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Daniel Deck
May 23, 2007
Pop Pop,
You left me with many impressions, but among them are your love for food, nature, and family. I love cooking and I can most definitely trace this love back to yours. I always looked forward to your meals; whether it was a hearty steak dinner or peanut butter eggs at Easter. I also remember waking up early at your 8th Avenue house and going into the kitchen so I could look out the screen doors. I would always see you either tending to the gardens or pool. You were always proud of your gardens and took me on many tours through them. Family reunions were always fun. Whether we were all sitting around the table at Thanksgiving or the camp fire at camp, laughs were always shared. These memories have made impressions that will continue to guide and comfort me throughout my life. Thank you for all the memories.
I love you,
Daniel
Marisa Deck
May 23, 2007
Pop Pop,
I miss you so much, but I am relieved to know that you are free from pain.
I remember your prayers that you said before our meals. Each word was spoken from the heart. Even if we were going to be late for church and had to rush, you would take your time during the prayer. Your faith continued to impress me as you sang in the church choir. You never sang to your book, but you sang to God.
I will never forget the time when I visited you in the hospital. Although you were sick, you were strong enough to make me feel at ease. I especially felt reassured that you were still my same Pop Pop when you asked the nurse for some Jack N Jill chocolate ice cream.
During your last few months, I was blessed to see the strength of your faith. You took in each day, knowing that God was with you and would always be with you. I am happy to know that too.
I love you.
Marisa
Kathy Deck
May 21, 2007
Dad,
“Thanks for all the wonderful memories!”
These few simple words will remain forever in my thoughts. As we said our good-byes on Easter Sunday, little was I to know that these words would be your final statement to me.
Memories of skinny pancakes on the griddle and steaks on the grill, playing UNO, taking walks, telling me to call you Dad on my wedding day, helping gut our kitchen, playing Santa; zucchinis from the garden; the list goes on and on. Every memory wonderful. And finally, even the bittersweet memory of comforting you as you left us that bright April afternoon.
Yes, Dad, thanks for all the wonderful memories!
I love you and miss you,
Kathy
Jim Deck
May 19, 2007
Dad,
I know that you are in a better place, but I really miss you. I will always cherish the wisdom that you've shared over the years. Thank you for giving me the tools to make it on my own, and especially the example you've lived out as a father and a husband. Thank you for teaching me Godly principals that will survive many lifetimes. I pray that I too can be a caring father and a loving husband as you were. Thanks again, and see you in heaven.
David Deck
May 17, 2007
Dad,
Your poise and grace throughout your life has been an inspiration to our family. You never showed hate or anger and always displayed patience and understanding. I wish those assets were more widespread through the world....but know it is our charge to use your life as our inspiration and example to help it get there.
I can't believe how much I miss you, but know that you are residing in your Father's house free of pain and sickness.
Philip Deck
May 9, 2007
Dad,
You walked life’s journey with grace and quiet confidence, humble in your bearing, but profound in your impact. Guided by your faith and strengthened by God’s love, you brought joy to your friends and happiness to your family.
I am so blessed to have had you guide me on my journey. As my father, you nurtured me and kept me safe. You showed me life’s beauty, but you did not try to hide life’s harder lessons. You taught me to take care of myself but, more importantly, you taught me to take care of others.
I am so honored to have traveled with you on a part of your journey. As your son, I gained from you a reverence for nature and I lost my delusion of self-importance. I saw in you a wonderful model of how to be a husband and father. I learned from you how to live.
Despite being saddened to have you finish your journey so soon, I am truly happy that you made it safely home. And as I continue my own journey here below, I feel your love as you walk beside me still.
I love you, Pop. Your son, Phil
Nathan Deck
May 7, 2007
Pop Pop...
As many before me have already expressed, words just don't seem to justify the emotions being felt or the memories that have been shared. Life in itself is a blessing, one that we often take for granted time and time again. I can only pray that I have the strength, appreciation, and love that you had in life and to truly remember that it is a gift. You have been a foundation for our family, which has spawned generations and it is apparent with just one glance to see the closeness and love in which we were fortunate to be raised. For I see much of you in my father, which is a reflection of your morals and values that have been bestowed to us. You are such a blessing and sorely missed, but I will always smile through tears of sadness and of joy remembering you fondly...knowing you are in a better place and watching over your family from heaven! I love you Pop Pop!
your grandson,
Nathan
Jim Meade
May 7, 2007
To Hiram's Family, I had the privelege of sharing the role of "Avram" in LCT's production of "Fiddler on the Roof" back in the late "70's.Hiram played Avram in Cast"A" I was in Cast "B' Hiram's performance was a part of the huge success of that production
My Condolences to the Family,
Jon Deck
May 6, 2007
Pop…
I can’t believe how privileged I am to have had such a giving father. My life is filled with the miracles that a loving parent can produce. You gave me life, understanding, patience, encouragement, wisdom, and time to experience the characteristics that you modeled daily. Even in the last and most difficult part of your life you exhibited a strength and grace that was incredible.
