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Bobby Dwane Toten

1937 - 2019

Bobby Dwane Toten obituary, 1937-2019, Los Angeles, CA

BORN

1937

DIED

2019

Bobby Toten Obituary

August 10, 1937 - December 2, 2019 We are heartbroken and filled with ever-lasting love after the loss of our favorite family member. Bob, age 82, passed away surrounded by his family after battling cancer for the past 13 years. Bob was born in Corcoran, CA, and raised in OK by his parents Betty Jane & Aubrey Victor Toten. He is survived by his loving wife Darlene of 35 years. Their marriage was one of unconditional love and dedication. Sadly he leaves behind his daughters Heidi, Stacia & Tandi, stepchildren Susan, Mike & Mitzi, sisters Louise & Patsy, sons-in-law Rick, Luc & Glade, daughter-in-law Dana, grandchildren Mia, Steven, Quinn, Melissa, Marina, Martin, Dakota, Jesse, Glade Jr., Jason, Mateo, Sierra, Dillon, Max & Sarah, great-grandchildren, Juliette, Samantha, Jake, Carter & Chance aka "Little Toten," and the special people that came into Bob's life Gale, Clair & Jevon. Bob had many cousins, nieces, nephews and a large list of friends that will all miss him dearly. He was very devoted to his family who he loved and always made their hearts smile. He served in the US Navy on the USS Yorktown CV-10. He helped form a band called The Pastel Six and had popular hit songs such as "Cinnamon Cinder" and "Bandido." The band was the entertainment at the popular night club, Cinnamon Cinder, in North Hollywood, and at different venues. He played the acoustic and electric guitar, harmonica and piano. He had a painting company called "Bob Toten Painting" where he happily employed many of his relatives. Bob & Darlene formed a restaurant named "Blondie's," in Santa Fe Springs, where all their children worked. He was a customer favorite. He loved his animals: his horses Firecracker & Buckshot, his monkey Toby, his cat Blue, and his dogs Toby, Laddie, Kaddee and Maggie. Bob loved his cars, old & new. He had a vintage car collection for many years. He loved hockey, baseball, basketball, football, bowling and horse racing. He would always like making a family bet. Bob was so loved. His stories and jokes would make everyone laugh & smile. He always filled our hearts with so much love and joy. He was a special friend to all. Bob loved traveling in his motorhome along with Darlene, making sure a family member was always visited or would come along on the trip. He loved nature, animals and making new friends at every stop. After he was diagnosed with cancer, he continued to live his life active and happy in Heber City, Utah. Bob never gave up; he just kept living life to its fullest. At any event he remained the life of the party. Although his body couldn't keep up, his mind was always thinking of what he could do next. He started painting sculptures day and night as a hobby three years ago, leaving us with over 200 of his masterpieces. Our family is heartbroken; we will always keep his memory alive. He will be truly missed by so many. Remember, as Bob always said, "It's A Very Nice Dance!" We have an Angel smiling on us!! At this time the family will be having a private celebration of life. In lieu of flowers please donate to his favorite organization: www.echoesofhope.org.

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Published by Los Angeles Times on Dec. 21, 2019.

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Patsy Ragle Schena

January 27, 2025

Dearest Bob and Darlene, I'm so sorry to hear this, I loved you both dearly, you were very good to me, a kind and loving friend. You were wonderful to me and my children, always betting on football with Bowen, I spent several Thanksgiving's in your home in heber, much love to you all...
Patsy

Jim Bacarella

March 8, 2022

Bob was the Best Man at both of my Weddings !!!
Bob gave me my first job & I was his first employee BACK IN 1968 !!! where Bob, His wife, and me would clean offices all night & then go Paint houses & Apartments during the day ....I tried to find him for years & could not until now ...I wish that we could have spent more time together ..I used to live with him & his family in the apartment with Heidi & Stacy when they were just very young kids back then ...We all had great times together..We had our Wedding Reception at Blondies ...His Nephew was in my wedding party & Bob was my Best man for the 2nd time Anyway I truly miss him & think of him often if one of the family members reads this please call me as I would like to talk with you guys & I wish i could have been at least at the funeral anyway Please CALL Jim Bacarella @ 1-951-760-8412
I have been living in Palm Springs for the last 16 years
Hoping to hear from you guys real soon !!!

Dale Ray

December 27, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss. Bob and I were classmates in High School at Eakly, Oklahoma and very best friends. He was the best friend I ever had. We played basketball and baseball together and ran around in an old Model A Ford that Aubrey had bought to make a trailer, but we got it to run and had to either crank it or park on a slope and push it in order to start the engine. The only people I know in the obituary are Louise and Patsy. I have often thought of Bob over the years and severely regret that we lost touch after he went to the Navy and moved to California upon his discharge.

Heidi Kaufman

December 25, 2019

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Arvin Price

December 22, 2019

Bob was an awesome friend and will be missed dearly... never once did he not have a smile... God, please grant my friends peace at this time!

Kevin Clinton

December 21, 2019

I love and miss you Uncle Bob. You've always been one of my favorite people on the planet. You will never be forgoten.

Larry Jones

December 21, 2019

Uncle Bob you will live in our memory forever! You were there for us when Tami and I were first starting our lives together. You gave me my first full time job. You helped us rent our first apartment. You rented us our first house (next to the paint shop on Painter Ave.) We have fond memories from that time in life. I always enjoyed being with you at family gatherings, or meeting up with you at various places like Santa Anita or the casino's to bet on the ponies. Bob was a man of many talents and loved by all. Rest In Peace Uncle Bob!

Kim Black

December 21, 2019

Rest in Paradise, Uncle Bob.
You will be missed by so many. I remember as a little girl visiting you in L.A. When we got home, Dad played that song "Cinnamon Cinder" over & over for us. Such a catchy tune. Wonderful memories of visiting you in Heber also.
Sending Peace☮ & Love
To the whole family!!! What a Patriarch.......
Miss you.

Mark Marquez

December 21, 2019

My condolences to the family. Love and prayers being sent to everyone.

Steve Twersky

December 21, 2019

Bob was an exceptional human being that never had a bad word to say about anybody. He was devoted to his family each and every minute of each and every day. Although I have not seen him in a few years I was periodically reminded about his love for everything... cars, animals, Utah, family etc. by his son in law. He was one of those guys that you would love to hang around with and never want to leave. He will be sadly missed.

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