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Karen (Dickson) Bailey
April 2, 2009
Dear McAfee Family,
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Danny's Mom contacted my mom and of course, my Mom e mailed me with this very sad news. I did not know Ryan, but I knew Danny and his family. I hope you all will be on the path of healing soon. May you all find Love and Light at this difficult time.
Paulette Blanks
March 9, 2009
Danny, Linda and Lance:
I would like to express my sincere sympathy for your loss. Ryan was a ray of sunshine in this world and I will cherish my memories of him. He was truly a unique person and the way he lived is life showed his love for God and family. We know where he is now and that gives comfort to us all. You should be proud of the life he lived. He led by example, and what a wonderful example he gave us to follow. Love ya all.
Jennifer Spiegel
March 9, 2009
Linda and family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. I have looked from the outside at some difficult times for your family. After Danny had his wreck I know you worked so hard to hold everything together. You were and are a good mom and you will get through this. You were always encouraging to me when you would come in the bank and you are one of the people I definitely miss! You have never been someone to give up.
My sister Katie knew Ryan and is friends with Lance. It was funny to hear her talk about knowing people I only knew through a bank drive through window but I do feel as if I know your family.
Your family is in our prayers and will continue to be during these difficult times.
Butch, Joanie, Chelsi and Brooke Lecrone
March 8, 2009
Danny, Linda and Lance,
Our hearts are broken at the loss of Ryan, as are many others. He was a wonderful christian young man that left an impact for Christ on many in his short time here on earth. We should all strive to leave such a legacy. Our prayer is that you will lean fully on God and that you will feel His loving arms wrapped around you, trusting that He will carry you thru this storm. We love you all very much and will be praying for you all continually.
In Christian Love and Support,
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PAMELA WEST
March 7, 2009
DANNY, LINDA, LANCE AND FAMILIES:
ERIC WAS IN THE LINE OF TRAFFIC THAT DAY-NOT KNOWING IT WAS SOMEONE THAT WE KNEW. AS I COULD HEAR SIRENS GOING WEST- I PRAYED THAT IT WAS NOT SOMEONE THAT WE KNEW. I WAS SHOCKED WHEN I HEARD WHO IT WAS. NOT KNOWING RYAN LIKE WE DID LANCE DUE TO THE AGE DIFFERENCE, KRYSTLE STILL LOOKED UP TO BOTH YOUR SONS. I HAVE HEARD NOTHING BUT GOOD COMMENTS ABOUT THE TWO OF THEM. WE WERE UNABLE TO ATTEND THE SERVICE DUE TO JOBS, BUT KRYSTLE DID AND WE WERE WITH YOU IN PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS ALL DAY, AS WE STILL ARE. I KNOW TIME AND GOD WILL GET YOU THROUGH IT ALL. REFLECT BACK ON THE OLD SONG"one day at a time". LOVE TO YOU ALL ERIC & PAM WEST AND KRYSTLE COUNTZ BENNETT
Paulette Breedlove-Lackey
March 7, 2009
Danny, Linda, and Lance and all of the family of Ryan McAfee. My heart breaks for you all. Ryan's memory will be with you all, and will get you through this horrible time. I wish I could have been there for his service, and to give you all a hug. I have prayed and prayed for all of you. I prayed that God will wrap his arms around you all and give you the comfort that you need. Cling closely together, God is there. And lean on us all! Love to you all, Paulette (Breedlove) Lackey
Bonny Stone
March 6, 2009
Danny, Linda, and Lance, I was so shocked to read about Ryan in the paper. I moved to Illinois after Kenny's death but tried to keep up with the paper. It was extremely hard reading about Ryan's death. My heart goes out to all of you but know he is in a better place than we are. My prayers are with you and my arms are giving you all a big hug. I heard something to this effect on Little House on the Prairie once that went "Remember me with joy and laughter for that is how I will remember you. If you can only remember me with tears, don't remember me at all." I think Ryan would possibly agree with that as well.
