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Paul Trively Obituary
Paul H. Trively, 62, of Salisbury Township, passed away April 9, in Lehigh Valley Hospital, Salisbury Township. He was married to Linda J. (Danner) Trively for 41 years. Born in Allentown, he was the son of the late George C. and Maryann (Moser) Trively. He was vice-president of Specifications Sales at Lutron Electronics Co., Coopersburg, working there for 41 years. Paul was a graduate of Penn State University, Allentown. He was a board member of the International Architectural Lighting Designers and a member of the Illuminating Engineering Society. Paul enjoyed golfing and was an avid Texas Holdem player. Survivors: Wife; daughter, Jacqueline wife of Terence Ruszin of Whitehall; son, Paul H. Trively III of Va. Beach; brother, George C. Trively, Jr. and his wife, Elaine of Kuhnsville; grandchildren, Willam Trively and Victoria Ruszin. He was preceded in death by a sister, Doris Nemeth. Services: 1 p.m. Wednesday, Graveside Services at Coplay Cemetery, 9th and Oak Streets, Coplay. No calling hours. Arrangements, Robert A. Hauke Funeral Home, 327 Chestnut St., Coplay, 18037. Contributions: In lieu of flowers, to Make-A-Wish Foundation c/o the funeral home.
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Linda Trively
April 9, 2015
Six years ago I lost my best friend. I miss you very much. Love forever. Sonny
April 9, 2013
Four years have passed my love, I still miss you so very much. Hope you're still playing Texas Hold Em.
Sonny
April 22, 2011
Another Year has passed my Snuggles, I and Birdie still miss you so much.
Love, Sonny
Linda Trively
April 9, 2010
To my husband, my best friend, my Snuggles, It has been 1 year since your passing, I miss you so much. I miss most of all our long walks with Birdie. You would always say "another day to hold hands" I still take the walks with Birdie and I'm still holding your hand. Love, Sonny
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Linda Schroeder
August 22, 2009
Linda, Jackie & Family ....
While talking with Lance B. today, he mentioned Paul's death, and it was the first I had heard of it. I'm so very sorry for your loss. Lots of good memories of Paul and his great sense of humor. He will not be forgotten by so many friends he made during his lifetime. I've been gone from Lutron for many years, but I've never forgotten those who co-workers who deserved a great deal of respect. Paul was one of those people.
Michael John Smith
May 20, 2009
My sympathy to the Trively family. Paul was a real pro, one of my oldest friends in the lighting community, and one of the kindest people I have ever met.
Randy Burkett
May 11, 2009
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to the entire Trively family, as well as to all his extended family at Lutron. Paul was one of the first professionals I met when I entered the lighting design field in the late 1970's. As a colleague, I was lucky to have known Paul. As a friend, I was truly blessed. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Moises Hernandez
May 11, 2009
MI MAS SENTIDO PESAME A LA FAMILIA TRIVELY,
PAUL SIEMPRE QUE ME VEIA ME DABA UN FUERTE ABRAZO DE HERMANO,GRACIAS PAUL POR TU AMISTAD...DIOS TE TENGA EN SU GLORIA..
MOISES HERNANDEZ (VERACRUZ,MEXICO Y REPUBLICA DOMINICANA)
Dee Ginthner
May 3, 2009
To Paul's Family, You have my deepest symphathy. May it give you some comfort to know the memories of Paul will live on in the hearts of MANY people. He touched our lives and made IES meetings and events very special, it won't be the same without him! He was a good friend and a talented, respected professional.
Jason Glose
April 27, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
JJ Gonzalez
April 24, 2009
To Trively Family:
Please receive our deepest sympathies and condolences for your lost. Paul was a strong and committed leader, and a good friend. We will miss him.
Rafael Roa
April 24, 2009
Dear Travely Family,
My deepest condolence abot this terrible loss.Paul was the first member of Lutron that invited me and my partness in 1996 to introduce His products in our Country.
Today We understand His passion and enthusiasm for the lighting controls.
He helped Us everytime...
