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1952

DIED

2014

David Subke Obituary

David Subke On August 24, 2014, the Bay Area flute world lost a shining star and guiding light: David Subke, former assistant principal flute of the Oakland Ballet Orchestra, former professor of flute at the San Francisco Conservatory of Music, founder of the Mill Valley Chamber Music Society, composer, mentor, colleague and friend of many flutists. David was also an extraordinary real estate agent for The Madison Company Realtors for more than 28 years and was known by clients and agents as, "AgentSubke". David was born July 8th, 1952, in San Francisco, California, to Barbara and Walter (Lee) Subke. He's survived by Walter (Lee) Subke (father), Susan McCandless (sister) and Douglas Subke (brother). He lived in San Anselmo for more than 35 years where he loved growing vegetables, hosting dinner parties, poker games and croquet matches. He was an extraordinary chef and immensely enjoyed entertaining. David will be remembered for his quick wit, and keen sense of humor. Though David Subke died too young, he leaves behind a legacy of flutists who care about every note and every nuance of musical performance. He also leaves behind a long list of real estate clients who benefited from David's generous heart and real estate expertise. He accomplished a great deal in his life and was deeply loved by many close friends. At David's request, no service will be held. There will be a Life Celebration for close friends and family 3:00-6:00PM September 7th. For details contact: [email protected]

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Published by Marin Independent Journal from Aug. 30 to Sep. 3, 2014.

Memories and Condolences
for David Subke

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24 Entries

Bill Jones

March 3, 2020

I dont know why David came to my mind. He was my roommate freshman year at UC. He let us stay at his place in Sausilito and hooked us up with some lady in San Fran who was a psychiatrist, in whose house we stayed. Then we adopted a big black dog named Brummel and went back to Ohio. I am truly shocked to find out that he is gone. I temember his brother and a guy named Wally. So sorry to find out that he is gone.

Birdie Forsythe

January 25, 2015

Lee, we just heard of David's passing. I have so many wonderful memories of our cousin David and am saddened by this news. David was such a fun loving and talented man. I always looked up to him. Sending love, hugs and prayers your way.

October 9, 2014

Whew! The memories of those Lowell Orchestra days, when David played the Mozart Concerto and the Faune... it was almost overwhelmingly beautiful. I put the Mozart on a program recently, and remembered standing offstage, since it was a reduced violin section, hearing David play the piece. (Didn't they make a record?) The orchestra in Japan picture will be inserted in my Lowell yearbook! Best regards to our orchestra family! Don Hurd, Cincinnati (last row, far left)

~Nan Van Dam~~

September 9, 2014

As a long time receptionist at Coldwell Banker Bon Air, David came into our office on many occasions. He was such a lovely man with an engaging smile and joyful personality; the real estate community lost someone special. Warmest thoughts to his family at this sad time.

Colleen Fitzpatrick

September 7, 2014

David was one of the most relaxed, genteel and fun agents I have ever had the privilege of working with. He shared his vast expertise and knowledge freely and was always optimistic as a consummate professional. I had no idea David was a flutist and musician, but of course he would have endeavors that brought more joy to others, as he did to his real estate colleagues. David was a beautiful soul who created harmony and success. I send his family and loved ones my condolences and will always hold Agent Subke as a beautiful light in our universe.

Carol Munson

September 5, 2014

Any of us who had the good fortune to know David had their lives touched and enriched by a someone who deeply cared about others and was as true blue as they get. Thank you, David for being a part of my life. I'll miss running into you and chatting it up on the broker's tour.

September 5, 2014

Dear David, you are missed! I met you so long ago, our first sale together in the early 90s, and you cracked me up! You were kind, happy, uplifting and professional- a great colleague across the table. You kept it light but you were very sharp on the negotiations. Your enthusiasm and joy have been appreciated and I thank you for many years of smiles and shared wit. Rest, our friend, and may your family find peace. With respect and sadness, Deborah Solvason

September 4, 2014

David, a lovely person, friend and colleague you are already missed.
Debora Mainas

September 4, 2014

David was a wonderful and kind person! He will be missed in our real estate community. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Lori Saia Odisio

Elizabeth Michelin

September 4, 2014

Condolences to the Subke family. I met David at The Madison Company. He was so funny and he told me he was Agent Subke. He'd whip out his calculator to pre-approved prospective clients on the spot. He told me he'd take them out once for a freebie and then got serious with them. His cooking was wonderful. I will truly miss David as whenever I've thought about him I'd always smile. Here's to you David and may the next plane be as enjoyable as this plane has been for you.

September 4, 2014

Wow that stuns. Dave as a teen, was already a local hero, a card, a personality to be reckoned with and looked up to as an otherworldly flutist. At Lowell High School during those amazing Pereira years, shining, in every concert whether for Seiji Ozawa conducting "The Faun" at the Opera house, leading the winds on the Japan tour, on and on . All my very best to the family and especially to Legend Walter, Lee, greatest of friends to our Parents, and to Doug great spirited wood Quintet buddy...Paul Wegman Taylor

September 4, 2014

Lee, I am so deeply sorry. I cannot imagine. Life gives us these shocks, these losses. And we can only go on. I will not be able to make the Life Celebration, sadly - I'll be out of the country - but when I'm next in the Bay Area I will call.
Dee (Dyanna) Taylor Onnie's daughter.

Morris Pest Control

September 4, 2014

We were so sad to hear of David's passing. He was always a pleasure to work with and will be missed.

Terry Paul

September 4, 2014

I enjoyed his playing from the late 1960's to the early `1970's..He was an amazing musician.. I am so glad he impacted so many lives... May God be the peace, comfort & grace for his family & friends during this time...

Ellen Pesavento

September 3, 2014

I am shocked and saddened to learn of David's passing ... my heart goes out to his family. He was a great guy & a wonderful musician. He will be missed by many.

David and fellow Madisonians

Katie Hogan

September 3, 2014

David loved to fish with his dear friends

Katie Hogan

September 3, 2014

David loved to entertain friends, family & cook great food

Katie Hogan

September 3, 2014

Agent Subke with Susan at Madison Company

Katie Hogan

September 3, 2014

David with Madison Company friends at Giants game!

Katie Hogan

September 3, 2014

Marty Wickenheiser

September 3, 2014

I first met David when he was one of four agents who brought me an offer on my listing on Pleasant Lane in San Rafael.... It was the early 80's and he was a brand new agent. He had the misfortune of being in competition with Karen Dahlin. He sat patiently in the lobby of "The Castle" only to be delivered the bad news that his offer wasn't even close. He accepted defeat with dignity and we laughed about it every time we saw each other. He was indeed a very special guy,

WINNER WINNER CHICKEN DINNER

Joe Davis

September 2, 2014

Dave always beat me at Poker but it never mattered as he was such a great guy...Joe Davis

Christopher Coughlin

August 31, 2014

Condolences to the Subke family on this sad news. Dave will live on in my memories of all the fabulous adventures we shared. Snow Skiing, Water Skiing, Boating, biking, fishing, eating, and just plain shooting the breeze. There was no one better than Dave at keeping the conversation going. What a wonderful man! Hard working, generous, kind, talented in so many ways. Dave never went in half way on anything he did in life, he mastered so many skills and techniques. We had so much fun along the way! Serious and silly all at the same time, he could laugh till he ran out of breath.
I have so many things to be thankful to Dave for, not the least of which is the tenacious energy he put forth to get us into our wonderful home in Corte Madera. Going on close to 30 years here and still loving every minute of it. He was a force of nature and it still seems impossible that he is gone. Best to all of you and peace to Dave.