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Thomas "Tom" Frederick Muller

1959 - 2025

Thomas "Tom" Frederick Muller obituary, 1959-2025

BORN

1959

DIED

2025

Thomas "Tom" Muller Obituary

Thomas "Tom" Frederick Muller, beloved father, son, and friend, passed away on Thursday, August 7, 2025, at the age of 65, while waterskiing at his club near Modesto, California-doing what he loved most. His final moments were spent in joy, in the place where he had built deep friendships and countless memories with his cherished son, Matthew.
Tom was born on September 23, 1959, in Oakland, California, to Carol Muller and Phil Muller. A fifth-generation Californian, he proudly carried forward the legacy of his pioneering ancestors, descendants of the California Gold Rush era. He grew up in Lodi with his sister, Linda Muller, surrounded by a family that valued hard work, integrity, and togetherness. In his youth, Tom was a proud member of the Boy Scouts of America, achieving the rank of Eagle Scout-a reflection of his dedication, perseverance, and leadership from an early age.
An accomplished athlete, Tom played on the tennis team at Lodi High School and at Sacramento State University, where he earned his degree in Business in 1983. His love for tennis never waned; he was an active member of the Lodi tennis community and, in recent years, a member of Woodbridge Country Club, staying close to a community of friends who shared his passion for the game.
Tom began his career with First Interstate Bank before joining his father at Muller Supply Company, which specialized in manufacturing interlocking concrete paving stones. Building on this experience, he later founded his own paving stone contracting business, California Classic Paver Designs, Inc., receiving his contractor's license on January 29, 1987. Serving residential and multifamily projects throughout the San Francisco Bay Area, Tom took pride in the craftsmanship, entrepreneurial spirit, and dedication that defined his work in the industry.
Tom's life was most profoundly shaped by his relationship with his son, Matthew Muller, of Sacramento. He shared with Matthew his deep passion for tennis, snow skiing, and waterskiing, teaching him all from a young age. In 2001, Tom became a member of a private waterski club near Modesto, where he and Matthew spent many summer weekends together. Their time there became a foundation for their close relationship and provided Tom with a cherished circle of lifelong friends. He also competed in amateur waterski tournaments, celebrating the sport both recreationally and competitively.
Whether on the water, the tennis court, or surrounded by loved ones, Tom brought warmth, energy, and generosity to every part of his life. He lived with intention and joy, always quick to smile, to encourage, and to connect.
Tom is survived by his son, Matthew Muller; his mother, Carol Muller; his sister, Linda Muller; and his niece, Bernadette Daroux. He will also be deeply missed by extended family and many close friends whose lives he touched through kindness, loyalty, and fun-loving spirit. He was preceded in death by his father, Philip Hugo Muller.
A celebration of Tom's life will be held at Emanuel Lutheran Church in Lodi on Saturday, August 23, 2025, at 11:00 AM, with a luncheon reception to follow at 12:30 PM at the Woodbridge Country Club in Woodbridge, CA.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations to the USTA Foundation (ustafoundation.com/donate), which helps provide youth access to tennis and education through programs nationwide, or to the American Water Ski Association's Junior Development Program, which introduces young people to waterskiing through clinics and events.

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Published by Lodi-News Sentinel from Aug. 19 to Aug. 26, 2025.

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Evelyn Battaglia Koppi

August 25, 2025

I'm so sad to hear of Tom's passing! I have many fun memories of our High School days with friends waterskiing and hanging out! He will be missed.

Karin Bunnell

August 24, 2025

I am so saddened to hear of Tom's passing. Our families were friends and Tom was in our group of kids during high school and Delta college who water skied and had fun together. Carol, Linda and Matthew, I am so very sorry for your loss and am thinking about you all.

Larry Meyers

August 22, 2025

I´m sorry to hear of Tom´s passing. I enjoyed his friendship and our time playing tennis in our earlier years. I´m currently out of the area but my thoughts are with the family during this difficult time.

jeff Rippey

August 22, 2025

Jeff Rippey here, Tom was my first best friend we were neibors 1963, since tom would call his mom...mom so I thougth that was her name and called her mom also. Tom would put back every toy we played with before getting another one out, I shattered my ray gun and Tom n dad glued it back together. I gave him stitches accidently with a golf club, we hunted lizards and frogs and ate perch we caught off my dock, Toms parents bought our house ( we moved to hawaii) and over the years I would stop by and see mom :) Linda was my 1st grilfriend :) gonna miss you Tom, but I will see you in Heaven.

Vernon and Sharon

August 22, 2025

Carol, we are so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. While we did not know him well, when we did have a chance to talk with him, he was just so nice. Vern was saying he lived his life to the fullest. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. While we cannot be there for his service, we are there in spirit. May the Lord wrap you and your family in his arms and bring you comfort. Sending you our love.

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August 21, 2025

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Mark Barcellos

August 20, 2025

Sad to hear as more and more of us pass on. Tommy and I were best buddies in our youth. Both as members of the BSA troop 221 Screaming Eagles patrol and constant companions swimming, hiking you name it we did together. He will be missed by all.

Janet Corse Bellotti-Kelley

August 20, 2025

My heart & prayers go out to the family. I was shocked to hear of this sad news. Tom was my "3rd" cousin. My mom, Jeanne Smith Corse, was his father Phil´s 1st cousin. I remember ALL the good times we had at family gatherings. Christmas would either be @ my grandparents, Jeanne Muller Smith & Harry Smith´s home in Piedmont or it would be held @ my Great Aunt & Uncle´s, Rosalie & Hugo´s home in Berkeley. I have many fond memories of those days~many many years ago. Unfortunately, Mike Kelley, & I will be unable to attend, but we will for sure be there in spirit! Again, dear "Auntie" Carol & cousin Linda our condolences for your great loss. Love, Janet Corse Bellotti-Kelley & Mike Kelley, Michael Bellotti & Maddie Bernie (soon to be Bellotti)

Patricia Bortolotto

August 19, 2025

I am deeply grieved to hear about the sudden loss of your son, Carol.
I send your family my prayers and deep sympathy.
May Tom rest in eternal peace.

Bob Canepa

August 19, 2025

So very sad to learn of Tom's passing. Such an even kind willing person. A friend. Always a smile. So many good times out on the water!! Tom had a great group of water skiing friends!!!

Condolences to Carol, Linda, & Matt. His warmth remains. See you on Saturday.

Price Burlington

August 19, 2025

I am sorry to hear about Tom's passing. I have many wonderful memories of our years playing tennis together. All my love to Tom's family. I am sorry I won't be able to attend his service.

Brian Erbele

August 19, 2025

So sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I have fond memories of our time in the Boy Scouts and playing tennis at Sun West Tennis Club and on the Lodi High School tennis team. Tom was a better athlete than I was but always very humble about his abilities. My thoughts are with his mom Carol and sister Linda. I never had the opportunity to meet Matthew, but I know he is lucky to have Tom as his father.

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