Sincerelly,
John Shields
April 23, 2009
Dear Trively Family,
I learned of Paul's passing just recently and I wanted to extend my deepest sympathies. As I wrote Paul (III), I have many fond memories of Paul and I playing together as kids and many of those involved his father. Your family always made me feel like one of their own and I will always have a special place for those memories. Paul (Sr) always brought a lightness to a room that made you happy. I'm very sorry for you loss.
Will Gonzalez
April 21, 2009
To the Trively Family,
Our deepest condolences and prayers are with you.
Paul was a wonderful and passionate person with an infectious enthusiasm for life.
He’ll be greatly missed.
Will Gonzalez and family.
Ruben Urquijo
April 21, 2009
To the Trively Family, our condolences from the Urquijo Family.
I miss you Paul.
Ruben Urquijo Mexico City.
April 20, 2009
Dear Trivey Family,
All our hearts are with you in this time of shock. Paul is greatly missed and his loss will be felt forever. Paul was one of the first people I had the pleasure of meeting in the lighting industry in 2008. As others have noted here he was a gentleman of great humor and keen intelligence. I am very sorry for your loss.
John Martin, IALD Public Policy
June Shaw
April 20, 2009
To the Trively Family, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I had the pleasure of working for the woman who's office was right next to Paul's and supported him when his assistant was out. He was the warmest, kindest person and a joy to work with. My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family.
Elias Cisneros
April 20, 2009
Dear Trively Family,
I feel very sad for the loss of this fine and excellent friend, we will miss him a lot, and I'm glad that I have received a lot of knowledge from Paul, and his support to us at the lighting industry will be missed. It is like yesterday when we had an excelent dinner at Savannah and we do have such a great time walking as we go back to the hotel and many, many moments more in wich Paul's prescence wil be remembered.
He remains in our prayers.
Babu Shankar
April 18, 2009
Dear Trively Family:
Please accept my heartfelt condolences. I had the pleasure of knowing Paul for the last 28 years. All his friends in the lighting industry will miss this kind, extremely smart gentleman with his own style of sense of humor. My good thoughts and Prayers are with you during this hard time.
Rachel Kade
April 17, 2009
Linda, Jackie, and Paulie-
I will always picture Paul with his golf clubs when I think of him. He always had them at the family reunions. I'm proud to say he was family. May the love of family help get you through this heart-breaking time.
Rachel, Brian, Lauren, and Logan Kade
Phil Nemeth
April 17, 2009
Linda,JacKie and Paulie
My deepests condolences.
Im having a tough time getting over this.
Paul was much more than an uncle, he was more like a great friend.
I remember fondly the days of my youth fishing with him at Lake Wallenpaupack, our boat caught the most fish! I caught my first Muskie when Paul took me to that "new lake" called Beltsville.
We had some awesome wiffle ball games at the grandparents house in Hokey.
As I grew older Paul was a great teacher. I learned many things professionally and recreationaly. I always enjoyed the times on the golf course, whether Myrtle Beach or Wedgewood, it was always a blast. Hell, the man taught me how to play a mean game of poker!
I will miss the man greatly, it is a shame the great ones go way too soon.
April 17, 2009
Linda,Pauli,Jackie,Terry,Vicky and billy,I will never forget the good times we had at my brothers house. Elaine and I had are best vacations, with Linda and Paul.Noone will ever replace my brother. As busy as he was, he called me when he had a chance. Loved his family and his friends. I will miss you brother. Deal the first hand AND WHEN I PLAY IM GOING ALL IN. Wait for me. Love Butch And Elaine
Vince Santini
April 17, 2009
My sincere condolences go out to the Trively family. Paul was a gentleman to me early in my career, always made me feel special. He will be missed by by many, including me.
Star Building Services
April 17, 2009
On behalf of Star Building Services,the housekeeping contractor for Lutron Electronics @ Coopersburg, and its Coopersburg housekeepers, our deepest sympathies to Mrs. Trively and family. May you find peace and comfort in your hour of loss.
Terry Riuszin
April 17, 2009
Paul, You were my father in law, my golf partner, and my friend. Your Daughter Jacky loved you more than you could know and will miss you so very much. You were a Great Pop Pop to my children! They loved you so much, as did all the kids in our extended family. They loved Casino nights and Movie nights at your house and looked forward to you stories. You will be sorely missed!
