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Robert Malcom De Kruif

1919 - 2015

Robert Malcom De Kruif obituary, 1919-2015, Los Angeles, CA

Robert De Kruif Obituary


February 17, 1919 - December 30, 2015 Bob De Kruif passed away Wednesday, December 30th, 2015 in the early evening. He was one of the few remaining patriarchs of what was once known as the thriving savings and loan business. He was the institutional memory of the H.F. Ahmanson Company, Home Savings & Loan Association and that of The Ahmanson Foundation. He was born in Des Moines, Iowa to Dr. Roy De Kruif and Elizabeth Boale. At six months of age, he and his divorced mother and his older sister Betty arrived in Los Angeles. His father was a dentist to many of the Hollywood elite at the time and his mother was a school and music teacher. Bob graduated from Los Angeles High School in 1937 and continued on to the University of Southern California where he proudly graduated in 1941. While at USC, Bob ushered at a local theater where he was introduced by his sister, to a Mr. Howard Ahmanson. Mr. Ahmanson offered him a job upon graduation on the spot and so commenced a lifelong passion for both the insurance and savings and loan business that lasted until Bob's passing. A career spanning over seven decades. In 1945, Bob and Dorothy Swegles married and they had two daughters, Ginny and Debby. In 1956, with the retirement of Gould Eddy, a longtime associate of Howard Ahmanson, Bob assumed the Presidency of the H.F. Ahmanson Company with Howard being Chairman and Chief Executive Officer. On February 1st, 1961, Bob and Jeanne Goush� Peterson were married which resulted in an epic love affair. Jeanne brought to the new family, Bob and Debbie Peterson and a personality and heart unmatched. Bob and Jeanne began a fabulous joint career of entertaining, persuading and promoting the objectives of the H.F. Ahmanson Company to great heights. Oh the great and memorable times we all had! Jeanne was the premiere helpmate to Bob's career. Upon the untimely death of Howard Ahmanson at age 61 in June, 1968, Bob was elected to The Ahmanson Foundation where he worked until the day he died. In 1972, the H.F. Ahmanson Company "went public" on Wall Street compliments of the investment-banking firm Goldman Sachs. Upon completion of the underwriting for the sale of stock on the New York Stock Exchange, there was a celebration. Each banker announced where they had gone to school… Harvard School of Business, Wharton School of Finance, etc. Bob De Kruif's reply was, "The University of Howard Ahmanson!" that statement reflects the deep-seated association that existed between both men. Howard Ahmanson was a financial genius, a sales and marketing guru and a great teacher by example. Howard often said Bob was the ultimate in the art of persuasion and he of course had a secret weapon, Jeanne. In 1998 the H.F. Ahmanson Company was sold to Washington Mutual located in Seattle, which subsequently was purchased by J.P. Morgan Chase in New York. Thus, Bob's career came to a close in insurance, banking, and the massive real estate development throughout Southern California. He then devoted himself full-time to The Ahmanson Foundation, which began in 1952. They annually disburse monies to support both public and private schools, cultural institutions, healthcare and city and county government infrastructures. Howard always said, "I made my fortune in Southern California, and I intend to give it back in the form of supporting local education, culture and hospitals." One of Bob's final interests and legacies, along with Howard Ahmanson Jr. was that of encouraging and assisting Eric John Abrahamson to author the hardbound edition of "BUILDING HOME, Howard F. Ahmanson and The Politics of the American Dream", University of California Press, 2013. Bob is survived by Ginny De Kruif Merchant, Debby De Kruif Seesemann (David), Bob Peterson (Kathy) and Debbie Peterson. He is also survived by his 18 grandchildren and 9 great grandchildren. His beloved wife Jeanne passed away on September 25th, 2015. In addition, he leaves many nieces, nephews, friends and acquaintances. He was a true pioneer in the savings and loan business, the ultimate "people person" combined with the fact that his generosity was legendary. Bob's funeral will be conducted by the Reverend Canon George F. Woodward III at St. Edmund's Episcopal Church in San Marino on Saturday, January 9th, 2016 at 11:00 am followed by an interment service at Forest Lawn - Glendale. In lieu of gifts of flowers, donations may be made in his name to Ability First in Pasadena, California.

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Published by Los Angeles Times from Jan. 5 to Jan. 8, 2016.

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Sandra

January 8, 2016

To the family and friends of Robert may you have peace and comfort during this time of loss.

Dana Copeland

January 7, 2016

Thoughts and prayers go out to your family Ginny

ROGER FONTAN

January 6, 2016

ONE THING I LOVED ABOUT BASEBALL SEASON WAS THE POOL PARTYS AT YOUR HOUSE THANK YOU FOR WHAT U DID WITH OUR PROGRAM AND ESPECIALLY FOR UR KINDNESS AND HOSPITALITY U SHOWED US.BEEN OUT OF SCHOOL ALMOST 30 YEARS BUT CAN SAY THAT WAS ONE OF MY GREATEST MEMORIES IN HIGH SCHOOL THE POOL PARTY NOW UR BACK WITH YOUR LOVE BOTH OF U WERE LIVNG ANGELS TO ME NOW U BOTH HAVE YOUR WINGS ITS OFFICIAL MAY U ENJOY PARADISE THE PLEASURE WAS ALL MINE

January 6, 2016

So sorry for your loss. May God comfort you at this difficult time.

F. Anthony Kurtz

January 5, 2016

I worked with Bob for more than 20 years. I never remember him making a negative or derisive comment about anyone. He was one of the most thoughtful people I ever encountered in business. May he now enjoy his new life with Jeanee and all his many friends who have preceeded him in their new life.

Megan Williams

January 5, 2016

I have so many memories of Jeanne and Bob, having grown up next door. They were close friends to my parents and siblings. Jeanne was such a wonderful friend to my mom Patty, and was so devoted to her during her illness. Bob was so knowledgeable about so many things. It was such fun to have a conversation with him on so many topics. He always brought up a community project needing financial help, or Student who needed letters of recommendation in order to get into College or a Military Academy. Bob and my Dad Roger together helped so many with their generosity and gentle persuasion. I will always remember having dinners with them, driving in their mini van with a driver while everyone enjoyed cocktails, the big dogs, and their generosity and love for one another. My love to all the family, it is truly a love story and I am so happy that Jeanne and Bob are together again. They will be so very missed!

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Glendale, CA

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