BORN
1944
DIED
2014
Ernie Benyo Obituary
Dear Father of Chris (the late Karen) Benyo and Tracey (Kevin) Bullock
Loving Pa Pa of Matt, Andrew, Emily, Amanda, Alex and Sarah.
Brother of John (Leslie) Benyo and the late Kathleen Weidman
Visitation Friday, February 14, 2014 from 2:00pm until 5:00pm and 6:00pm to 9:00pm at the Harry J. Will Funeral Home, 37000 Six Mile Road, Livonia. Funeral Service on Saturday, February 15, 2014 at 11:00am at the funeral home.
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Andrea Belcher
February 28, 2014
I am truly sorry to hear about Ernie's death. I went to school with him and also college.
Jill Lewis
February 18, 2014
My sincere condolences to Ernie's family and friends -- of which I know there are many. I met Ernie when I joined the ADP golf league. He kept us laughing. I will remember him with a smile and a chuckle.
February 17, 2014
Erie will be deeply missed.
Although I only worked with him briefly at ADP, I can still remember how jovial and charismatic he was.
He always managed to get you to laugh regardless of the situation.
Ken Smith
Dawn Keene
February 17, 2014
Chris and Family,
My heartfelt condolences to you Chris, your Mom, sister and the entire extended Ernie Benyo family. Just perusing through a few of the guest book entries, it's clear that your Dad richly impacted all those that knew him. I am very sorry for your loss.
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Phil Weber
February 16, 2014
I was a co-worker of Ernie's at Ex-Cell-O and never was there a time he couldn't think of a joke or something to brighten our day. Even though I lost track of him over the years, I always regarded him a good friend.
I am very sorry for your loss.
Phil Weber
Pueblo, Colorado
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Nelson Thulin
February 16, 2014
Recently, the Harry J Will Funeral Home staff was gathered together to recognize their exemplary service to others. Service of which, Ernie was most certainly a significant contributor. In many circumstances, Ernie would be the first person that anyone met as they arrived for a funeral and it was his kindness which greeted them and marked their first impression.
That gathering will now be forever remembered in my mind as the last opportunity that I and many others who worked with Ernie had the chance to be with him and for that I will always be grateful.
It was an honor to stand beside Ernie in work and in life, and with God's grace we will all stand beside him again. I have no doubt that Ernie will be one of the first to greet us and his kindness will be one of our first impressions.
Robert Starr
February 15, 2014
Rest in peace my old friend, you will be missed by all.
Robert and Pam Starr
February 15, 2014
Charlotte and family,
As a co-worker at ADP we shared many fond memories with Ernie – from working with him on the job to the golf league and scrambles over the years. Ernie used say “Never get good at a bad job”. Advice was always free. I lost touch with Ernie over the last 10 years however the memories will always be there. Please accept our heartfelt condolences on the loss of your loved one.
Sincerely,
Marilyn Coloske and Don Kennedy
Ed Burt
February 14, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of loss. I remember meeting Ernie shortly after moving to the Ann Arbor office. It was always a pleasure to talk with him. When I retired I looked forward to his annual visit to Tecumseh for the K of C golf tournament. He will be missed!
Kim White
February 14, 2014
Kevin (and family),
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I wish I had some magic words to make this less painful for you. Hold tight to your faith and your family to get through this most difficult time. Please let me know if there is anything I can do. All my best.
Debra Labin
February 14, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Charlotte. Ernie was a wonderful, kind soul. We both enjoyed working with him during our ADP days. He was always making us laugh. He was a wonderful man. It was a pleasure to have known him.
Lovingly,
Debra & Bob Labin
February 14, 2014
I am so sad with this news. Ernie was a co-worker and a friend. Such a good looking guy too! He will be missed. love you, Ernie! We will all be together before you know it!
Gary Gibson (from Ernie's ADP years in Ann Arbor)
adrian aumiller
February 14, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss and pray that God gives you the strength and peace needed at this difficult time. Words cannot express the sadness felt in Ernie's passing. He was my friend and confidant and he will be missed greatly.. friends for more than 20 years..
