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DORTHA RASBAND Obituary

Dortha Rasband 1913 ~ 2010 The Tuesday after Thanksgiving will always be a special day for us. Three years ago on that Tuesday our father left mortality and this past Tuesday our dear mother joined him in the eternities. While the pain of not being with them is immense, there is joy in thinking of the two of them reunited again.Dortha (Dot) Nelson Rasband was born on July 17, 1913 in Heber City, Utah to Jesse Richmond and Emma Sonderegger Nelson. She was the third of seven children - five sisters and a brother. Dot came from stubborn and determined ancestors and she exhibited these characteristics through the end of her life. She recalled many times her Grandma Sonderegger patting her fondly on the head as a little girl after she threw rocks at the neighbors. Dot was a loving woman, but she was tough as well. She was determined to leave this life only when she was ready on November 30, 2010. Dot met her eternal sweetheart Irving (Irv) Kenneth Rasband in Heber City. They were married on September 21, 1934 in the Salt Lake Temple. The two of them were married 73 years when Irv passed away. Dot and Irv were the loving parents of six children - five sons and a daughter. Dot's children, grandchildren and family were the joy of her life. She was always willing to play game after game after game with her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She never tired of having them around. Dot and Irv loved to travel and after Irv retired the two of them saw the world in the next 25 years. Their adventures took them from Europe to Israel to Asia. Each year took them somewhere they had not been before. As Irv's health declined and their travels stopped, Dot was a loving caregiver to Irv in the last years of their life together. Dot was an active member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints throughout her life. She was a member of the Highland Park Ward in Sugarhouse for over 60 years and served in many callings there. Dot is survived by four sons, J Kent, Phil (Jean), Bruce (Shelia) and Paul (Edith); her loving daughter Karen (Dennis); her sister Dezzie; her sister-in-law Verdawn Leahy Nelson; her brother-in-law Mark Emmett Rasband; and numerous grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Dot was preceded in death by her husband Irv, son Dee and five of her siblings. Memorial services will be held Saturday December 4, 2010 at 11:00 a.m. in the Highland Park Chapel located at 2535 South Douglas Street, Salt Lake City. Friends and family may visit one hour prior to the memorial service.

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Dec. 2 to Dec. 3, 2010.

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Judith Solomon

August 29, 2023

What a most wonderful woman. Probably the most saintly woman I have ever known.

December 5, 2010

Paul & Edith,
Our condolences on the death of Paul's Mother. We're sure she was a great lady and hope all is well with you and your family.
Garald & Nyla Singapore\Malaysia Mission

Deb & Randy Jackson

December 3, 2010

I only met your mom once, but I immediately loved her! She was so sweet and fun to talk with. She told me stories about when she was growing up and how they used to go on picnics at the Strawberry in a wagon pulled by horses. She had an amazing life! Our love and sympathies to her family. Bruce & Sheila we love you and hope we can help you through this sad time in your lives! Love, Deb & Randy

December 2, 2010

Dear Kent, Bruce, Paul and Karen,
As we were growning up our families didn't get together very often and thus we really didn't get to know one another very well. Dad just never came to Salt Lake much because it was such a "big" city.
Then after mom died and dad came down to live with Glenn, dad always wanted to go see Dot and Irv. Whether it was 9:00 in the morning or 10:00 at night, he ask if we could go visiting.

It was at that point I got to know Aunt Dot and the love and bounding were immediate! We talked and laughed for the two hours we were there. She always had stories to tell about you kids, her current life and of course the Utah Jazz! I couldn't believe that she knew every player and how well they played! She was sharp as a tack! I always looked forward to seeing her--and how I grew to love her! I will forever be grateful that I got to know her so well.

I knew that she was fighting to the end, but at 97 years old she has now finished that battle with honor and dignity. I picture the loving reunion of all the family greeting her and especially the hugee loving hugs and kisses of her and Uncle Irv.

What was really strange was I had planned on picking up dad and going up to visit on Tuesday. I called and when she didn't answer I assumed she was eating and I would call back. Then I picked up dad and Glenn informed me about Aunt Dot. My heart ached as I realized I had had my last visit with her. I will surely miss her and all of our laughter. She brought so much joy to my life. I will cherish all the memories I have of her, Aunt Dot, my friend. Thanks for sharing her with me.

Love,
Jane Rasband Landon

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