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Robert Malmi Obituary

Robert A. Malmi

AGE: 64 • Middletown

Robert A. Malmi, 64, of Middletown, passed away suddenly on Tuesday, Aug. 25, 2015. He was born in Bethesda, MD to his loving parents, A. Carl and Bobbie Grace (Simmons) Malmi. Robert worked as a Systems Engineer for AT&T in Middletown, NJ, for 28 years. He had a passion for reading and photography.

Robert is predeceased by his father, A. Carl Malmi. Surviving is his loving wife, Susan (Kapelak) Malmi; his two sons, Eric and Nicholas Malmi; his mother, Bobbie Grace Malmi; his sister, Carol Malmi; and his mother-in-law, Elizabeth Kapelak.

Visitation will be held from 4 to 6 p.m. Saturday, Aug. 29, 2015, with a service during those hours.at the John E. Day Funeral Home, 85 Riverside Ave., Red Bank. In respect with Robert's wishes, cremation will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be sent in Robert's memory to Friends of the Middletown Township Public Library, 55 New Monmouth Rd., Middletown, NJ 07748. Please visit Robert's memorial website available at www.johnedayfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Asbury Park Press on Aug. 27, 2015.

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David Matthews

August 21, 2021

My sad to hear of Bob's passing. I worked with him for many years on AT&T Engineering Staff and his input to our requirements team were unparalleled.

Anand Ramani

September 8, 2015

I am in shock and disbelief at this sad news. I worked with Bob on various projects for the past 20 years. I shall always remember his good spirits during adversity, clarity in the face of confusion and humor in our daily work.
My condolences to your entire family.

We will all miss him.

Steve Holmgren

September 2, 2015

I worked with Bob for many years, and he always brought a team spirit, humor, and dedication to everything he was involved in, and as a result had a positive influence on all who knew him. My sympathies go to his family at this sudden loss.

Aline Fichou

August 31, 2015

Dear Malmi family, my thoughts are with you in these difficult moments. I worked recently with Bob, he was a great person to work with: calm , respectful of others, supportive. I am so sorry for your loss.

August 31, 2015

We are saddened to hear about Bob, Sue. You and the boys are in our prayers. Maggie, Charlie, and Sam Hopkins

Ram Chelluri

August 28, 2015

Dear Susan, Eric, Nicholas & Family,
I am deeply saddened by the sudden loss of Bob. I am still in disbelief. Bob was more than a friend; he was a confidant and he was always there for me whenever I needed him to talk about work, life and anything else. We had a wonderful farewell party when we retired, just a few months ago.
I will truly miss him.

Javad Salahi

August 28, 2015

Dear Malmi Family,

I was shocked to hear the sad demise of our dear colleague and friend Bob who I worked with for many years. I would like to extend my heartfelt condolences to the entire family for your loss. I hope that you will find comfort in the memories that are yours to cherish always, and strength in the companionship of those who share your loss.

God bless him,
Javad Salahi

Layli Amiri

August 28, 2015

Dear Malmi Family,

My thoughts are prayers are with you in these difficult times. I worked with Bob in AT&T while I never had the pleasure of meeting him face to face, he was always so helpful and supportive. May he rest in peace.

Warren Moe

August 27, 2015

Dear Sue, Eric & Nick,

I'm thinking back on years of lunch table conversations with Bob. Recurring topics included the propensity and skill of the Finns for grand hoaxes, mid-century jazz such as Dave Brubeck at Miami U or the Voice of America broadcasts of Willis Conover, the possibility that Bob's dad was a spook and the certainty that his mother was (and is) a belle, My heart goes out to you. I am out of state and will not be able to be physically present at Saturday's visitation. But I will be with you.

David Matthes

August 27, 2015

To the Family of Robert Malmi,

I worked with Bob for quite a few years at AT&T. Although, I never had the opportunity to meet him face to face, the distance never interfered with our work. When I needed a straight answer or opinion, Bob was always spot on. His knowledge and ethics were stellar. I'm so sorry for your loss. God bless you and your family.

Robin Rozanski

August 27, 2015

Dear Sue, Eric and Nick,
We are so so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. We have such fond memories of him. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Robin, Andrew and Matt Rozanski

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