Your Son In Law,
JUAN DIAZ COLOCHO
April 16, 2009
Linda and family, please accept our deepest condolences for the loss of my good old friend Paul. he was a gentle and kind man who introduced me to the Lutron family since our first dealings with dimming controls in the industry. We must all rejoice that he is already in the lord's heavenly kingdom as he was a gentleman who touched our lives with kindness and sincerity. our prayers and thoughts are with all of you hoping that many among his family and lutron will follow his example and teachings. may god bless the trively family and give you fortitute and hope thru the holy spirit.
Juan Diaz Colocho (San Salvador, El Salvador)
Craig DiLouie
April 16, 2009
I was saddened to hear this terrible news and offer my condolences to you and your family. Paul will be sorely missed by his colleagues in the lighting industry.
Pat & Carl Husser
April 16, 2009
Dear Linda,
We were suprised and saddened to hear about Paul. Our heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
Scott Hershman
April 16, 2009
Please accept my sincere condolences. I remember when I first met Paul 25 years ago when I was first starting in the industry. I had drawn a cartoon about Lutron and sent it to my local rep. About a month later I was introduced to Paul, a senior executive and influential man in the industry. Although I may have been nervous to meet him imagine my surprise when Paul greeted me and told me he had a good laugh at my cartoon.
Since them I had been fortunate to work with Paul on many projects and committees. He will be missed by all.
April 16, 2009
Linda & family,
We are so sad to hear about this terrible loss. I am so lucky that my parents had such a dear, wonderful friend who touched all of our lives. We will always remember Paul with a laugh and a smile, since that is what he was doing whenever we saw him. We will miss him and his great sense of humor and adventure. Our thoughts are with all of you at this difficult time.
With our deepest sympathies,
Dan & Kristin (Hubinsky) Barlette
Karen Knipe
April 15, 2009
Linda, Jackie and Paul, I was so saddened to hear about Paul. I have worked with Paul since 1985. You could always depend on Paul to help you learn about the company and our products. I remember parties at your old house and how much everyone enjoyed being there. One day the memories will not bring tears but smiles of joy as you remember the love Paul had given to you. Paul loved his family above all.
Ashley Kwait
April 15, 2009
I feel honored to have worked with Paul, the short time that I did. He was such a kind man. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Jonathan Littman
April 15, 2009
My deepest condolences to the Trively family. My father has always spoken so highly about Paul and your family and I want to let you know my thoughts are with you as go through this tragic time.
Sincerely
Jonathan Littman
President, Jerry Bruckheimer Television
Andy Wiesner
April 15, 2009
Dear Trively Family:
I am really sorry about the loss of Paul. I had known Paul for more than 20 years and we shared good times in Venezuela and other places we constantly met. He was always willing to teach us very enthusiastically about Lutron products.Wherever we met him he was always very kind to us.
We will miss him
Please receive our deeepest condolences
Michael Jouaneh
April 15, 2009
To the Trively Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Paul was a pleasure to be around. His enthusiasm and passion were contagious. I will always have fond memories of him at work, on the golf course, and at the poker tables. I will miss him a lot.
JoAnne Lindsley
April 15, 2009
My thoughts and empathy are with Paul's family as well as his extended professional family at Lutron. I will miss Paul so much. At any professional gathering Paul was one to whom everyone gravitated. Not only was he supremely knowledgeable, but he greeted everyone with an enthusiastic smile and a personal remembrance. When one of my daughters had a restaurant in eastern Europe, he went to great lengths to explore the possibility of exporting his favorite Tequila to her. He had a keen interest in gems from his travels and was fond of a ring of mine. When ever we met, he always looked to see if I was wearing it. Small personal things that demonstrated that he was sincerely interested in everyone. He was the embodiment of Lutron character and integrity. He will be so missed by so many.
Talancon Group
April 15, 2009
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Deborah Frankhouser
April 15, 2009
My deepest condolences to Paul's family. As a lighting designer, I had the honor of several very nice evenings with Paul and other members of Lutron enjoying good food and wonderful conversation. He will be missed by all of us in the lighting community.
Laura Roman
April 15, 2009
Dear Mrs. Trively,
I want to extend my deepest condolences to you and your family.
