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Iris Clare Lafrenz

1922 - 2016

BORN

1922

DIED

2016

Iris Lafrenz Obituary

Iris Clare Lafrenz Passed away in her home surrounded by her loving family and friends on May 5 in Novato. Iris was born in Minnesota in 1922 and grew up in Battle Mountain, Nevada, where her father was a silver miner. Iris was the second of five children. She graduated from St. Luke's School of Nursing in San Francisco (BSN) and served as an officer in the US Navy, stationed in Honolulu during WWII. She married Wallace Clendenning (Clen) in 1946 and together they raised four children. Returning to nursing she later became Assistant Director of Nursing at Kaiser Hospital, San Rafael. Some of her joys included duplicate bridge, golf, the book club, and volunteering at New Beginnings/Homeward Bound. She was predeceased by her husband, Clen, in 1998. Iris is survived by her four children Andrew Lafrenz (wife, Diane) Clare Fried (husband, Eddy), Colin Lafrenz, and Don Lafrenz, grandchildren Stephanie McCargar (fiance, John Lundquist), Abigail Lafrenz (partner, Michaela Sponza) Spencer Lafrenz (wife, Elsa), Martin Fried (wife Katie) Eric Fried (partner, Anna Fagan) and great grandchildren Adrianna, Ivy, and Penelope. Iris' life will be celebrated on Friday May 13 at 2:00 p.m. at the Presbyterian Church of Novato, 710 Wilson Ave. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Homeward Bound of Marin, 1385 N. Hamilton Parkway, Novato, 94949.

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Published by Marin Independent Journal from May 10 to May 12, 2016.

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May 19, 2016

We enjoyed having Iris in the McInnis Park Women's Golf Club. She will be missed.

Ruth Silverman, on behalf of the Golf Club

Janet Kinneberg

May 13, 2016

Dear Family,

Iris brightened our world with her kindness and laughter. When our Joe was an infant and she held him for the first time, I shared my "new mother" worries about how to help him grow up to be a good person and she simply told me, "Just love him."

Such wonderful advice, and it was advice she lived. She and Clen raised a great family, and we send our deepest sympathy to all of you today. She just loved us all and we felt that.

Thank you, dear Iris, for these treasured memories and timeless lessons. Peace be with you.

With love,
Bill, Janet, Joe, and David

Michael Mesmer

May 12, 2016

Iris was a great friend and neighbor to us during the past 12 years while we've lived across the street. We will miss her greatly! -- Michael & Laurie

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