I know that you now exist in paradise, and that thought has heightened my faith and has given me great hope and peace. I miss you sorely, but I know you’ll be there when my race is run.
Thank you for everything.
Love…Jon
Joy Deck
May 6, 2007
Dear Dad,
There are so many memories of you and the family. I remember how much you and mom loved to have us all go to the beach and how you enjoyed sitting on the porch with your pipe. How you enjoyed cooking and all the times we celebrated birthdays at our home. When we first told you and mom that we were going to have our first child, and when I sang in the choir with you. The walks around our yard to say what different kinds of plants or flowers we had. These are just some of the many times that we all shared together. I think one of the recent memories was when you were in the hospital and I introduced myself to the doctor as your daughter-in-law, and you said to him that I was more like a daughter to you! You and mom have touched so many lives and we will miss you, but some day we will all meet again! Until then, we will know that you will be watching over us!
Love, Joy
Dad relaxing with sons, Dave & Jon, son-in-law Tom, and grandson Andy in spa
May 6, 2007
Dave, Jon & Dad
May 6, 2007
Special Philadelphia weekend with the kids
May 6, 2007
Jamie Cecil
May 5, 2007
Dear Pop Pop,
I miss you so much, but it is truly a comfort to me that you are in a beautiful place, free of pain. There are reminders of you everywhere and I know that you are smiling down on us, your loved ones. It's a sunny spring day today and the hydrangea bush that you and Grandma transplated is starting to grow. I watch it carefully and think of you.
I was looking at photos of our family last evening-recent photos from Easter and Christmas, and missing you terribly. I started to think of all of the times we've gathered together as a family-a family that you and Grandma created. You have always been a source of love, strength and wisdom for all of us and everyone you knew.
Thank you for welcoming Matt into our family and for setting an example of how beautiful and strong a marriage can be...
We both love you and miss you very much.
Thank you for all the good you brought into the world.
Love you, Jamie (grandaughter)
Andy Deck (Oldest Grandson)
May 4, 2007
Pop Pop:
I have trouble expressing in words what your life has meant to me. The examples you have set, the dedication to wife, family and God are all benchmarks for me. I can't help but think of you and favorite memories several times a day. I can remember vividly last year when we had the kids over to your new house to have dinner and visit and watched you interact with your great grandchildren. I feel blessed to know that they had a chance, however brief it was, to know you. Playing volleyball, the bush play, swimming in your pool, the hammock, sliding in our socks, barbecue chicken, mint tea, fish fry at knoebels, how you always just missed Santa Claus, and the sweet smell of your pipe. Memories that your passing and time will never erode. My father learned something from you that he passed on to me and I am passing on to my son. Always leave a place better than how you found it. Pop Pop, the earth is better than how you found it. I love you and miss you and look forward to seeing you again a long time from now.
Arlene and George Black
May 4, 2007
Our friendship with Hiram and Markie dates back many years. We will surely miss him. We will cherish the good memories. Our deepest sympathy to the entire family.
Sharon Strike
April 30, 2007
Deb, The relationship that you had with your dad was very special. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very sad time.
Cheryl Deck
April 29, 2007
I feel very blessed to have had two fathers in my life. One - my biological father & the second, the father I gained when I married your first born son. I shall miss you, Dad. I shall miss the time we spent sharing recipes, checking out the garden of which you were always so proud; receiving some of the fruits of your labor & preparing those vegetables for family picnics. I shall miss those brussel sprouts lovingly picked by you on Thanksgiving morning to share at our Thanksgiving table. I shall miss your Thanksgiving prayers. I have never felt closer to you than in these last few months as I became an advocate with your doctors in your struggle to fight this dreaded disease - cancer. I know that you have finally triumphed over cancer & are now in a place free of pain & suffering. I know that you are sitting at the right hand of our Lord, sharing that special place with so many that have passed before you. Rest in peace, gentle soul, I will never forget you & the love you gave to me as your "daughter".