Paul was one of the first people I met in the lighting industry when I started my lighting career in Ecuador. It was amazing how much he enjoyed working with the Latin American folks. I have very fond memories of him from those days.
When I moved to the US and started working as a lighting designer in Chicago it was a pleasure to continue working with him. He has definitely been a great member of the international lighting industry, and he will be greatly missed.
Best regards,
Laura Roman
April 15, 2009
Dear Linda, jackie and Paulie.
We are so sorry for your loss. Paul was a truly wonderful person with a kind and generous heart and a kind word for everyone always. We will keep him in our hearts forever and keep you in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time. We are blessed for having known him and are better because of it. I know he still is and will always be watching over you.
Withour deepest sympathy--
Sharon and Tom
Jackie Joyce
April 15, 2009
To the Trively Family,
As I read all of these wonderful tributes to Paul I cannot help but think how blessed you were to be his family and how proud you must be of the man he was. I first met Paul 21 years ago when I began my Lutron career. I feel extremely lucky to have known him.
Peace and prayers to you.
April 14, 2009
To the Trively Family. I have been part of the Lutron family since 1984. In all those years I have always admired Paul. He was someone you aspired to be like in both business and as a person. We will all miss him.
Frank and Marie Lilly (Orlando, Florida)
April 14, 2009
To the Trively Family. I have been part of the Lutron family since 1984. In all those years I have always admired Paul. He was someone you aspired to be like in both business and as a person. We will all miss him.
Frank and Marie Lilly (Orlando, Florida)
DONALD KIRSCHBERG
April 14, 2009
DEAR LINDA AND FAMILY
MR. GERMAN BERRIO CALLE ME FRIDAY MORNING TO GIVE ME THIS VERY VERY SAD NEWS………………
AT FIRST I WAS TRULY WITHOUT WORDS ………………….AND I NEEDED A FEW DAYS TO KNOW REALLY WHAT KIND OF LETTER I SHOULD WRIGHT TO YOU AND THE LUTRON FAMILY.
PAUL TRIVELY STARTED ME IN THE LUTRON BUSINESS IN THE VERY EARLY NINETIES, 1992 IF I REMEMBER CORRECTLY.
AND FOR ALMOST 7 CONSECUTIVES YEARS, PAUL TRAVELED TO COLOMBIA TO SUPPORT OUR BUSINESS AND TO TRAIN US IN PRODUCTS AND LIGHTING CONTROL.
WHEN HE STAYED OVER WEEKENDS, I HAD TO PICK HIM UP AT THE HOTEL AT 5.30 AM SO WE WOULD BE ABLE TO ARRIVE AT THE GOLF COURSE BEFORE EVEN THE SUN HAS RISEN.
WE PLAYED ON ONE DAY THE ASTONISHING AMOUNT OF 63 HOLES (UNTIL TODAY MY PERSONAL RECORD), PLAYING THE LAST NINE HOLES ONLY WITH 3 CLUBS, GREAT TIMES WHICH I WILL REMEMBER FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE………………
EVEN IN THE LAST YEARS WHEN HE WAS NOT IN CHARGED OF OUR PART OF THE WORLD AND I WOULD TRAVEL TO LUTRON, HE ALWAYS TOOK TIME TO MEET ME, AND TO HAVE LUNCH OR DINNER WITH ME.
THERE IS SO MUCH PAUL HAS DONE FOR ME, THAT I DON’T EVEN WANT TO START NUMBERING THEM.
HE WAS A VERY VERY SPECIAL PERSON TO ME, AND I GUARANTEE YOU LINDA, THAT I ALWAYS WILL REMEMBER HIM.
I WILL SAY KADISH FOR HIM, WHICH IS OUR WAY TO HONOR A PERSON WHO IS NOT LONGER WITH US.
Larry Bleam
April 14, 2009
Linda and Family,
Pat and I were truly saddened at the sudden loss of Paul. I had the honor of knowing Paul since 1971, when I started at Lutron. This is a great loss to us all and especially to Lutron. Paul was always the "gentleman" and always had a kind word for everyone.
We are very sorry for your loss.
