Shaine Melvin

1990 - 2021

Shaine Melvin obituary, 1990-2021, London, ON

Shaine Melvin

1990 - 2021

BORN

1990

DIED

2021

Shaine Melvin Obituary

Published by O'Neil Funeral Home (London) Ltd. from Mar. 4 to Mar. 5, 2021.
It is with heavy hearts that we share the sudden and untimely passing of our son, Shaine Melvin, on Tuesday, March 2, 2021 at the age of 30. Shaine will be sadly missed by his father Jim, his mother Jan (Bruno) and his sister Ashlie (Melissa). He will also be missed by many aunts, uncles and cousins. Shaine always displayed an unwavering compassion for those in need, often going out of his way to lend a supporting hand. He never met an animal he didn't like and wished he could rescue them all. He was a die-hard skateboarder and snowboarder and had a passion for astronomy and star-gazing. He loved everything "techie" and was the "go-to guy" to fix our computer woes. He will be missed. A private cremation has already taken place and a Celebration of his Life will be held at a future date. If desired, memorial donations may be made to the Canadian Mental Health Association (cmhamiddlesex.ca) in Shaine's memory. Online condolences & Guest Book at www.oneilfuneralhome.ca O'Neil Funeral Home in charge of arrangements(519-432-7136)

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January 13, 2025

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May 21, 2024

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March 14, 2021

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Paul ~ Imparementive @ eye cloud dot calm

January 13, 2025

Playing laser tag around the outside of the family home. Going on long bike rides no matter the distance. Being introduced to some truly amazing people. Learning, growing, experiencing things first hand. Our inside jokes, having our first drinks together, fighting each other over the stupidest of things. You were always there for me when I really needed you. You apologized for not being as good a friend to me as I was to you. It would be nice to know you knew that you were. I know you knew, you know i know we both knew. No matter how much time passes, true besties can pick up like it were yesterday. Prayers for all of you as the time of year comes around again. I hope you are all living as best as you can. Shaine wouldn't have wanted anything but happiness for his family and friends. Miss you . Love you.

Aaron Zirk

May 21, 2024

I recently thought of Shaine, and wanted to reconnect. When I saw that he passed away I can't help but cry.

We met on a game called RuneScape, and we had long intellectual conversations. We eventually found out that we lived in London, and we started hanging out.
Shaine was the little brother I never had, until I moved away.
He would literally bike from one side of the city to the other just to see you, just to hang out for a bit.
We always had great times, and I wish I reconnected sooner.

Will miss Shaine greatly.

Deb Hunter

March 14, 2021

Shaine was such an involved student in class. He helped with with the projector and computer endless times, was always so friendly to classmates and never passed my classroom door without popping his head in to say hello and throw a smile. I’m so very sorry to everyone who lost Shaine; he touched so many lives.

Samantha Fidom

March 13, 2021

My heart is so so heavy for this family..... My thoughts are with you guys . ... Ash.. . & Your parents... I'm so sorry .

Miles & Darlene Falconer

March 12, 2021

We are so very sorry for your loss. Heartbreaking. Our condolences
Miles Sr and Darlene Falconer

Samantha Ann

March 10, 2021

My heart is broken... I didn't wanna believe it but I guess this makes it real eh.. shaine buddy, you helped me thru alot of tough times and I will forever be indebt to you. You are such a great friend thru the years.... Super glad you got to see the Marvin tattoo.... you were so stoked.... God, please take car of this one .. he is a real gem l! Rest in sweet peace Mr Melvin.. forever in my heart

Gwen MacKinnon

March 10, 2021

To shaines family, especially Jim, I am really caught of gaurd by this news, shaine was an amazing person, wonderful friend and Daddy to turtle ♡, I have so many good memories with him I am sad I won't get to add anymore :( . Although he is gone, he won't have to suffer anymore and is now in a place that can nurture the light inside of him. Big hugs to all of you his memory will live on forever
Love Gwen

Josh Hunter

March 10, 2021

Shaine was one of my first best friends as a kid, we were in the same grade 1 class and right off the start I knew he was going to be a long time friend of mine, we both liked Math in school and we would have competitions against each other to practice our multiplication. The first time I was ever suspended from school Shaine was with me, we tended to push the rules to the breaking point but most of the time we managed to avoid getting in trouble.

