Raymond J. Michelli
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Raymond J. Michelli

AGE: 36 •

Raymond J. Michelli, 36, passed away peacefully Thursday, Oct. 6, 2011, in Monmouth Medical Center, Long Branch. He was a 1995 graduate of Ocean Township High School and a 2000 graduate of Monmouth University, West Long Branch. Raymond was a remarkable young man who touched the hearts of all who knew him. He was challenged all his life with Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy, but he put a smile on the face of everyone he met. Despite his debilitating disease, Raymond's love was athletics. He served as a manager of the Ocean Township Football Team and was a statistician for the Monmouth University Hawk Football Team. Raymond's love for athletics was only surpassed by his love for his family: his mother, Roseann DiBiasi Michelli; father, Thomas; brother, Richard and his sister-in-law, Angela Michelli of Wayside and extra special love for his two nephews, Matthew and Christopher.

Raymond also served as an announcer for WMCX, the Monmouth U Hawks radio station as a DJ and sports commentator. He also served as the NJ Goodwill Ambassador for the Muscular Dystrophy Association for several years. He was a parishioner of St. Anselm Roman Catholic Church and a member of the National Broadcasting Society.

Visitation will be from 3 to 8 p.m. Monday, Oct. 10 in St. Anselm Church, 1028 Wayside Road, Wayside. A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Tuesday, Oct. 11 in the church. Entombment will follow in Woodbine Mausoleum, Oceanport. Buckley Funeral Home, 509 Second Ave., Asbury Park, is in charge of the arrangements. For those wishing to contribute to Raymond's legacy, The Raymond Michelli Scholarship Fund has been established in his honor at Monmouth University. Donations to that scholarship can be made to Monmouth University, Division of University Advancement, West Long Branch, NJ 07764-9980.

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Published in Asbury Park Press from Oct. 8 to Oct. 9, 2011.
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November 14, 2011
roy and chris getchius sends their heartfelt love and condolances. ray was a true inspiration as was his family.he grew to be a fine man to be proud of. we often think about ray..especally when we see hulk hogan. we were speaking of ray today and googled him. were so sorry for all. god bless and be well. ...roy and chris getchius xoxo
October 22, 2011
It was such a special gift to have known and to have worked with Ray at Monmouth University. And it is also a rare pleasure to know Roseann and Tom. Like so many others, I draw inspiration every day from Ray's undying positivity despite what he had to endure physically. I am especially humbled and privileged to have been part of "The Eyes of Ray," the radio story he created in my class. It is a living testimony to the strength of his spirit and the special love he carried with him every day. Rest in peace, Ray, we will miss you.

Chris Cavallaro
Monmouth University
October 16, 2011
To the Michelli Family,
I remember Raymond's wonderful smile in the halls of Ocean Township High School. He has left us a wonderful legacy to everyone he touched at Ocean and Monmouth U.
Best Wishes,
Irene Gilman
OTHS English Dept.
October 12, 2011
I was honored to have taught Raymond in third grade at Wayside School. May he rest in God's peace. Marie Donofrio
October 10, 2011
Ray had (and still has) a special place in our hearts in the Department of Communication at Monmouth. He could warm a room with his smile, and he was admired for his dedication to the radio station and to Monmouth sports. Our hearts go out to the Michelli family for your loss. He will be sorely missed.