PS: I'm sure Paul will keep an eye on Joe Pa for us!!!
Sean Darcy
April 14, 2009
Dear Trively Family,
I've known Paul for about 20 years and feel he was personally responsible initiating the Lutron relationship that ALR has enjoyed all of these past years. Paul was always the consumate gentleman and professional. He was forever a gracious host. Above all of the business realtionships I considered Paul to be a friend.
I, like so many others, will miss Paul greatly.
On behalf of all of us at ALR our thoughts and prayers are with all those that loved Paul.
Respectfully,
Sean Darcy
Brendon VanCampen
April 14, 2009
Dear Linda & Family:
I cannot begin to tell you how saddened I was to hear of Paul's passing and of your loss. My sincerest condolences to you and your family. Paul was a friend, mentor, confidant, leader, fellow lighting control geek (said with the utmost respect), but most of all a truly superb person. Always cheerful, always looking forward for the best solution or improvement, whether that be a customer issue, a technical engineering issue, or on his golf swing. Paul made the long hours fun and to this day, I could (and did frequently) turn to him for advice, his counsel and wisdom. Paul did it right. Always.
Paul's impact in the industry is legendary; but what counts most is his impact as a person, and I can think of no finer human being that I have had the privilege and the honor of knowing and serving side by side with at Lutron. His wit and charm and simply awesome life-event stories will be missed greatly. Just on those merits alone, I know he is in a better place and at peace.
Respectfully and with all sympathy,
Brendon VanCampen & Family
David Neel
April 14, 2009
Dear Trively Family,
I am very sorry for your loss. Paul was one of the first people I met when I was a newbie in the business, about 1987. He was very helpful and kind to me and I always remembered that. In later years when I would see him, he always had a kind word and remembered me from those earlier days. He was a true giant in the business and will be missed.
Kyle Gotliebson
April 14, 2009
To the Trively family,
To me, Paul was a better person than he was a golfer, and he was an excellent golfer. I know he is sitting in the clubhouse waiting for us all to finish our rounds and when we get there he'll be there with a bright smile and a funny story. That's just Paul. Always a little ahead of the rest of us.
Vickie Carroll-White
April 14, 2009
Dear Paul:
I was sadden to hear about the suden loss of your father. Words just seem so inadequate. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Maureen Flowers
April 14, 2009
To the Trively family,
I was deeply saddened upon hearing the news of Paul’s passing. I have had the pleasure of working with Paul for close to fifteen years. Paul has always been and will remain one of the kindest men I have ever worked with. Although his seniority within our organization could have given him simple reason to separate himself from new hires – Paul always made himself available to us. He provided individual mentoring and professional development, as well as personal guidance and strength. His great knowledge, vast experience, grace, humor, and humble character have touched us all and will continue within each of us in our personal and professional lives. He will be truly missed.
Please accept my most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
"No person is ever truly alone. Those who live no more, whom we loved, echo still within our thoughts, our words, our hearts." - Richard Fife
Tom Zaklukiewicz
April 14, 2009
Paul was a great man and a privlege to know. he always had the time when if you asked of him . He will be surely missed. god take care of him. Tom Zaklukiewicz
Lutron 1978- 1990 employee.
Genie Mattson
April 14, 2009
Linda and Family -
I am so deeply saddened with the loss of Paul. He was a very tremendously wonderful warm-hearted person. I will never forget his care and concern with the sickness and loss of our Dad and with Mom's illnesses. He always made a point to inquire how my family and I were doing, and to see how he could help.
I used to love to talk with Paul about Las Vegas. He always gave me pointers on the "slot machines" cause he knew that I love to play them!
God Bless all of you. You have a very special angel watching over you for eternity.
Genie Mattson
April 14, 2009
Paul was truely one of the greats in this industry. He will be missed. I thank him for the many things he taught me and for personally giving me the basics of dimming education.
Sincerly,
Charlotte Szynskie (a specifier)
Rita (Cawley) Shovlin
April 14, 2009
Dear Linda, Jackie and Paul:
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this terrible time. Paul had a love of life that was contagious and everyone whose life he touched was fortunate to have known him.
With deepest sympathy to all of you.