Shaine brought a skateboard everywhere he went for awhile, and he seemed to be the only kid who could even stand on a skateboard let alone do tricks with one. Shaine was unique when it came to Skateboarding, atleast at my school nobody else seemed to be interested but Shaine was different.

One of my most fondest memories is celebrating our grade 8 graduation by going swimming in his backyard with a few of the other boys, joking around and talking about highschool, girls and video games.

I remember one time being in his backyard while he was climbing on his roof with a snowboard, he was more brave than I was that was certain. ( yes he went down his snow covered roof on his snowboard )

In highschool I was there with him when he had his first serious girlfriend and going through the ups and downs of that with him was memorable too. After school we would walk home together most days talking about class and video games, I have many fond memories of this time period in my life.

Shaine was there for me when my mom died, being a good friend trying to cheer me up the best he could, I always appreciated that more than he probably knew.

After highschool our lives took us in different directions and we lost touch, I never felt like we had really lost touch though, it felt like any day could be a day that we started talking again like no time had even passed but unfortunately I was mistaken.

Shaine was a good person and a great friend, I will always remember the things we went through.

RIP Shaine

March 10, 2021

To Jan, Jim and Ashlie

Our deepest condolences to you on the passing of Shaine. The thoughts, prayers and love of all your cousins and their families are with you at this time.

Love
Leslie McGillvray and Ian and Amy

Good times

Shelley Wilson

March 10, 2021

Shaine so happy for his young friend

Shelley Wilson

March 10, 2021

Shelley Wilson

March 10, 2021

To my dear friends Jan, Jim and Ashlie,
We are so sorry to hear that you have lost a beloved family member that you hold so dear, nothing will replace that beautiful spirit. I hope as you go through this grief your wonderful memories will surface and make you smile. Here we are as we often were camping and fishing. Shaine was so happy for Justin as he caught his first crayfish. Thinking of you my friends XOXO Shelley, Brian, Justin, Kristen and madi

Michelle Lyon

March 9, 2021

Michelle Lyon

March 9, 2021

It was with heavy hearts that we heard of the passing of our nephew Shaine. Shaine your smile will be missed by all. Thoughts and prayers to all of the family and those grieving his sudden passing.

Love Michelle, Ed, Owen, Aidan and Olivia

Joel Nye

March 8, 2021

I was deeply saddened to hear about the sudden passing of Shaine.

I'm thankful to have shared in many memories with Shaine through family gatherings, cherished holiday dinners, and countless hours in front of the N64 video game console.

He was kind and lighthearted. Shaine will be sorely missed but forever remembered.

Olivia Thompson

March 7, 2021

Olivia Thompson

March 7, 2021

Diane & Keith Dickson/Arseneault

March 7, 2021

Our deepest condolences to you and your family at this most difficult and sad time.

BARRY CAMERON

March 6, 2021

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Jessica Gallinger (Nye)

March 6, 2021

Jan, Jim and Ashlie,

I am so sorry to hear of the sudden passing of Shaine.

I feel so fortunate to have been close to Shaine and Ashlie throughout my childhood. I have so many wonderful memories of spending the holidays with my cousins. I always looked forward to our visits together.I remember one Christmas in particular, Shaine was gifted his first snowboard. Well, it didn't take him long to head outside into the backyard and start riding down the tiny snow-covered rock piles!

He also taught me a neat trick that came in handy during holiday dinners. He showed me how to hollow out my dinner roll and fill it with unwanted vegetables. Our parents never seemed too upset with an inconspicuous dinner roll that we couldn't possibly finish. They were too pleased that we had eaten all of our turnip!

I will never forget Shaine's infectious smile and the way he would giggle and squirm when Aunt Jan and Uncle Jim would hold him tight and give him cuddles and kisses.

I hold these memories close as I send love to the entire family. We have all been so blessed to have known Shaine.

Love,
Jessica

Bev & Gord Nye

March 6, 2021

Like all of us who knew Shaine, we too have many fond memories, especially of our family gatherings together with him.

Remembering his gentle nature, enjoying playing with our dog, his curiosity, his willingness to help whenever he could, his laughter, how much fun he had spending time with his cousins and that big ear to ear smile.