Jennifer Tilley
April 29, 2007
Popper--
There are so many things I will miss about you, but I will carry you with me in my heart always. You have left behind such a strong and beautiful family, that I am so lucky to call my own. Derek and I strive to follow in your and Grandma's footsteps in building a life centered around family, marriage and God. I know you will be there watching over the two of us on our wedding day... and it makes me feel secure to have another angel by my side. You have taught me so much, just by watching you... your patience, purest heart, and unconditional love to not only family, but friends as well. I will always love you, Popper. Thank you for everything! Love, Your Jen-Jen (Granddaughter)
Deborah Landis
April 27, 2007
Daddy, the memorial service held today in your honor was just beautiful. You would have been so proud. You are so loved and so missed by your family and friends. When I gave my eulogy today, I felt as though you were right there with me, guiding me and giving me the strength I needed to tell the world how I feel about you and the beautiful legacy you have now left behind. Daddy, I love you, and it hurts so much that you're no longer here with us, even though I knew it was time for you to leave. Your memory lingers everywhere--in what I see, feel, hear, smell and touch, but especially in my heart. Always...your "Twinkle-Toes"...Debbie
Bonnie Faller
April 27, 2007
Deb;
My deepest sympathy to you and your entire family. You are in my prayers.
Daniel Swope
April 27, 2007
Dear Marqueen and Family:
You have my deepest sympathy in the loss of Hiram, my only
"younger" cousin. I remember him since he was born and was always impressed with his accomplishments. He leaves behind one of the finest families I have ever known. I could write a book about my fondest memories of him and his parents, my Uncle Ray and Aunt Maggie. May all of you find joy and strength in remembering the love and care he gave you.
Cousin Dan Swope,
Amanda Deck
April 26, 2007
Pop Pop,
Your life is a true inspiration to all you left behind. I have known few people in my life as pure in heart, as kind and good as you. You leave a rich and lasting legacy on this earth through your beautiful family, and the countless lives you have touched. You were truly a good and faithful servant of God, and we take comfort in knowing you are now with him. You truly were like a grandfather to me, and I will always remember you with great joy in my heart! I will miss you very much. With love,
Amanda (Grandaughter- in-law)
Kristin Deck
April 26, 2007
Pop-Pop,
I will miss you dearly but you are at peace now in a beautiful place free from pain and suffering. You had such a precious and kind soul…everyone that knew you instantly loved you. I have always admired your gentle strength and wisdom. You epitomized what family really means…unconditional love. Until we can be together again someday…I will hold you close in my heart. All my love Pop-Pop, Your Granddaughter, Kristin
Kathy & Gary Andrews
April 26, 2007
To the Deck Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May your memories of all the good times with your dad see you through these difficult times.
Becky Sliter
April 26, 2007
Dear Deb & Family
My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family on the loss of your father. May you find comfort in the Lord during this sad time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Dotty & Gary Cecil
April 26, 2007
To the Deck Family,
We did not have much time to get to know Hiram, but in the short time we had, we knew he - and your entire family - was very special. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow.
Thomas Landis
April 26, 2007
Dad,Everytime I go in the backyard you will be with me. You and I had built the decks,installed the pool and erected the fence so Deb and I would have a secure environment for your grandchildren. You helped me refinish our basement and all kinds of painting/stucco work upstairs. Our house and life will not be the same without you. I will really miss you, I love You. God Bless You
Your Son in Law. Tom
April 26, 2007
Karin Zeigler
April 26, 2007
Dearest Deck Family,
A note of thanks for including me in the life and struggles of your loved one, Hiram. Although I did not know him, I know he was a precious gem to my friend, his daughter, Deb. I have learned so much about him through the writings and letters of Deb and others and he was truly an accomplished man of God, loved by all. He touched so many lives and has set an example for us all. He has created a legacy more valuable than any amount of money. He has raised a family and connected a circle a friends through Christ.
Know that all of you are in my prayers and may God's comfort wrap around you in the days to come.
Debra Rubart
April 26, 2007
Dearest Debbie
You now have an angel waiting for you in heaven. My continued prayers for you and your family during this difficult time.
Love you much!
Matthew Tilley
April 26, 2007
Pop Pop, the hardest thing to see was a man as great as u struggle in pain.. Your in a better place now but i will miss u so much.. thanks for everything i love you
Mom & Dad--always together and so much in love!
April 25, 2007
Sharon Kinard
April 24, 2007
The first time I met you said "hello I am Pop Pop." I knew from that day forward my life would never be the same. You gave me a precious gift that day; a grandfather. I know that your presence in my life was truly a gift from God. I love and miss you and feel honored and blessed that off all of the people in the world that God chose me to be your granddaughter.
Love always,
Sharon
Curtis & Sylvia Moore
April 24, 2007
Hiram Decks family;
Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you. We will certainly miss seeing Hiram at activities at our church. Our love to your family.
Deborah Landis
April 24, 2007
My dear Daddy, I know you are in a better place now, and finally with no more pain, but I already miss you so very much. I love you always...your daughter, Debbie
Dad with entire family on Easter Sunday, 2007
April 24, 2007
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