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jack Hallett
April 20, 2024
How wonderful to have known and worked with Jay for so many years....he influenced many for sure with his talent and most importantly his kindness and unbelievable work ethic as is apparent reading his obituary. Will forever think of Jay...forever!
Edgar Parrish
May 14, 2009
Mary,
Jay and I discovered far back genealogical ties in Madison County, Kentucky, and we spent a great deal of time through the last years piecing together by telephone and e-mail messages our kinships there. One day a picture of John Huguely's famous vest from the 1840s that had been exhibited at the Richmond, KY Centennial appeared in my mailbox. Jay had gone to great effort to photograph it for me in the right light. We never did meet face to face, and that is a shame. Your story of Jay's life is wonderful to read. Thank you for that and for your call. Take care.
Carol and Mike Perry
May 2, 2009
Dear Mary,
We are holding you in the light on this difficult day as you memorialize your most remarkable husband. We only wish that we had known him. Sending hugs and love across the country. Hope we can see you in Minneapolis in June.
Ron & Jennifer Smith
April 29, 2009
Dear Mary,
We always thought Jay was quite a character, but didn't realize how true that really was. The world is a little lonelier without him.
Bonita Chambers
April 27, 2009
Mary Dear,
Thank you so much for your call alerting me to find this loving tribute. I am sure you must truly miss the man who was such an important part of your life for so many years.
Although I only knew 'OF' him, and never had the pleasure of knowing him personally, it is obvious that the happiness you shared was a rare gift. Hold onto that as you continue to treasure those wonderful memories.
Love always,
Bonnie (Bonita Chambers) & the 'boys'
Georgia Gould-Lyle
April 27, 2009
“… and when he shall die, take him and cut him out in little stars and he will make the face of heaven so fine that all the world will be in love with night and pay no worship to the garish sun.”
William Shakespeare, “Romeo & Juliet”
Christine Link
April 27, 2009
Mary,
Thank you so much for sharing Jay's life story with us. I will always treasure the times spent with Jay and you and your dear cats and dog when you had all of us over. Jay was the perfect host as you are hostess.
Don Walters
April 27, 2009
Mary Dearest,
Your tribute to Jay is wonderfully written, profoundly moving in its depiction of his talents, career and persona. Jay comes through beautifully, and I'm sure he would have been proud of you, as I am for giving us this opportunity to reflect on the many ways he touched our lives. Thank you, sweetheart.
Love,
Bud Garneau
April 27, 2009
My mother, Jayne, and I met Jay through his wife Mary(a high school classmate of mine) in California many years ago, and we had
many memorable times with them at their
house. It was such a pleasure to get to
know him. He was a wonderful man.
We will always remember him.
The Garneau Family
April 27, 2009
Mary,
I just received a link to this tribute to Jay. I never knew him, but your years together must have been full and rich, and his loss must be very difficult. You are in my thoughts.
Margie Schmidt Brown
Susan & Kenny
April 27, 2009
We were honored to meet him. He was engaging, full of life and full of stories. We cherish our copy of “The White Knight” by Cledus Maggard and will play it in his honor. We’ll be in touch, Mary.
Susan Bloomfield and Kenny DeCoster
April 26, 2009
Mary, this is a very nice tribute to a very talented man. I know you have many treasured memories of your life together, may they give you comfort and peace in the days and years to come.
Our love,
Randy and Janet Etken (Shakopee, MN)
Keen&Nancy Butterworth
April 26, 2009
We knew you too short a time, but that time was exciting--when you whipped us around LA showing us the pits and the studios. Had hoped to see you again. But now....
LARRY
April 26, 2009
JAY WAS MY LONGEST FRIEND. I WILL MISS HIM. HIS TALENT AND HUMANITY WILL BE MISSED BY ALL.
Betsy Foster
April 26, 2009
I'll never forget Jay's humor and intelligence. Mary, remember that night we three had dinner in Minneapolis, and started playing word games - you and I held our own, but Jay was by far the brightest star. What a spirited evening we had, and what an entertaining gentleman Jay was! He will be vastly missed.
chrystal decoster
April 26, 2009
A character in every sense of the word; a wonderful tribute to a loved man and a richly lived life. Our thoughts are with you. Mary. Celebrate & savor the memories. Our love, David, Chrystal, Dylan & Jax DeCoster.
Kathy Davis
April 26, 2009
Thank you for sharing this, Mary. Hang in there, I know it's hard.
Patty O'Brien
April 26, 2009
Mary,
I had no idea what an incredibly talented man Jay was. I wish I had known him. Thank you for honoring him with this story of his life. It is a beautiful gift.
Barbara Rugen
April 26, 2009
What a beautiful obituary for a gifted man. Thank you, Mary, for sharing his story so movingly.
Love,
Barbara (Agnes)
Jim Sewell
April 26, 2009
A man for all seasons, he was one of the most talented individuals we have ever known. Jim and Vickie Sewell
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