Gene, Joy and Gina Brewer
March 6, 2009
Danny, Linda and Lance
Our hearts are deeply sorrowed to hear of the loss of Ryan. We were all blessed to have known him. Ryan was a young man to be proud of. Danny and Linda you are excellent parents who not only taught but lived a christian life in front of the boys and that shows in both Ryan and Lance. Ryan was very proud of his parents and brother. He was very strong in his faith. He will be greatly missed but we can find comfort in knowing where he is and knowing we will be able to see him again someday. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. If you anything dont hesitate to call.
Kristi Mitchell
March 6, 2009
It seems like only yesterday when your boys came to basketball camp at Frink-Chambers. I have your family in my prayers.
Ronnie and Vickie Butler
March 6, 2009
Danny and Family-
We can not even begin to know how you feel right now, but please know that we are here and lifting you and your family up in prayers, as you have our family in the past. Know that God hears your heart, even when you can't pray and will carry you through.
Love and Prayers-
The Butler Family
Mary & Wade Earhart
March 6, 2009
Dear Linda,Danny & Lance,
Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.God bless you all.
Sally Roberts
March 6, 2009
Dearest Linda, Danny, Lance, & Family: Your family is such a blessing. Ryan's service was AWESOME. Lance, you did a great job honoring your brother. "Ryan's" life, and all of your lives are such a testimony to the Lord. We were so blessed to have "Ryan" as a part of our lives when he was young. He has always been a blessing and a great boy. I'm sorry we hadn't had contact with him in a while but it was obvious "Ryan" was still fun loving, a great example, a great ball player and a handsome young man. Britton's heart, as all of our hearts are broken for your loss and our loss. Many memories we will cherish. Though saddened for everyones loss we are blessed to know that our loss is heavens gain. We are blessed to know "Ryan" is with our Lord, and if we live as "Ryan" did, putting God first, we will see him again. We love each of you. You are forever in our thoughts and prayers. Philippians 4:13 Love & God Bless, Jeff, Sally, & Britton
Carolyn McNatt Hill
March 6, 2009
It seem like it was yesterday and we were just kids ourself, The thought of Losing my sons is my greatest fear, I hope Jesus and great memories get you thru the difficult times. Everyone says that he witnessed to a lot of people in his short life, that makes his life so great, a modern day hero..
Stacie Fryer
March 5, 2009
Dear Danny, Linda, D.L., Ann, Mike and family, My thoughts and prayers are with you. I still remember Linda bringing the boys to the library when they were little. I have heard so many wonderful things about the young man Ryan became and how he loved the Lord. He will be greatly missed. My deepest sympathies.
Robert n Carol Scott
March 5, 2009
Dear brother and sister:
What a great thing to know you, and see the love of our God in your lives. God has blessed so many of us through contact with your family. May we be able to return his love and strenght to you, seek His peace. Love..........................
Cara Gaberino
March 5, 2009
My deepest condolences to the McAfee family in this greatest time of sorrow and grief. I extend my heart and strength to your family at this time. With love and sympathy.
Cindy Franklin
March 5, 2009
To the McAfee Family,
Danny I worked with you for a while at ups, and i am so sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
Carolyn Richard (HMCC)
March 5, 2009
Danny, I was so saddened to hear about Ryan's death. I know how proud you are of both of your sons by the stories you've told us over the years. I'll always appreciate you for the extra time you gave to my Dad when you delivered Mom's medicine to their home. It meant a lot to him. My prayers are with you and your family as you go through this very difficult time.
Phyllis (Brewster) Hurlbut
March 5, 2009
Dear McAfee Family,
Deepest sympathy to you during your time of sorrow. Hold on tight to each other and God will see you through this. God has a plan, we just can't see it right at this moment.