Hector Varela
April 14, 2009
In the very short time I met Paul, I can truly say, as an understatement, that he left an impact on me. This was a rush-in mini course he gave us (a small group from Panama) on July 2007, but I can still remember the kindness and wisdom in his words and the way he transmitted knowledge,... as someone who really cared about people and the environment.
He will be missed. My condolences to family and friends.
April 14, 2009
Paul III,
We are deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May the peace which comes from memories of love shared, comfort you now and in the days ahead.
Nita and Jenny,
NS Medical Dept.
Pamela Hull Wilson
April 14, 2009
My deepest sympathy to the Trively Family. Paul was a respected colleague and a friend.
Axel & Mercedes Wansart
April 14, 2009
God bless Paul! He may not be with us any longer, but he will live on in all of us through his teachings, his good humour, his thoughtfulness and his ever present smile (and his cup of coffee). He contributed to making this world a better place. He will be missed...
Dennis Capewell
April 14, 2009
It was my pleasure to have worked with Paul when I started here at Lutron in 1972. I learned so much from Paul...how to really treat our customers in a caring and positive way. I have enjoyed being Paul's colleague alll these years. We shall miss him and our prayers go out for his family.
April 14, 2009
April 14, 2009
Mrs. Trively and Family
May all our prayers help to console you and your family during this difficult time.
Margie Medina - Lutron, Puerto Rico
Rich & Suzanne Gaugler
April 14, 2009
Linda, Jackie and Paulie,
We were so shocked to read about Paul's passing. We are so sorry and know there are no words that can comfort you. Hopefully, with the passing of time and your wonderful memories your pain will ease. We will always remember Paul. He truly was one of a kind.
Cynthia Gale
April 14, 2009
Though I only worked with Paul occasionally, I have very fond memories of his dedication to the details, in a sea of details! We need more thoughtful people like Paul in our world today, and he will be deeply missed.
The Barber Gale Group
Turquoise Shaw
April 14, 2009
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Erin and Eric Jerger
April 14, 2009
To this day, I often find myself telling stories about Paul, his fantastic sense of humor and how intstrumental he was in mentoring me early on in my career. Paul was truly a first class gentlemen who always put his family and customers first, yet knew how to kick back and relax after a long day.
"Prime Time", thanks for everything, you will be missed!
Norm Courcy
April 14, 2009
Linda and Family,
As a friend of Paul's for the last 40 years and making my first sales call with him, on my road to selling the Lutron story, and all the great times we had on that road. I will miss him, but will try to carry on the values that he gave me and the examples of caring that he showed me.
We should all have a freind like Paul.
Frances Amos
April 14, 2009
Hoping you can find comfort in knowing that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family with the loss of your love one.
Gladys Kahler
April 14, 2009
Dear Trively Family,
Paul, Terri Plusar, Barb Queen and myself started working at Lutron in 1968 and we all became good friends. No matter what the Lutron function was you could always find Paul and Linda there ready with a handshake and a smile. Paul was always smiling and it seemed nothing got him upset. Paul was the center of attention when he was telling us stories of his travels and the things that happened to him. Paul was always laughing and kept us laughing. The last time Terri and I saw Paul, he told us that Lutron was sending all the 40 year service people on vacation to Hawaii, we all laughed and ribbed Nick Maiale, this broke the tension as we were standing in line at Jay Baumer's funeral. That's how Paul was, he knew how to handle tense situations. I will with all my heart miss Paul and his laugh.
Please dear family accept my heart felt condolences and know that Paul will always be in our memories and will never be forgotten.
Bret Hoover
April 14, 2009
Trively Family,
I am so sorry for your loss and Paul's sudden passing. He was a great man and a pleasure to work with. He will not be forgotten. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Greg White
April 13, 2009
To the Trively family;
I was extremely saddened by the news of Paul's passing. He was one of the kindness and most respected professionals in our industry. I have always tried to mimic myself after his passion for lighting control and utmost integrity that he brought to every situation. He had a true gift to make anyone in any situation feel special and important. He always made time for me and was a great source for my professional career. Lutron has lost an incredible asset and the world has lost a great man. I am a better person because of my association with Paul. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of hardship.
