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Shirley White Obituary

Shirley R. White, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and eternally cheerful spirit, passed away on October 26, 2020 in Peterborough, after a mercifully brief bout with pancreatic cancer. She was 89 years young.

The daughter of Henry C. and Edith W. (Sayre) Herbert, Shirley and her brothers, James and Harold, lived in Bloomfield, NJ. After graduating from Fairleigh Dickinson University, she worked at Tung Sol and Celanese Corporations.

She met her husband, Richard S. "Dick" White, on a blind date. They married in 1954, bought a modest home in Bloomfield, and raised two children, Linda Griffith, now of Swanzey, NH, and Ken, of Richmond, CA.

A devout member of Watchung Presbyterian Church, Shirley served in multiple capacities, including her beloved bell choir. She was a tireless Girl Scout and Cub Scout leader. Shirley enjoyed vacationing on Lake Winnipesaukee, gardening, and sewing.

Shirley and Dick square danced in all 50 states, performed in the nationally televised 1986 Liberty Weekend, headed the Northern New Jersey Square Dance Association, attended 22 National Conventions, received the 2013 Yankee Clipper award, and helped organize the 2015 National Square Dance Convention.

In 1994, they "retired" to Jaffrey, to be closer to their granddaughter, Meghan (Griffith) Ferrari, now of Canton, NC. Membership in Union Congregational Church of Peterborough inevitably included more leadership roles. The pair moved to RiverMead in Peterborough in 2013, where they made many friends.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests charitable donations, and is exploring ways of honoring her memory in non-Covid times.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Monadnock Ledger-Transcript on Nov. 2, 2020.

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sally teschon

November 22, 2020

This is how I remember Aunt Shirley. Loved her, first, because she was so kind to a young lonley girl. She and Dick gave me memories for a lifetime. Honored to go with her to Jim's Memorial Service. All our sympathy and love.

Krista McCarthy

November 4, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. I enjoyed square dancing with her, she made you smile.

Sandi Silva

November 4, 2020

Shirley’ smile and energy will be missed on the dance floor. Such a wonderful friend, always giving a hand when and where needed. Endless hours she would give and the wisdom she would share and encouraging words. It was a pleasure to have been part of your life. You will be missed.

Tammy D

November 2, 2020

So sorry for your loss, she was a wonderful friend & will be missed on the square dance floor.

Barbara and Bob Mellish

November 2, 2020

That smile. We never saw Shirley without that smile. She is most definitely an eternally cheerful spirit. We wish to extend our deepest sympathy to her beloved husband Dick and to her family.

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