John D. Merritt
March 5, 2009
I knew Ryan was a class guy the moment I met him due to his love of Chicago sports, but more importantly by the manner in which he conducted himself. My thoughts and prays go out to your family.
Melissa (Conn) Tarron
March 5, 2009
Danny, Linda, D.L., Ann, Lance, and family, - Please know we are continuing to pray the Lord will see you through this time, with His covering strength, love and comfort.
Anne Marie Stigers
March 5, 2009
Dear McAfee family,
We come along side you to share your grief and lift your burden to the Lord. Jesus cares for you and will give you the strength to carry you through this time. Ryan was one of my son's room mates at OC. I know Remington will greatly miss his brother in the Lord. God bless you all.
Deanna Adams
March 5, 2009
May God's peace and strength carry you through the many hours of grief you will experience. Your family is in my prayers. Deanna Countz Adams
Amber McOwen
March 5, 2009
Danny, Linda and Lance,
Just know that our prayers are with you in your time of grief. I am so sorry for your loss of Ryan.
gail snow whitlock
March 5, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
justin sanders
March 5, 2009
god bless each of you.........
Ludwig Schuldheis
March 5, 2009
We are very sorry to hear about Ryans passing. I had the oppertunity to meet him at the Cool Water Ranch in Bayfield CO. about three years ago. We are the parents of Susan McAee.
Carolyn Hallum
March 5, 2009
Danny, Linda and Lance, We were saddened when Paula called us with the news of Ryan. Just know that God is with you and lean on him. We are praying that God will keep his loving arms around you and will help you through this most difficult time. God Bless You, Paul & Carolyn Hallum
Donnie & Janet (Kelley) Dawes
March 5, 2009
All of our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Bill Hutter
March 5, 2009
Our thoughts And Prayers are with your family. So many of us prayed for
Ryan that day, although we never knew him personaly we all lost something. God will hold you and keep you strong. God bless your family.
From all the rescue workers, and Blue Fire Dept.
Renee Hogue
March 4, 2009
Dear McAfee Family,
I am writing on behalf of my husband. He was one of the first vehicles to come upon the accident. After reading about Ryan, I know you can find some peace in his salvation but I also want you to know that Ryan was not alone at the scene. My husband went to Ryan and never left him. He reached out to hold his fingers very carefully and talked to him to let him know that he was there and also that help was on the way. We have two children of our own, a son 16 ½ and a 12 year old daughter. It’s amazing the impact that a stranger can make upon another. If there is peace to be found in this event just know that a loving and hurting dad was with him and stayed at his side until he was taken away from the scene. My husband called me moments after while still there to tell me about this young man he wanted to help. It was Tuesday when I heard that Ryan attended ECU. I also work at ECU. It seems somehow we feel connected to your son through this encounter in life. Just know your son touched my husband’s heart and I know he will remember Ryan for many years to come. Your son and family were in our thoughts and prayers from the time I receive my husband’s call and we will continue.
God bless
Charlene January
March 4, 2009
Dear McAfee Family,
Our deepest condolences to your family. No parent should ever have to lose a child. There are no words for how you must be feeling. I did not know Ryan very well, since he is a couple of years older than Kiersten but she always spoke well of him and I enjoyed watching him play basketball. He played with such enthusiasm. He will be greatly missed by so many and he has affected so many more people than he could ever have imagined. Our prayers are with you and will continue to be with you through your time of grief.
The Januarys, Jeff, Charlene, Kiersten and McKenna
Darlene O'Toole
March 4, 2009
Aunt Viola,Uncle Dick & cousin Linda, I am so very sorry to hear of the passing of Ryan. My thoughts & prayers are with you.
mason davis
March 4, 2009
i remember ryan form the k.b.a. church camp a few years ago and he was and still is the nicest most caring person i've ever met. im not really sure what words to say but i want you guys to know that you are in my prayers and if you need anything don't hesitate to ask
mason davis
Anne Chillman
March 4, 2009
Danny, Linda, and Lance,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. Ryan was such a wonderful, bright, fun, and compassionate young man. May you find strength and peace in Christ's love.