Adrian aumiller
Amy Jones
February 14, 2014
Ernie was a very entertaining person to work side by side with. His quick wit was unmatchable. I will miss him, his blue eyes and his smile forever. Love to his family, he was a gem.
Tori Lebutzki
February 14, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this hard time. Ernie was always quick with a joke and will be missed so much at work. May God bless your family.
Thelma Brooks
February 14, 2014
Ernie was a wonderful nephew, always willing to help me out when I needed it especially the last couple years after I lost my husband. It was a blessing to watch my niece's marriage to such a loving man.
Lorrie Brooks
February 14, 2014
Beautiful pictures loved seeing all of them, he will be missed by his family and I felt blessed to have him as a cousin and part of my family.
Sandra Reno
February 14, 2014
It was a pleasure working with Ernie. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers go to all of his family. May he rest in peace.
Linda and Gary Mackensen
February 14, 2014
Dear Charlotte and family,
Our prayers, thoughts and hearts are with you. We are so sad about Ernie's passing. May our beautiful Lords peace and strength come to all of as you go through this difficult time and may you find comfort in knowing that Ernie is home with Him.
John and Patti
February 14, 2014
Mrs Benyo,Chris,Tracey and Kevin, We are very to saddened to hear of the loss of your husband and father. Our prayers are with you all.
Gerald Fazekas
February 14, 2014
To the Benyo family:
I have not talked or had contact with Ernie for about fifty years. I met Ernie in my first job at National Bank of Detroit. Ernie and I were around seven teen back then. We both worked in the same department called Breakdown and had more fun than the bosses would like us to have. I think we made about $1.25 and hour then, but the memories are worth gold to me now.
My working friendship lasted until I left for Chrysler in 1963 but I would always think of Ernie when I drove to play golf at various Livonia courses or saw something in the papers about Bentley High school.
After reading the guest book I am gratified that Ernie's life was rich in family and friends and leaves a loving legacy. What more can one ask ? He was one fun "dud' with me and the high school girls at NBD.
Warmest Regards, Gerald Fazekas
P.S. Ernie and I shared a quite few coney dogs on our NBD lunch hour at American Coney Island. The next time I go there I will symbolically order Ernie a "1 up"
Chris Benyo
February 13, 2014
The loss of your father, no matter how old you are, changes your life forever. Your dad is your protector who keeps you safe and secure. You never really get over the loss, you learn to live with the loss and know he is never far from your thoughts. Last night (2/11/14), I lost someone special (my dad). He was a faithful father to my mother and devoted dad to me and my sister. When I was little, it was my dad who was my coach and taught me how to play baseball and hockey. When growing up, he was always there for me when I needed advice. After I was married and purchased a house, he was always available to help with home improvement projects. Basically, it was my dad who taught me about life, and I believe I'm the person I am today because of him.
Here is a poem in memory of my dad (RIP), who I love and will miss dearly.
My Dad
Author: Unknown
If I could write a story
It would be the greatest ever told
Of a kind and loving father
Who had a heart of gold
If could write a million pages
But still be unable to say, just how
Much I love and miss him
Every single day
I will remember all he taught me
I'm hurt but won't be sad
‘coz he'll send me down the answers
And he'll always be MY DAD
David Douglass
February 13, 2014
Dear Charlotte, Chris, Tracey, and Johnny,
We are very saddened by Ernie's passing and hope that your memories of his love of life and each of you, with God's love, will sustain you in these difficult days. My memories of holidays at Aunt Ruth's house and playing with cousins will always include Ernie. Peace be with you.
David and Mark
Shona Wolter
February 13, 2014
So sorry to hear of your loss. We will be thinking of your entire family during these difficult days, but know he is in a better place and so very proud of his family. I will always remember him enjoying watching Alex play baseball. Hugs to all of you, Brad, Shona, Kyle, and Michael Wolter
Lisa Renko
February 13, 2014
I can still remember when Ernie first started working at ADP. He could always put a smile on your face and try to make you laugh with one of his jokes. He will be greatly missed! Deepest sympathies, Charlotte, to you and your family.
