Gerald “Coke” Leroy Grauman
1942 - 2018
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Gerald "Coke" Leroy Grauman, beloved husband, dad, and grandfather passed peacefully into the arms of his Lord and Savior on December 20, 2018 in Lodi California at the age of 76 after a short and courageous battle with Pancreatic Cancer. Gerald was born September 16, 1942 to Leland and Ella Grauman in Harvey, North Dakota.
The family moved between Harvey, ND and Lodi a few times in Gerald's childhood before permanently settling in Lodi at the age of 12 with his mother and siblings. As a young teen, Gerald took on many different jobs to help his mother out financially including cutting lawns and selling snow cones from a cart. It was at this time that he fell in love with the game of basketball and had many memories of playing ball with his cousins in Lodi. He earned the nickname "Coke" during those days while playing basketball. As a shy young boy he didn't talk much and wouldn't tell people his name but he wore "Coke" t-shirts a lot and so the nickname "Coke" was birthed. This nickname would stick his entire life! He attended Lodi High School and was the first freshman class to attend what was then called "Lodi High West Campus". In high school Coke was known for his basketball skills and was an amazing ball player on the Lodi High Basketball Team. He was placed on the Varsity Team his sophomore year and it was that year that he set a record for most points scored in a game; a record that he held for about 12 years! But basketball wasn't the only interest Coke had at Lodi High; it was during his high school years that he met his future wife Carla. While Coke played basketball, Carla cheered him on from the sidelines as a Song Leader. They married in 1963 settling in Lodi. The family grew as they welcomed two daughters, Jill and Lynn. The couple recently celebrated 55 years of marriage; a true love story!
After high school, Coke went on to earn his apprenticeship as a Journeyman Electrician. He was hired by Collins Electric in Stockton, CA where he would work for 43 years and was a member of the IBEW 595; an accomplishment he was very proud of! He left behind a legacy of jobs that he was blessed to be part of in the Lodi area such as the new Tokay High School, Lodi Police Department, expansions at both Lodi Memorial Hospital and Saint Joseph Hospital to name a few.
Coke's faith was of the utmost importance to him his entire life. He accepted Jesus as his Savior at a young age and was a lifelong member of the Lodi Mennonite Brethren Church (now known as Vinewood Community Church). He served on various committees including the Planning Committee for the current location of Vinewood along with various roles including the Stewardship and Facilities Committee, Sunday School Teacher, Youth Leader and singing in the choir alongside his wife Carla.
Coke was an avid sports fan. He loved to watch all sports! He played City League Basketball in both Lodi and Stockton as well as City League Softball in Lodi for many years. One of his greatest memories is coaching the Lodi Nut Company Women's Softball team for many years. He also loved watching his grandsons, nieces and nephews play sports throughout the years!
After retiring from Collins Electric, Coke and Carla enjoyed spending more time with their kids and grandsons. In retirement he also volunteered as a Partner with the Lodi Police Department, went on a mission to Guatemala with his church to dig a well in a small community and loved travelling in his and Carla's 5th Wheel with their friends and travel group.
Gerald is survived by his daughters Jill Neville (Randy) of Sammamish, WA and Lynn Mutch (Mike) of Novato, CA as well as grandchildren Michael Helke, Jr, Alex Mutch (Quinn), Nick Mutch (Hannah) and Eric Helke; sister Harriet Villalba, brother Elliott Grauman (Shelly) and half siblings Susan Hillenbrand, Leesa Taylor and Mike Graumann (Liz), along with numerous nieces and nephews. He is preceded in death by his loving wife Carla, parents Leland Graumann and Ella Grauman- Wiest, and father and mother in-law, Carl and Jackie Norris.
A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, January 5, 2019, 11:00 a.m. at Vinewood Community Church, 1900 W. Vine Street, Lodi. In lieu of flowers please donate to Vinewood Community Church in memory of Coke. The donations received will be used for beautification and maintenance projects at the church. The address is as follows:
Vinewood Community Church
1900 W Vine Street
Lodi, CA 95242
Please make check payable to Vinewood Community Church and specify in the memo line "In honor of Gerald Grauman".

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Published in Lodi-News Sentinel from Dec. 29, 2018 to Jan. 5, 2019.
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July 10, 2019
Good old Gerry was one of my first bosses when I joined the IBEW apprenticeship. He liked to play the tough cookie. Rest in peace.
Erik Trettevik
January 5, 2019
As a relative newcomer to the neighborhood, Gerry was very kind and welcoming to me. I learned early on that if you wanted to know any history of the neighborhood.....just ask Gerry. That certainly proved to be true!

His presence will be truly missed by all that knew him. It is comforting to know that Carla is there waiting for him, tapping her foot.

My sincere condolences to his family.....
Sally St.John
December 31, 2018
Elliott and FAMILY,
My deepest sympathy for your loss. Thinking of you during this difficult time. Big hug!
Joan Canepa
December 31, 2018
Coke was a wonderful man that we got to know at AH Fitness, our condolences to the family. He and Carla will always be in our hearts. God Bless.
Kevin Vondergeest
December 29, 2018
Sorry to hear about Coke Grauman! He was a great example of a Christian;and I remember him well! We will all see each other in Heaven! I look forward to that day!Praise the Lord!
Wanda Zimmerman Van Santen
December 29, 2018
condolences to the grauman and Norris families for their loss coke and I competed against and as teammates in Stockton and lodi for years played babe ruth baseball etc was honrored for those memories and later in life when he and Carla came to visit carl and Jackie at the arbor may he r.i.p
jim & pat siegfried
December 29, 2018
My condolences to the Grauman family of the passing of "Coke" just 3 months after wife Carla. "Coke", cousins "Lefty" and Doug, and myself played 100s of basketball games on our driveway, school grounds, Boys Club, Grape Pavilion you name it. Imagine if you can trying to get by any one of the three then having to defend "Coke". Good luck! 4 North Dakota pals playing serious hoop like losing was not an option. A true life Hall of Fame member. So glad I got to share a few memories with him at Carla's funeral. R.I.P."Coke" Utmost Respect, David Bingen
David Bingen
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