Chad Dell, chair
Department of Communication
Monmouth University
October 10, 2011
I will never forget him...he was a friend since childhood and his family was absolutely wonderful...may they find peace during this difficult time...RIP Raymond...xo ~Casey Rosner Fillian
October 10, 2011
Prayers and thoughts are with the Michelli Family. As a family of a child with LGMD our hearts go out to you.
Acevedo Family
George, Nanette and Sierra (former MDA State Goodwill Ambassador 2009-2010)
October 10, 2011
Dear Tom, Rose, Richard and families,
I remember lunch we had with Raymond in Long Branch; his energy and limiteless resolve to transcend his own limitations were a true inspiration and a testament of the love and care you have given him. May your memories bring you comfort in these difficult times.
Samia Bahsoun
October 9, 2011
To the Michelli Family,
My heart is with yours. I am so very sorry for your loss. Tom, I remember you telling me about Ray, and I hope with time, the hurt heals. No one is ever forgotten as long as his name is mentioned every day.
Joni Crawford
October 9, 2011
Raymond was a great friend to all of us here at the Salt Creek Grille. He always brought a smile to me and my team and we will all dearly miss him. Our prayers go out to all of his family.
Steve Bidgood
October 9, 2011
We were all truly blessed to have known Ray. I am truly saddened to hear of his passing. My deepest sympathy to the Michelli Family. -Jessica (Distasi) Corring
October 9, 2011
My very sincere sympathy to you all at this time. Your devotion to Raymond was extrodinary. So proud to see his accomplishments.....it is many years ago and don't know if you remember me as one of his teachers.....again, my sincere sympathy. Jane Suppa
Cary, North Carolina
October 9, 2011
Dear Michelli Family, what else is there to say about the world's greatest fighter other than may his beautiful smile and memory live on in all our hearts and may he sleep in peace.. With all my love and sympathy to all of you.
marc swersky
October 8, 2011
Raymond was an inspiration to all of us. He will always be a tribute to the human spirit and determination.

Brian, Sam, Rebecca, Anthony, Brittany, Elena, Courtney Michelli and Chris Lutz (Rebecca's Fiance)
Brian Michelli
October 8, 2011
We will always remenber Ray and his wonderful personality full of life and a deep desire to live every moment to the fullest!
from the Bio family
Ernest, Anna & Family Bio
October 8, 2011
Ray was amazing. I've known him since elementary school and can remember playing with him on the playground, coming to his house for birthday parties, etc. The news of his passing is crushing, and my love and sympathy goes out to his family. Your son/brother was exceptional, and I am so touched that I was blessed to call him my friend.
Cynthia Liutkus
October 8, 2011
To the Michelli Family:

We are deeply saddened to hear of your loss and are thinking of you during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Enclave Suites
Orlando, FL
Management & Staff
John Gordon
October 8, 2011
I am so sorry to hear of Raymond's passing. I think back to all of the wonderful times he and my brother, John, had growing up with great fondness. Over the last 25 years or so I have thought of Raymond often and hoped he was doing well. From his obituary it sounds like he stayed involved in his passion, athletics, and accomplished some wonderful things in his life. I am grateful that he and John had such a wonderful relationship over the years. John was fortunate to be able to be a part of his life. We all were. I know John will miss Ray tremendously. Please know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. It is comforting to know that he is now free of his difficulties and is with his Father. Sending my love your way.
Jill Walton Plummer
October 8, 2011
To the Michelli Family:

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Raymond's spirit and passion for MU will always be remembered by his MU family.

Michael and Cindy Palladino
October 8, 2011
Raymond was a remarkable human being who inspired us all.

Cousins Nick and Tina
Tina Jacobowitz
October 8, 2011
To The Michelli Family,
The staff of the All Seasons Diner was very sadden by the loss of Ray. He was part of our family and he will be greatly missed by all of us. As long has he remains in our hearts his life remains eternal. Rest in peace Ray. You are in our Thoughts and in our Prayers.

Nick Zavolas
Niko & Louie Hatziminas
The Staff of the All Seasons Diner
Eatontown, NJ
October 8, 2011
To Roseann, Thomas & Mitchelli Family,
I was sadden to hear about Ray's passing. When he entered the diner he had a smile as bright as the sun, he was like family that whenever he came in everyone had to stop what they where doing say hello. He will remain alive to all those who he touch because he was truly loved by all. His memory will always be alive in your hearts and he is everyone's guardian angel. May he rest in peace. Our pray and thoughts are with you all.
Tessie Alexopoulos, All Seasons Diner, Eatontown, NJ
October 8, 2011
Raymond was an outstanding young man. I will miss him, my condolences to the Michelli family.
Liz Roper
October 8, 2011
I can still remember playing street hockey with Ray in the cul-de-sac by his house after school, intramural floor hockey in the Marto league and him whooping my butt in ice hockey on his sega genesis. I will cherish those memories because they were times when he was the most Ray. Goodbye buddy, you will be missed.
Chris Rowan
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