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Evelyn Battaglia Koppi
August 25, 2025
I'm so sad to hear of Tom's passing! I have many fun memories of our High School days with friends waterskiing and hanging out! He will be missed.
Karin Bunnell
August 24, 2025
I am so saddened to hear of Tom's passing. Our families were friends and Tom was in our group of kids during high school and Delta college who water skied and had fun together. Carol, Linda and Matthew, I am so very sorry for your loss and am thinking about you all.
Larry Meyers
August 22, 2025
I´m sorry to hear of Tom´s passing. I enjoyed his friendship and our time playing tennis in our earlier years. I´m currently out of the area but my thoughts are with the family during this difficult time.
jeff Rippey
August 22, 2025
Jeff Rippey here, Tom was my first best friend we were neibors 1963, since tom would call his mom...mom so I thougth that was her name and called her mom also. Tom would put back every toy we played with before getting another one out, I shattered my ray gun and Tom n dad glued it back together. I gave him stitches accidently with a golf club, we hunted lizards and frogs and ate perch we caught off my dock, Toms parents bought our house ( we moved to hawaii) and over the years I would stop by and see mom :) Linda was my 1st grilfriend :) gonna miss you Tom, but I will see you in Heaven.
Vernon and Sharon
August 22, 2025
Carol, we are so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. While we did not know him well, when we did have a chance to talk with him, he was just so nice. Vern was saying he lived his life to the fullest. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. While we cannot be there for his service, we are there in spirit. May the Lord wrap you and your family in his arms and bring you comfort. Sending you our love.
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August 21, 2025
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Mark Barcellos
August 20, 2025
Sad to hear as more and more of us pass on. Tommy and I were best buddies in our youth. Both as members of the BSA troop 221 Screaming Eagles patrol and constant companions swimming, hiking you name it we did together. He will be missed by all.
Janet Corse Bellotti-Kelley
August 20, 2025
My heart & prayers go out to the family. I was shocked to hear of this sad news. Tom was my "3rd" cousin. My mom, Jeanne Smith Corse, was his father Phil´s 1st cousin. I remember ALL the good times we had at family gatherings. Christmas would either be @ my grandparents, Jeanne Muller Smith & Harry Smith´s home in Piedmont or it would be held @ my Great Aunt & Uncle´s, Rosalie & Hugo´s home in Berkeley. I have many fond memories of those days~many many years ago. Unfortunately, Mike Kelley, & I will be unable to attend, but we will for sure be there in spirit! Again, dear "Auntie" Carol & cousin Linda our condolences for your great loss. Love, Janet Corse Bellotti-Kelley & Mike Kelley, Michael Bellotti & Maddie Bernie (soon to be Bellotti)
Patricia Bortolotto
August 19, 2025
I am deeply grieved to hear about the sudden loss of your son, Carol.
I send your family my prayers and deep sympathy.
May Tom rest in eternal peace.
Bob Canepa
August 19, 2025
So very sad to learn of Tom's passing. Such an even kind willing person. A friend. Always a smile. So many good times out on the water!! Tom had a great group of water skiing friends!!!
Condolences to Carol, Linda, & Matt. His warmth remains. See you on Saturday.
Price Burlington
August 19, 2025
I am sorry to hear about Tom's passing. I have many wonderful memories of our years playing tennis together. All my love to Tom's family. I am sorry I won't be able to attend his service.
Brian Erbele
August 19, 2025
So sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I have fond memories of our time in the Boy Scouts and playing tennis at Sun West Tennis Club and on the Lodi High School tennis team. Tom was a better athlete than I was but always very humble about his abilities. My thoughts are with his mom Carol and sister Linda. I never had the opportunity to meet Matthew, but I know he is lucky to have Tom as his father.
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