Love,
Chilly, Anne, and Avery
Eddie Phillips
March 4, 2009
Danny,Linda and Lance,
We send our love and prayers in the loss of Ryan. We remember him and Lance at Frink Baptist when they were just babies. We know your pain, we lost our Mike when he was 22 yrs old. It takes God and time to get through these sad times.
God Bless You.
Eddie and Carol Phillips
Russellville,Ark.
John Duff
March 4, 2009
I know words cannot express the grief you feel or the sorrow for your loss. My heart goes out to you and I do lift you up in prayer and give thanks that Ryan knew Christ as his Savior. I love you guys.
Deborah Hughes
March 4, 2009
Dear McAfee family,
I have always been amazed by your family stength and unity. May that strength help you through this time. My thoughts, prayers and love are with you.
Dan Patton
March 4, 2009
Dear McAfees, I am so sorry for your loss. I know words of condolence seem empty right now, but I offer them along with my prayer that God will comfort and strengthen you. I am proud to have known this young man that was (as is Lance) proud of his Christian faith and shared it with confidence and ease.
Karla Taylor
March 4, 2009
Danny, Linda, and Lance,
My heart is breaking for you. I understand the shock and horror that you are dealing with and the only place to go for peace and comfort is the Lord. Hold on to Him. He will not let you drown in the sea of grief. The best advice I can give you in the coming days and weeks is to take care of yourselves. No one knows what you are feeling and experiencing; do what is right for you; let yourselves grieve; I will be checking in on you.
You are so much in my heart and prayers as you face this mountain.
Call me any time.
Let your friends love you.
Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.
Matthew 5:4 NIV
They that sow in tears shall reap in joy.
Psalm 126:5 KJV
…ye shall be sorrowful, but your sorrow shall be turned into joy.
John 16:20 KJV
Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.
Psalm 30:5 KJV
But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4:19 KJV
The Lord is my rock, my fortress and my savior; my God is my rock in whom I find protection. He is my shield, the strength of my salvation, and my stronghold.
Psalm 18:2 NLT
Love and prayers,
Karla
Brock & Cathy Tyler & Brittany Orr, Garret & Emily & Brock Eakin
March 4, 2009
We are so sorry for your tragic loss, sometimes its so hard to understand why. May God bring you peace and comfort, He is our rock, our strength. I know when we all get to heaven who's going to be there waiting for us..Ryan. He's not gone he's in a better place. Your family is in our hearts and prayers.
Dene Black
March 4, 2009
Danny, Linda, Lance and the rest of the family.
My families prayers, love, and thoughts are with you all. Ryan was such a special person. What a testimony he has left behind. Ryan showed his Christianity and his love for our Saviour openly and lovingly. What a life and testimony for young kids and all of us alike to follow. May God put his Loving and Comforting arms around you and guide through this time. We love you guys.
Dene, Corye, Codye April Black & kids, Harold and Juanaita Ott
Crystal Barlow
March 4, 2009
Danny, Linda and Lance,
I am sorry for your loss, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
BRETT GANTT
March 4, 2009
OUR PRAYERS AND LOVE GO OUT TO YOU IN THIS TIME OF NEED
Terry and Patti Sledge
March 4, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and we're praying for your strength.
Kimberly & Cecile Rodgers
March 4, 2009
Mrs. McAfee and family: Please know that our hearts and prayers go out to you during this terrible time. May God give you the strength needed to get through this tragedy.
Clydesdale Trucking
March 4, 2009
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Denver & Martha Holloway
March 4, 2009
Linda Danny and Family
Our heart goes out to you. Our Thoughts and Prayers are with your families.
