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David Sandor Obituary

December 21, 1942 - September 16, 2019 David Lawrence Sandor died peacefully in the early hours of September 16th at UCI Medical Center, after a courageous battle against a rare form of lymphoma. He is survived by his beloved wife Geri, his sons Andrew (Erzsébet Izsó) and Tim, his grandsons Sebestyén and Benedek, and his siblings Richard (Sally), Jon (Maryann), and Marjorie (Tracy). Born in San Antonio, Texas, to Andy and Jeanne Sandor on the winter solstice, 1942, he spent his childhood in Alhambra, California, in a multi-ethnic working class neighborhood he remembered all his life as a paradise for kids–no fences between backyards, and an arroyo that provided an endless sense of adventure until the call to come home at dusk. His passion for swimming and tennis developed through adolescence, and he became a competitive swimmer at San Marino High School, when the family moved there in 1957. He received his B.A. in Economics from Yale University, and his J.D. from the University of California, Berkeley School of Law (Boalt Hall)–his lifelong devotion to the Cal Bears is legendary. It was at Boalt, on the first day of classes, that he and Geri met and fell in love: within three weeks they knew they would marry, and did so at the end of their first year of law school. In 1969 they settled in Irvine, California, where they raised their two sons, practiced family law, and founded Shir-Ha-Ma'alot and later, University Synagogue–the latter of which David considered to be one of the great accomplishments of his life. For many years, David practiced law in Long Beach as a partner in the firm of Simon, McKenzie and Miller. Later, he and Geri formed their own firm. All along the way, the pair traveled widely to such faraway places as Asia, South America, South Africa, New Zealand, Iceland and Israel, and enjoyed, over the course of their fifty-four years together, an ever-widening circle of loving friends. David will always be remembered by his large extended family, friends and colleagues, as the definition of a "mensch"–a truly good and deeply generous man. He lives in our hearts.

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Published by Los Angeles Times on Sep. 18, 2019.

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rob norman

July 16, 2023

I owe David my life as it is today. He took over my divorce case and saved my relationship with my children. He will always have a special place in my thoughts and I owe my relationship with my children to him. If Andrew is anything like his dad, he'll be an excellent attorney.

Patty Mageno

July 22, 2020

I was so sad to hear of David's passing. I only discovered it when a friend asked for the name of the attorney I had during a very difficult divorce in 2003. David was so compassionate with my broken heart and beautifully zeroed in on what was most important to me as an outcome of the divorce; to be able to continue as a stay-at-home mom for my three young children. That was his most important goal during the process and because of his knowledge and hard work, he was able to accomplish so much more than either of us were hoping for. As we left the Long Beach courthouse, he told me "I have to say, in all of my years, I have never had a case settle so one-sided for my client. I don't know how that happened." I confidently told him I knew exactly how it happened. There was an army of Prayer Warriors supporting me, David, the judge, and even my ex-husband's attorney. God heard the prayers of many pleading for me and used David in a magnificent way to accomplish more than we could ask or hope. Because of David, my children continued to have one parent who was fully involved and present. That is worth more than all the money in the world. I will be eternally grateful for David kindness and calming demeanor through a difficult time.

Neil Goldschmidt

November 14, 2019

David & Geri are great citizens. We were classmates in la school & nothing they accomplished after graduating from (then) Boalt Hall was or is a surprise. They were then and have been every year since, the most spirited, decent and intelligent people. They have been loved wherever they have been met & known. David's leaving us is very discouraging, but he has left a remembering Jewish Congregation & friends in every direction. Geri, we love you & you & David have left us all a lot better for our lives intersecting. All my love to you Geri for your loss of a truly great man. Neil Goldschmidt

September 21, 2019

On behalf of my classmates in the Yale Class of 1964, I extend condolences to David's family and friends. David had many friends in our Class and will be missed. We mourn his passing and will remember him on our Class Website, in the January-February 2020 issue of Yale Alumni Magazine, and at a memorial service on campus during our 60th reunion in late-May 2024.
Anthony M. Lavely, Class Secretary

Robert Concolino

September 18, 2019

Without a doubt one of the finest persons I have ever known.
Very few lawyers made me truly respect them as a lawyer. David was one of a very few that did.

My high school girlfriend valedictorian went to Cal, I Loved the school. Not that I am not loyal to USC. I am happy I was not alone in admiring your consensus decency, integrity and extraordinary human values.

Larry Marshall

September 18, 2019

As a classmate at Boalt Hall I knew David and Geri before they became a married couple who would spend decades together, working as lawyers, raising a family, contributing to their community, strong in the religion they came to share. His passing is a sad reminder that life is not always fair nor as long as it should be, but well worth living if one lives it as David did.

Larry Marshall, San Diego

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