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This obituary was originally published in the Buffalo News.
3060 Abbott Rd, Orchard Park, NY 14127
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April 20, 2010
Dear Kathy and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I remember seeing him a lot out and about over the years after we graduated from high school. I have fond memories of many good times riding the bus to and from school. He was a wonderful person and wise beyond his years. He will be dearly missed by all who knew him, if even for a brief time. I am also so sorry to hear the lpassing of your Mother. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Charlene (DeMarco) Sage
Kathy McKinney
January 27, 2004
Kathie and family,
I will try this again, because a little munchen stole the one I put in last night. It's been almost nine years since I came in and told Tom I was quiting to move to Kansas. Tom kept telling me I was not leaving him to move to Kansas with a guy I only knew 3 months. But I did but never forgot the fun times I spent with Tom. Hell when you put Tom and Virgil together I never stood a chance. Tom lived more and enjoyed life more than most people twice his age. And he always knew I would do anything for him, whether it was to come in late so he could stay out late or go sneak him a snack or move his hand 20 times to get it just right. Tom will be remembered by everyone he ever meet and everyone has a story about him. I attended a memorial service for one of my long time patients that recently died at the age of 42 after battling cancer and this was from his service and I thought it was so true.
If you could see me now
I'm walking streets of gold,
If you could see me now
I'm standing tall and whole,
If you could see me now
You'd know I've seen His face,
If you could see me now
You'd know the pain's erased,
You wouldn't want me to ever leave this place, IF YOU COULD ONLY SEE ME NOW.
God broke our hearts to prove to us, He only takes the best.
Keep everyone in line up there, until we meet again. Love always,Kathy
Phyllis Gorski
January 27, 2004
Kathy & Family,
I am so sorry to hear about your brother Tom, and in reading the death notice, to also find out that your mom passed away. I do not get the newspaper, so I would not have known. My thoughts are with you, and your family with both your losses. I will call you..
God Bless...
Phyllis Gorski
Marge Gustas
January 27, 2004
To The Cardamone Family: I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You and Tom are in my thoughts.
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Kris Passinault
January 26, 2004
Sometimes our lessons in life are right before our eyes but we don't quite grasp it at the time. You, your mother and your family have taught me more than formal education could have. You taught me determination and living life as who you are, not what you thought you should have been. You taught me that the only limitations in life are what you put on them. You taught me that the obstacles that society put up to keep you out doesn't mean you shouldn't go there. Sometimes you have to leave the country to reach your destination and the delays, repacking the cars, and border crossing are worth the ride to feel that mist in your face. Thanks for being you - you brought out the best in me. Love, Kris
Harem Club X O X O X O X O X O X O
January 26, 2004
Tom
We had a great time at your farewell tribute last night. As you saw everything went like it always did a little wild, a little crazy, a little too late, alot of fun and filled with love and respect. You will be missed but not forgotten. Love the girls
A FRIEND
January 25, 2004
CARDAMONE - Thomas, lived fully despite MD
1/24/2004
News Staff Reporter
Thomas M. Cardamone wasn't expected to live beyond his teenage years, so he considered the extra time he was allotted a bonus and lived accordingly.
"He was never depressed or down," his sister, Kathleen of Hamburg, said Friday. "Everyone who met him fell in love with him. He was an inspiration to the rest of us, and we were drawn to him and got strength from him."
Cardamone, 42, of Blasdell, who used a wheelchair since he was 12 because of muscular dystrophy and was on a ventilator, died Thursday (Jan. 22, 2004) in Mercy Hospital.
He was president of the Harem Club of Western New York, a group of a dozen women, ages 18 to 50, who helped take care of him and traveled with him.
His condition didn't stop him from boating, camping and attempting hot air ballooning. The West Seneca West High School graduate loved racing his custom-painted power wheelchair and liked to hang out at McKinley Mall.
He enjoyed playing poker and frequently visited casinos and local lawn fetes.
He was a Shania Twain fan and got a thrill meeting her before her concert in Buffalo in September. Cardamone got to know Buffalo Bills Thurman Thomas and Frank Reich from sitting in the audience for their TV shows. One time he asked Reich to autograph a football, only to be told no - because Reich instead had the whole team autograph it.
He loved to surf the Internet and shop online, and was employed as vice president of Mobility Plus, a firm operated by his sister that specializes in products for the disabled.
Cardamone, who had four tattoos on his arms and shoulders, enjoyed spending time with his niece and two nephews and attending their school events.
His mother, Grace, who had been his primary caregiver, died seven weeks ago.
In addition to his sister, he is survived by his father, Joseph, and a brother, Michael, both of Hamburg.
Prayers will be said at 10:45 a.m. Monday in Lombardo Funeral Home, 3060 Abbott Road, Hamburg, followed at 11:45 by a Mass of Christian Burial in Our Mother of Good Counsel Church, 3688 South Park Ave., Blasdell. Entombment will be in Holy Cross Cemetery.
scott muffoletto rn
January 24, 2004
Sorry to hear about tom's passing, also of your mom,
Tom and Sally Zak
January 24, 2004
Kathy and family,
We're so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. We really enjoyed all the times we've seen you both out and about. We'll miss him and if you need anything you have my phone number Kathy so just call me.. I'll be happy to help you in whatever you need. He was a great guy with a big heart and wonderful spirit..God called him home.
Ann Pellien
January 24, 2004
Kathy,
We had a lot of good times together but now Tom needed to be with your mom. Remember the good times on the boat and baseball games and cruising at the fair.
Hang in there- Friends always-
Ann Marie
Kathie
January 24, 2004
Bye Bye Baby Brother
I miss you
LOVE you your Older Sister
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