Mary Everly
March 4, 2009
our heart goes out to your family,Ryan was a great person,my son played basketball with him and he always played with such sportsmanship!He is an angel watching over all of us now!!God bless you Ryan!!!Nathan,bree Mary and Coland Everly
Crista Lyle
March 4, 2009
MCAFEE FAMILY- I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. RYAN WAS A GREAT PERSON. HE WILL BE MISSED.
Bill Pace
March 4, 2009
Danny,Linda and Lance
Just letting ya'll know that we are thinking and praying every day for you.Ryan was such a great young man and hope that you can find comfort in knowing he is in a much better place.Thanks for opening up your house to my son and showing him the love that all of you did.
Love,
Bill,Jena and Paxton
Linda Merritt-Klisiewicz
March 4, 2009
Dear Linda and family,
I cannot even imagine what you all are going through. My thoughts are prayers have been with you ever since I heard the news. I'm so glad that I got a chance to visit with Ryan over the summer when he and Lance came to Chicago. May God be with you all at this time.
Malinda Berkey
March 4, 2009
Danny & Family
Our hearts and prayers goes out to you and your family.
Tommy and Malinda Berkey
Moyers, OK
Cindy London
March 4, 2009
My heart goes out to your family. My thoughts and prayers have been with your family. God Bless
Danielle St. Amand
March 4, 2009
McAfee Family- I was very sorry to hear about the loss of Ryan. My heart is with you all at this very emotional time. You are all in my prayers.
Wilford and Pam West
March 4, 2009
Dear Daniel and Family,
We were so sorry to hear about Ryan. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Love,
Wilford Lee and Pam West
Arlinda Eakle
March 4, 2009
Lance & Family,
These are only words but please know that you are thought of, prayed for, and loved.
Arlinda
Beth Adams
March 4, 2009
Linda & Family,
Words can never express the way you feel right now. Only know our thoughts & prayers are with you in this time of need.
Tim, Beth, Kyla, Jarrett & Loren Adams- McAlester
Asha Keval
March 4, 2009
May God grant peace and serenity to Ryan. We pray God gives the family strength and courage to cope with the loss.
Kishor, Asha & Akisha Keval (McAlester, OK)
Terri Everett - Sexton
March 4, 2009
Danny, Linda and family: My heart aches for you and my prayers go out to you. Ryan was such a special person and I know that God holds a special place for him in heaven. We love you guys,
Jack & Elia Merritt
March 4, 2009
Danny, Linda and Lance, our hearts were broken when we heard about Ryan. He was a treasury and will be missed. We are so thankful that he and Lance were able to visit us this past summer and were looking forward to future visits. We extend our heartfelt sympathy and share in your grief. We pray that God looks after all of you during this most difficult time.
LL and Jeannie Powell
March 4, 2009
To Ryan's Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Kitty Fullenwider
March 4, 2009
I am very sorry to hear about your lose. Cameron will miss him dearly.
Cassie (Black) England
March 4, 2009
Danny, Linda, & Lance
Just want you guys to know that your in my thoughts in prayers.. I'm so heartbroken to know that Ryan is gone.. He was such a sweet person.. I'm glad to know though that he will be smiling from above at everything we do...
Love and prayers
Cassie (Black) England
Judy Whicker
March 4, 2009
We are so sorry for your loss. I have many memories of Ryan and your family. Ryan was a loving and kind child. We will be praying for you. Love, Judy Whicker and Family
Julie Davenport
March 4, 2009
My name is Julie Davenport I am a couple years older than Lance but I was on the Academic team with him at Canadian. I knew Ryan from his sports playing and I would like to express my deepest condolences in your loss
Dallas James
March 4, 2009
Ryan, i miss you so much. Its like yesterday you were here. Now your watching over all of us. We love you.
Ann Hester
March 4, 2009
Linda, Danny and Lance,
Our hearts go out to you during this difficult time. We will continue to pray for you. Ryan was a special young man.
Ann and Stacy Hester
Team Mississippi
Bruce Brannon
March 4, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you guys.
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