Denny & Sue Darragh
April 13, 2009
Dear Linda & Family,
Sue and I were shocked and deeply saddened to hear about Paul. It has been 20 years since I worked with him, but I use what he taught me daily. Paul was a gracious ambassador who made all feel welcome. We offer all our condolences on your loss.
Chip Israel
April 13, 2009
To the entire Trively family,
Words can not decribe the feeling of loss I felt when I heard the news. I can't imagine what you are going through. The impact on our entire industry and all of our personnal lives will not be known for awhile. I can tell you that everyone that knew him, was better off. I know I was.
The future will allow us to remember all of the good times, the stories, etc. It truely has been an honor to know him and his love for his family will remain forever.
Paul, we already miss you, and all I want to say is THANKS.
Dave & Gwen Comer
April 13, 2009
Linda & Family,
Paul meant so much to me. He mentored me beginning with the Carl Menger Company back in 1976 through my days at Texas Lighting. He was always so gracious and made everyone feel special. I have many pleasant memories of Paul and all of our sales calls. He epitomized everything that Lutron is. Memories of Paul will live on in my life. Salute to a gentleman and a man with tireless energy and expansive vision. May you find peace and comfort in your union with our Lord.
Our love,
Jean Deturk
April 13, 2009
To Linda, Paulie, Jackie and family,
My deepest sympathy for your loss. I am so grateful that I even got to know Paul at all. He was such a kind and generous individual. So accepting of others, never judgemental. Loving to his family and friends. I shall miss him dearly.
My Prayers and thoughts are with you.
Lance Bennett and Family
April 13, 2009
Linda and Family
I truly don't know how to put into words what Paul meant to me both personally and professionally. He was without a doubt the single most inspirational person in my career. He had the unique ability of making each of us, the people he touched, feel unique and special. He truly loved Lutron, his golf, his poker, but most importantly his family, who I know meant so much to him, and I am sure he to you.
Truly, the world has lost a very special person, but heaven has gained a very special angel.
Our thoughts and prayers our with you.
Brian Coddington
April 13, 2009
Although I hadn't worked directly with Paul for over 10 years, I am saddened to hear of his passisng. He was a mentor and a friend.
Nuker
April 13, 2009
Mrs. T & PT3 - So very sorry to hear about your loss. Please accept my condolences in this difficult time.
Ernesto Valentin
April 13, 2009
To the Trively Family,
Sonia and I learned of Paul's passing to today and would like to send our deepest sympathy to you.Our prayers are with you and I must say, I have lost a very dear freind. I had the privilage of working for Paul during my time with Lutron and he and I shared many great experiences. He was a he very kind and dedicated person. I will always be grateful to him for his friendship the knowledge he gave me.
John O'Neil
April 13, 2009
Paul was a tremendous asset as a coworker. I've learned much from him over the years. Please accept my condolences. He will be missed.
Steve Edmunds
April 13, 2009
It is with a great deal of sadness when I received the information regarding Paul's passing. We have known each other in excess of 25 years which began through our business relationship. Paul was a real gentleman and a professional in his business affairs. He will be fondly remembered for the enjoyment we shared on the golf course or playing poker at the Lutron sales meetings or out making specification sales calls together. My sincerest condolences to Linda and the Trively family for your loss. You are in my prayers during this most difficult time.
Tom Warton
April 13, 2009
To the Trively family - We were lucky enough to meet this fine man in Mexico this January and are very sad to hear of his passing. We had looked so forward to getting to know him better. Our sincere sympathies to you all.
Robert Willardsen
April 13, 2009
I have known Paul since I was fortunate enought to be awarded the Lutron line as a representative in 1983. I have always thought of Paul as a very genuine, honest person and using him as a model, he has made my life better. We here at DMA will miss him and our prayers are with his family.
Sincerely,
Bob Willardsen
Jim Martin
April 13, 2009
Dear Linda and Family,
Paul was a great man and a great teacher. He traveled with me early on in my career at Lutron and taught me the correct way to specify Lutron. He was respected throughout our industry. I'll never forget him.
Our prayers are with you.
