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Viola Barnes Obituary

Viola (Olie) Virginia Barnes passed peacefully away on May 19th surrounded by her family.

Viola was born January 11, 1932 in Rendon, Texas to Alfonso Sansom and Annie Harris.

After attending Texas Tech University, she moved to Midland, Texas where she raised her family. Viola moved to Honolulu, Hawaii in 1969, where she attended Chaminade College and received her B.A. in Psychology. Her academic accomplishments included: Montessori certification, special education certification, and alcohol and drug dependency counseling. Viola was a member of the Episcopal Church of the Holy Trinity, a sustaining member of the Junior League, a hospice volunteer, and a foster grandparent in Midland Independent School District. She taught school at Hawaii School for Girls (La Pietra) before moving back to Midland to participate in oil and gas investments.

Viola was preceded in death by her parents, daughter Laurie Barnes Barr, sister Juanita, and brother Noble.

She is survived by her children, Christy Barnes Motycka and her husband Rick, Elaine Barnes, Steven Clement Barnes, all of Midland, Dr. Julie Barnes and her husband Matthew Conlon of New York, her dear friend, John Busley, siblings Ella Mae Capps and James Harris. Her grandchildren are Craig Barr and wife Shana, Zach Reid and wife Jen, Taylor Barr, Thomas Barr, Micky Ray and wife Megan, Jessie Ray, Sarah Smith and husband Phillip, Rachel Ray and fiancé Holten Campbell, Chandler Mallams, T. C. Byrom and Teresa Byrom. Her six great-grandchildren are Jack and Ryan Barr, Austin and Katie Reid, and Jacob and Joseph Ray. She is also survived by many nieces and nephews. Known by family as "Tutu" (grandmother in Hawaiian), she was truly beloved by family and friends.

Funeral services will be held Wednesday, May 23 at 1:00 pm at the Episcopal Church of the Holy Trinity in Midland. Ellis Funeral Home is in charge of the arrangements with burial at Resthaven Memorial Park.

To place online condolences please visit www.mem.com.

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Published by Midland Reporter-Telegram from May 21 to May 23, 2007.

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Pattye Byrom

May 23, 2007

Elaine and family,
Sorry to hear of your mother's passing, but find comfort in the wonderful memories of her. I am sorry I cannot be at the memorial service, but know that I am with you in thought and prayer.

Love to all,
Pattye Byrom

Janet Burge

May 23, 2007

Christy, Elaine & family,
I was so sorry to hear of Viola's passing. She was a wonderful woman, and had/has a great family. I will always remember our conversations while passing the ironing back and forth. May God be with you during this time and bring you the peace and comfort only He can give. May He continue to bless you all.

John Houghton

May 22, 2007

We were so sorry to learn about Viola passing.
We were very fond of her. She was a great lady.

Sincerely,
John and Annie Houghton

Caroline Kirwan

May 21, 2007

Dear Olie,
You were one of my parents most dearest friends in the whole world(John and Carolyn Kirwan), they will be heart-broken when they get back in town and learn the news. You brought so much joy, love, loyalty, and compassion to everyone's lives whom were blessed to know you. You WILL BE VERY MISSED... and always remembered-
Sincerely,
Caroline Kirwan

Dena "Dee" Sipes

May 21, 2007

I will miss your daily phone calls keeping me informed of the world around us. Keep on smiling so that the sun will keep shining.

Armando Rodriguez

May 21, 2007

Dearest Tutu,

You will truly be missed by all. Thank you for always having a tender,sweet voice and the kindest heart. God Bless You in Heaven!

John Busley Jr

May 21, 2007

We will miss you Olie.

May 21, 2007

TuTu,
Thank you for always being there for me. I am so fortunate to have the memories of our great times spent together. Nobody can ever take your place - your jersey will forever be retired: # 22 "Super Tu Tu".

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