It is the sharing of all these special memories that will help to heal our hearts.

We are so blessed to have had Shaine in our lives and he will forever be a part of us.

love
Aunt Bev & Uncle Gord

Betty Thompson

March 5, 2021

I have numerous happy memories of Shaine. Fun times at my cottage when he was young and our visits to London as he grew older. His generosity shone when he insisted that he buy his visitors pizza, even though we knew he couldn't afford it!.

Shaine was fun-loving and had a great sense of humour. I remember many humourous tales shared throughout the years. I remember one story in particular when he wanted to get a dog and his mother said he had to show responsibility first. So he started to walk his cat on a leash and visited all the neighbours. Unfortunately, it didn't win him the dog!

Shaine, you left us too soon. You will be missed by all who loved you.

Love Auntie Betty

March 5, 2021

We never had the opportunity to get close however u were the brother I never had ! Your smile was infectious! Your sister and I can’t help but remember the wonderful memories of the wedding and taking the kids out to play , I’ll never forget u brother

Melissa Melvin

john sullivan

March 5, 2021

Dear Jan and Bruno, so sorry to hear of Shaine's passing
John and Lorraine Sullivan

Bruno

March 5, 2021

My thoughts and prayers go out to everyone.
I am part of this wonderful family and we all lost a great man.
May God see you through every step of your next journey Shaine.
You will always be in my heart.
Love you Shaine.

Frank & Gus Family LaBarbera/Nichols

March 5, 2021

We are so so sorry to hear of Shaines passing . We are thinking of you all at this time and our hearts are breaking for the family . We've known Shaine since he was just alittle boy his first job was at our restaurant and worked there till we closed in Nov 2020 . I had just spoke to Shaine on the Friday prior . I'm so sorry for your loss. RIP SHAINE .

Kathy Portsmith

March 5, 2021

So so sorry for you loss. My prayers are with you and your family

Calvin Kendrick

March 5, 2021

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Sharon Kendrick

March 5, 2021

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Jane Oster-Doran

March 5, 2021

Jan and family
I am so sorry to hear about your son. Having lost a son too soon also, understand the shock and emptiness. One thing you can't lose is the memories. Cherish those forever. Jane and Billy Doran

Mardy Chandler

March 4, 2021

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Kandis Thompson

March 4, 2021

I hope that there comes a time that we may remember Shaine without the wave of sorrow and tears that come to our eyes.

We must remember to celebrate his life and the gifts that he gave us.

His love of his family...his loyalty to friends...his generosity to strangers...his affection towards animals...his goofiness and smiles...and his eagerness to please.

We must find comfort in these memories and in the knowledge that he has left a mark on our hearts. And in tribute to him....we must smile.

Love, Auntie Kandis

Sandra Schanck

March 4, 2021

Jan. I am so sorry to hear your devastating news. It is never easy to lose a loved one. May you have many happy memories of Shaine. My condolences.

Lawrence Melvin

March 4, 2021

Never forgotten Love always

Shirley Jellicoe

March 4, 2021

Sorry for your loss my thoughts are with you and your family

john Sullivan

March 4, 2021

dear Jim, so sorry to hear of Shaine's passing
John and Lorraine Sullivan

Paul Cain

March 4, 2021

Will remember you forever... love you brother. Bucket List just gained one. Ugh, way too soon.

Shelby

March 4, 2021

I’m going to miss you so much Shaine. You had a deep impact in my life and taught me so much. Forever in my heart ❤ R.I.P

Ashlie Melvin

March 4, 2021

My chest hurts brother. I have had a piece of me removed and I feel so lost and confused. I love you my star! Till I see you again

March 4, 2021

Thoughts and prayers to the family. My condolences
Angelica

Daniella

March 4, 2021

My thoughts and prayers go to the family. Another beautiful life taken way to soon.

Caitlin

March 4, 2021

I dont even know where to start. But shaine thank you so much for being you. You have been an amazing brother over the years. You are deeply missed. I love and miss you. Until we meet again. Rest easy.

At Ashlie's wedding

Trisha Thompson

March 4, 2021

I have many memories of when you were little. Getting brain freeze from eating ice cream too quickly, my dad calling you Duke, your energy was limitless. Thank you for being a great cousin.
Love Trisha

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