Jim and Tracy Martin
Tony Plonner
April 13, 2009
Paul was just in town with us a little over a week ago, and I once again marveled at the way he could connect with so many different types of people. His dedication to his work and unique insights helped us all to look at the world from a new perspective. He certainly stimulated many minds and, although he will be missed, his legacy will live on in the people he touched and taught.
Tony Plonner
Lighting Dynamics, Inc.
Megan Donovan
April 13, 2009
I had the privilege of being interviewed by Paul to work at Lutron. He impressed upon me a standard of professionalism and class that was an influential factor in choosing to work for our organization. He was truly an ambassador for the company and the lighting industry, and will be missed by many.
Bill Haines
April 13, 2009
Both Sandy and I are shocked and saddened to learn about Paul. Our prayers are with all.
April 13, 2009
To the Trively Family,
I have known Paul for close to thirty years. He was one of my favorites in the lighting industry. Bright, hard working, involved, kind, measured and fair are just a few of the words that come to mind. He was always a big help and friend to my office.
Personally, I will always be grateful to Paul because he helped me get Lutron involved at the Center for Architecture in NYC. He was an early supporter of the Center and his vision and contributions both personally and through Lutron have made it the heart of the NY architecture community that it is today.
It was one of the pleasures of Lightfair for me to go to through the Lutron booth with Paul. He always had time for me and I would always wait for him so he could show me what was new.
Most of all Paul was a gentleman; a term I do not use indiscriminately nor one that I find I am able to use too often these days. I will miss him.
May friends and family and wonderful memories of a great man comfort you during this difficult time.
-Stephen Bernstein
Cline Bettridge Bernstein Lighting Design, New York, NY
Jody Good
April 13, 2009
Dear Trively Family,
Ann and I send our deepest sympathy to you. The entire lighting community will miss Paul. I'm sure you know how helpful Paul was to us, and how honorable a compeditor he was as well. Peace be with you all.
Tim & Karen Brion
April 13, 2009
Linda and Family-
Karen and I were deeply saddened by the news of Paul’s passing. We both have many fond memories of Paul. I am especially thankful to Paul for the opportunity to work in Latin America. Although we only worked together for a short period of time, I was constantly reminded by his friends and colleagues throughout the region of what an inspiration he was – not only in business, but to them personally. You have our deepest sympathies.
Tim & Karen Brion
Christy and Scott Harper
April 13, 2009
Linda and family,
My sincerest condolences while you are coping with the sudden loss of such a wonderful man.
Liliana and Victor Palacio
April 13, 2009
Our deepest sympathies to Linda and Paul’s family in this time of sorrow. He will be missed by a lot of people who were his friends in Mexico. He is in our thoughts and prayers.
Pattie Kennedy
April 13, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Pattie & Keith Kennedy
Shaun Darragh
April 13, 2009
Dear Trively Family,
Our thoughts and fond memories of Paul are with you now. I count myself fortunate to have known and had the opportunity to work with Paul many times over the years.
He will be missed.
Andrew Beldecos
April 13, 2009
Linda and Family, My sincerest condolences, I don't know that I can express how much Paul will be missed by friends and colleagues throughout the world. He was a special person.
John Bos
April 13, 2009
I am saddened by the loss of my friend Paul. We would pull away and talk about coins and kids (occassionally lighting and dimming as well) when we had a chance to see each other or over some wine if he were here at times. He handled the day to day trials with a grace and kindness each of us can only hope to emulate. I will miss him a great deal.
April 13, 2009
All of us here at Norfolk Southern grieve the loss of such an accomplished man and father to our friend Paul . Our condolences and prayers go out to his family. Go Lions !
Myles
Alejandro Vargas
April 13, 2009
Trively Family, my deepest condolences. He will be in my prayers.
Alejandro Vargas
Lighting Dynamics, Inc.
Dorothy Jacquez
April 13, 2009
Dear Linda and Family,
My deepest sympathy! My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories give you the comfort you need.
Ken & Sara Walma
April 13, 2009
Trively Family -
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Paul was a truely great man, and meant so much to so many that words to not describe. He will be truly missed, and but never forgotten.
Always,
Ken
April 13, 2009
Paul,
I am so sorry to hear of your father's passing. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Bill Faulhaber
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