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Michael Taketa-Graham Obituary

Michael Daniel Taketa-Graham August 22, 1954 - June 16, 2013 On Father's Day, Michael Taketa-Graham, age 58, unexpectedly passed away while scuba diving in Monterey, California. Scuba diving was one of his true passions ~ his favorite form of stress-release and relaxation. Mike was the devoted and cherished husband of Teri Taketa-Graham of 33 years. Mike was preceded in death by his beloved son, Stephen Taketa, mother, Marilyn Borstadt Graham, father-in-law, John Taketa and father, Earl Graham. Mike was also the proud exchange student host-father to Joachim Linn of Germany. Mike is survived by his mother-in-law, Teru Taketa of Novato, sisters Patricia Nelson (husband Doshin MJ) and Karlin Young, of Colorado. He has many God-children, nieces and nephews both biological and by choice. Mike's extended family of friends was everything to him as he was to them. Mike did not take friendship lightly. He had the natural ability to befriend people and make them feel comfortable. Along with being a devoted husband, he was also dedicated to his work as a microbiologist at Kaiser Regional Laboratory in Berkeley and owner/operator of Taketa-Graham Properties, LLC. Mike previously worked with the State of California's Department of Health Service as a Public Health Microbiologist (Virology). In his adulthood Mike had an assortment of careers such as ambulance driver, truck driver, carpenter, construction worker, and glazier. Mike served in the U.S. Army and was stationed in Germany. When he was honorably discharged in 1974 he remained in Germany another five years and worked as a civilian for the Department of Defense. This is where he and Teri met and fell in love. Mike, Teri and Stephen made Novato their hometown in 1979. In 1993 when his son died, Mike was determined to pursue a career in medicine. At the age of forty, Mike returned to school with his sights on nursing but made a detour to science and graduated from Sonoma State University with a BS in microbiology. Mike's infectious smile and love of life was immeasurable. He was a kind, loving, loyal, intelligent, inquisitive, caring and giving man. He was a fighter for a cause ~ any cause that needed to be spotlighted not ignored. Enthusiasm, involvement and compassion were engrained in his entire being. He will be missed by so many, including his West Novato neighborhood where he was a familiar figure from daily walks with his dogs, Ozzy, Lola, Phoebe, Hana and his canine princess, Tri-Pod, being pulled in her little red wagon. Some days he would walk as many as eight dogs if he and his wife were puppy-sitting or fostering dogs for the Marin Humane Society. Family and friends are encouraged to perform a good deed in Mike's honor ~ to pay it forward. A celebration of Mike's life will be held during the fourth weekend of August 2013. Specific date and location to be determined and will be announced at a later date.

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Published by Marin Independent Journal from Jun. 29 to Jul. 1, 2013.

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Rick Franz

December 16, 2013

Mike- you always gave so much of yourself to everyone you met. You are a shining light for all. I knew you from high school and watched you take every opportunity in your life. You lived life fully and inspired me always. You and your family will always live in my heart. You are an angel now. I love you. I will se you again someday, goodbye for now my friend.Rick

August 10, 2013

To Mike, May the lord hold you close in his strong arms. To my family I send prayers of love for you each. May you find solace in quiet moments of joyeous memories of Mike
Love
Ria

Bill Hopkins

July 15, 2013

Mike was and will always be a very important male figure in my life. He was such a positive influence for me in my early years that I still often look to my memories of Mike and his caring, thoughtful ways as examples on guiding my own son in his development into manhood. Mike will always be in my heart and prayers.

Ken & Kathy Donnelly

July 15, 2013

Our love and Prayers are with you now and always.

Patty Nelson

July 1, 2013

To my brother Mike who was bigger than life and who will always be my hero. I love you MORE. To Teri and Oma, my heart breaks for you both. In love and deep sadness.

July 1, 2013

Teri - what a horrible shock. Will always remember Mike, coming over to Franks to hang out and watch sports. Such a nice, nice guy. Am so sorry for this loss. Please let me know if you need anything. ~ Rosalind

Kate Ruehle

June 30, 2013

One of the best human beings I've had the pleasure to know ~ he was wise beyond words, and loved without limits.

June 29, 2013

Truly a wonderful man. Always. Many thoughts and prayers. <3

Trinity Whittaker

June 29, 2013

Mike was a gentle giant, full of love and compassion. He will be missed, but never forgotten.

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