Shirley E. Laird
{ "" }
Share Shirley's life story with friends and family
Send an Email
Or Copy this URL to Share
Shirley E. Laird, (nee Eder) was born on June 2, 1923, in Ridley Park, PA, the daughter of the Rev. Charles E. Eder and Wilhelmina Schweikardt Eder. She graduated from the Stevens School, Germantown, in 1940, and from Cedar Crest College, Allentown, in 1944. At Cedar Crest, she was editor of the Crestiad, where she discovered that journalism would be the right career for her. Her first job was on the Philadelphia Evening Bulletin, where she was called "Miss Ellaney," for "miscellany," the word she stamped on every page of the copy she wrote. In those days newspaper columns often ended with leftover space, and these miscellaneous bits of copy were used to fill the gaps. From writing miscellaney, she moved to the Evening Chat column and the features department. When the Philadelphia Record was acquired by the Bulletin, she began writing a Sunday column called "People." In addition, she wrote historical features for the Germantown Courier. While at the Bulletin, she won a competition to be the Philadelphia reporter for Mademoiselle magazine, a part-time job in the college and career department. She held this post for 18 years, and in one of those years was honored as Reporter of the Year. She married Joseph H. Laird in 1947; he had been a classmate of her brother, the Rev. Craig E. Eder, at Harvard. Joseph, who had been a chemistry major in college, decided to become an Episcopal clergyman and was ordained in1953. He always claimed that he was influenced by the example of Shirley's father, the Rev. Charles Eder, who had been rector of Grace Episcopal Church, Mt. Airy, for 34 years, as well as by her brother. Joseph Laird became vicar of St. Mark's, Honey Brook. There, Shirley had three children. The church and vicarage being located in a rural area called "Church Hill," Shirley fulfilled a lifelong dream by buying a horse. She soon added three more and opened a riding school called "Church Hill Ups." Six years later, the Lairds moved to Wayne, where they lived in a house on the Rosengarten estate, "Chanticleer," now a botanical garden. During this time, she returned to journalism, serving on the editorial staff of the Montgomery County Newspapers, and writing a weekly column called "Once over Lightly." In the '60s and '70s, she became publications manager for Vincent G. Kling and Associates, Architects. She continued writing her column until leaving to become an entrepreneur. Her business, "Laird Unlimited Editorial Services," provided wordsmith and public relations services to two dozen clients. In addition to her employment, she served for 20 years on the board of COLLAB, Philadelphia Museum of Art; she was on the vestry of St. David's Episcopal Church, Radnor; and she was publicity chairperson for the Chestnut Hill Committee of the Philadelphia Orchestra. She is survived by her children Craig E. Laird, Holly A. Laird, and Heather Beaudry, eight grandchildren, and two great-grandchildren. Her Memorial Service will be held on Sat. April 20th, 11 AM in the Chapel of St. David's Episcopal Church, 763 South Valley Forge Rd., Wayne, PA 19087. Burial will be private in St. Mark's Episcopal Churchyard, Honeybrook, PA. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly suggests contributions be made in her memory to either the Philadelphia Orchestra or Alliance Francaise de Philadelphie. Chadwick & McKinney FH

To Plant Memorial Trees in memory, please visit our Sympathy Store.
Published in Main Line Media News from Apr. 14 to Apr. 21, 2013.
No memorial events are currently scheduled. To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.
Memories & Condolences
Guest Book sponsored by Susan Laird
Not sure what to say?
6 entries
May 10, 2015
2011 Christmas
Shirley's spirit for fun and style CAN never die as long as one dared the devil... :)
Susan Laird
May 11, 2013
I have just learned of Aunt Shirley's passing, most memorable in my life for her warmth, compassion and zest for every aspect of life! She lived fully and was generous to all in immeasurable ways. With God's richest Blessings and Eternal Love to my Godmother, always and forever. Amen.
Catharine Chaffe
May 3, 2013
Back in the days when I was in Public Relations, Shirley was one of my favorite people in the field. She had a twinkle in her eye, a ready smile, an ability to laugh and stay cool, even with difficult clients, and she wore a lapel pin that said, "Think Snow!" I remember seeing her X-country ski down the streets of Center City during a heavy snowfall, looking as delighted as a small child.
April 20, 2013
Shirley and Joe were enthusiastic supporters of The Orpheus Club. They attended many concerts and parties. We will miss them.
Brenda Wright
April 19, 2013
I think my most memorable memory of Aunt Shirley was watching her and Uncle Joe play this phenomenal instrument at one of her great-niece's (Megan) wedding. She's with the love of her life now and is probably dancing and singing. I will miss this unique and lovely woman.
Susan Shepard
April 13, 2013
Always dressed to delight, fall 2012 picnic
Hard to find words for someone who loved words so much. She touched all of us in so many ways. I'm just putting my electronic thoughts out there. She and Joe traveled the world, went to as many plays and concerts as they could squeeze in their calendar, gave to their communities and church. Her gift of love was beyond words.
Heidi Laird
Invite others to add memories
Share to let others add their own memories and condolences