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Stephen Raras Obituary

Beloved Son and Brother

Stephen Raras was loved by many. His gentle and quiet manner made him easy to be around. Stephen was an observer. He took in every scene and scenario and processed the information in his intelligent, unique, and caring way. Stephen was an exceptional listener. It was his pleasure to hear stories from family and friends and in return, when he did speak, his dry, and witty sense of humor shone through. Whatever he had to say was always interesting and captivating and well thought through.

As a child growing up in the Highlands section of Lowell, Stephen earned the nickname "the professor" due to his many interests and his smarts. He attended the Washington Elementary School,

James S. Daley Middle School and was a graduate of Lowell High School. During his time as a Pharmaceutical Tech Student, one of his teachers took the time to write him a letter. She noted Steve's intelligence, his ability to do complex math problems in his head and his continued work on himself professionally and socially. She reminded him that "some of the greatest and most famous people in the world did not fit into the mold society expected of them". Such an amazing tribute to an unassuming young man, to receive a letter based on his demeanor and hard work.

Among Stephen's many interests were relaxing car rides with music and walks along the river and in the woods which brought him peace. Videogames were a favorite pastime of his. He especially loved playing "old school" RuneScape, Final Fantasy, and Diablo.

Stephen left too soon. He left without any goodbyes. Those who love him know he is close by, observing it all, and quietly waiting until we are all together again.

Stephen's parents, Deborah (Gilmartin) Raras, Charles Raras, and his brothers, Thomas Raras, and Matthew Raras will miss him always and will forever remember his gentle and perceptive soul. Stephen's grandparents, Elizabeth Ann Strzelewicz and Edward Gilmartin will also miss him dearly. Stephen's grandparents, the late William B. Strzelewicz and Charles and Alexandra (Yiayia) Raras are now reunited with him. Stephen's parents, brothers, grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins wish to express their deep gratitude to everyone who assisted them, prayed for them, and supported them throughout the past year.

A private Family Funeral Service took place for Stephen.

As an expression of sympathy, a donation in Stephen's memory may be made to the Long Meadow Golf Club Scholarship Fund, 165 Havilah St., Lowell, MA 01852.

ARRANGEMENTS BY THE FAY McCABE FUNERAL DIRECTORS 978-459-9222 www.faymccabe.com.



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Published by Lowell Sun on Feb. 7, 2020.

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February 15, 2020

Sorry for your loss,sending my deepest condolences,please take comfort in knowing that God cares personally for you and your family.

Emma Barrett (Morris)

February 11, 2020

May God lay a blessing of peace upon the family. I worked with Debbie for years, who has the same demeanor as described about Stephen. My condolences.

Michael Sutton

February 9, 2020

So sorry for your loss. Mr. Raras, I was in your English class in the 7th grade. So sorry for your loss.

JOANNE Mulligan

February 9, 2020

So sorry. No words can express.

Mary Gail Lynch

February 9, 2020

My heartfelt condolence for the loss of Steven. May God bless your family in this time of sorrow. RIP sweet Steven

Mary Gail Lynch

February 9, 2020

My deepest condolences for the loss of Steven. May he RIP.

February 8, 2020

Charlie, Debbie & family
We send our heartfelt condolences for the loss of your beloved Stephen, such a kind soul, and a special person, may he rest in peace.

Kathy & Dick Mullen

Charlie Gill

February 7, 2020

Charlie. You are truly one of the Good Guys I have ever come across. I am so sorry for your loss. My heart felt condolences to you and your family

Sharon Demers

February 7, 2020

Please accept my deepest condolences in the loss of Stephen. I thought of him often in the days since he was in my class. A very special young man. A line from the song Vincent about Van Gogh comes to mind. This world was never meant for one as beautiful as you. Rest peacefully Stephen ❤

Kate & Christopher Gill

February 7, 2020

Charlie and the entire family,

Stephen just a gentle beautiful soul. There are no words. Know that both Christopher and I are sending our love and prayers.

Rosie (Bubanas) Sheehan

February 7, 2020

To My Godfather, Debbie, Tommy, Mattie & the entire extended Raras Family,

Please know that I am thinking about all of you and holding Stephen's memory close to my heart. Sending prayers, love, and light.

Philip & Lynne Scannell

February 7, 2020

Raras Family,No words. you will all be in our thoughts and prayers..

Jim Boenis

February 7, 2020

My sincere sympathy to the Raras Family.
May Stephen's Memory Be Eternal

A Taylor

February 6, 2020

So very sorry for this heartbreaking loss, prayers for all!

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