs. Viola Elder personally, I looked forward to her weekly movie reviews, her wit and wisdom will be truly missed. May the lord bless and keep the Elder family close to his heart always.

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