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Mildred Trares Schaefer

1931 - 2020

Mildred Trares Schaefer obituary, 1931-2020, Glendale, CA

BORN

1931

DIED

2020

FUNERAL HOME

Forest Lawn - Glendale

1712 S. Glendale Avenue

Glendale, California

Mildred Schaefer Obituary

December 1, 1931 - January 9, 2019 Mildred Trares Schaefer, known to her friends as 'Millie', passed away peacefully at her home on January 9, 2020. Born to Edna and Florion Trares in Madison, Illinois, she was the youngest to her sister, Mary, and her brother, Edward.Her college years were spent at DePauw University, graduating in 1953. She would chuckle and sigh at the cost of colleges today, noting that hers was practically free.She was an accomplished actress, performing in over 30 stage and television shows. Her television career spanned two decades, appearing in productions by Alcoa Premiere, Hallmark Hall of Fame and CBS Playhouse.While auditioning for a role she met the love of her life, George Schaefer. George was a celebrated theater, television and film director and producer. They were married on February 6, 1954, and spent 43 years in bliss.She loved the theater and going to movies, and loved sharing stories about the artists in her life. She wrote a screenplay about her upbringing in Madison. Perhaps writing was her calling because she was prolific, sending notes, poems and letters to everyone on their birthday, holidays and anniversaries.And she was active-swimming and walking every day (her walks covered short trips to the market and long jaunts through the city).Could she sing? Like all outdoors! She was lead vocal in the DePauw University Choir. From her diminutive frame came forth a vibrant, bold and emotional voice.Millie possessed a wondrous quality of closing out the world in your presence, giving you singular attention, making one feel special. She was the true spirit of joy, forever positive, generous of heart, extending trust to all who knew her.Funeral services will be conducted at Forest Lawn Glendale on Saturday, January 18th. Memorial begins at 2:00pm – please arrive a half hour prior.In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made on her behalf to the School Of Music - Class of 1953. DePauw University, Greencastle, Ind. 46135.' . . . And flights of angels sing thee to thy rest. '

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Published by Los Angeles Times on Jan. 15, 2020.

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Betty Stein

January 9, 2023

Dearest Millie:

You are always in my mind..I miss you so much

rest in peace.

Betty Stein

January 9, 2022

2 years today ...I miss you so much dearest friend.

January 9, 2021

One year today, dearest Millie, and I miss you all the time..Betty

Elizabeth Bruner

April 7, 2020

I just heard about Aunt Millie's death. Since my father's passing we have only been in touch at holidays. She was a memorable woman!

Gordon Shriver

January 21, 2020

Millie and I had been friends and pen pals since 1997. I met her and George the year before when I visited their home to talk to him about Boris Karloff and his wife Evelyn, who were longtime cherished friends of theirs. (I later wrote a book about Boris, with George's memories of him included.) Millie and I started writing after George died, and we maintained it ever since. She was very supportive of my writing and shared so many memories of the people she and George knew and worked with. She, too, remembered my birthday every year, often including a poem she wrote for the occasion. I am sorry I will no longer see nor hear from Millie, but will always be grateful for having known her and being part of her life.

Cammy Wynne

January 21, 2020

Uncle George was my godfather. In almost 60 years of life, Millie never forgot my birthday or my wedding anniversary. She kept our family connection going all these years and I dearly loved and appreciated her for it.

Marcella Mee

January 15, 2020

Millie, you are a true dear friend. Thank you for all your love, laughter, and hours of your company at your kitchen table. You are deeply missed. Love Marcy

January 15, 2020

My dearest friend Millie since 1954.

I shall miss you forever...all our walks, weekly letters and shared love and caring.

God be with you..Betty

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