February 13, 2014
I worked with Ernie way back in 1968 at The Traub Co. He was very nice and polite. I always remembered his beautiful eyes. My sympathy to his family.
Mary Correa Davis
My sympathy to his family
February 13, 2014
So sorry for Tracey and you and your whole family. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Elmer and Joe
Michael Johnson
February 13, 2014
Ernie is no longer with us but his wisdom remains.
On being skeptical of something you said:
-You kid your friends, I'll kid mine but let's not kid each other.
On the workplace:
-Never get good at a crappy job.
On being asked what time it was:
-About time you get a watch.
On golf:
-The woods are full of long hitters.
-A shot looked up on is not worth seeing.
Tracy Spiess, Harry J. Will Funeral Home
February 13, 2014
I will miss you Ernie! You were a lot of fun to work with.
I'm sure you are making Jesus laugh with all of your silly jokes.
My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Tim Rolfs
February 13, 2014
Kevin -Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. Wishing you strength and comfort as you celebrate and remember Ernie's life.
Melinda Emmerich
February 13, 2014
I had the pleasure to work with Ernie at ADP. He had a great sense of humor and spirit. He will be greatly missed. My prayers are with you and your family.
Melinda Emmerich
February 13, 2014
I had the pleasure to work with Ernie at ADP. He had a great sense of humor and spirit. He will be greatly missed. My prayers are with you and your family.
Alyse Bollheimer
February 13, 2014
Ernie was such a pleasure to work with and I am so saddened by his passing. I would like to extend my sincere sympathies to his family. He was always promising that we would be going golfing in the spring. He had great work ethic and loved what he did. Ernie was an amazing guy and will be missed deeply.
Chris Marinos
February 13, 2014
I will always remember Ernie's sense of humor and his gentle & kind spirit. May God comfort and strengthen each of you during this very difficult time.
Mark & Shirley Hutchins
February 13, 2014
Dear Charlotte and Family - our hearts go out to you at this time. We loved having you and Ernie in our home for small group. Praying for your comfort.
Doug Miller
February 13, 2014
I came to know Ernie from working with him at the funeral home. A dedciated, caring person with a strong work ethic. Hope everyone can lean on the great memories to help get through this difficult time.
Patricia Sobiechowski
February 13, 2014
Dear Charlotte: Losing your partner is one of the most difficult things in life. My sympathies go to you and your family with my wish for God's peace and love.
Cindy Wishart
February 13, 2014
Dear John and family, Lyle and I were so sad to hear about Ernie. Our hearts and prayers are with all of you. We are out of state or we would be there with you. May the peace and healing of Christ be with all of you. love, Lyle and Cindy Wishart
Jon Rotta
February 13, 2014
So sorry to hear of Ernie's passing, he will be deeply missed. RIP Ernie
Derek Hamer
February 13, 2014
My deep sympathies to the Benyo and Bullock families. I just learned of Ernie`s passing. He was a great man, filled with humor and spirit. I always looked forward to working funerals with him because I knew I'd have a smile on my face the whole time. He was such a funny man even bereaved families would laugh at his jokes on the morning of their loved one`s funeral. He was one of a kind.
Vicky Badics
February 13, 2014
Charlotte and Ernie attended our Fat Tuesday gourmet dinner. This dinner was attended by friends from ADP and their spouses. There were kids serving the meal and it was Ernie's idea that everyone tip the kids. He made this dinner lively and fun. Ernie was thoughtful to adults and kids alike. Our hearts and prayers go out to Charlotte and the rest of his family.
Jim Henley
February 13, 2014
My sympathies to all of the family. I enjoyed working with Ernie so much because you never knew what you were on store for that day. He always had a smile and a welcoming word.
Anita Creme-Sype
February 13, 2014
Charlotte, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. I worked with Ernie for many years at ADP and have many fond memories. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, The Sype Family.
Jon Rotta
February 13, 2014
So sorry to hear of Ernie's passing. RIP my friend.
Karen Carlisle
February 13, 2014
Ernie I worked at ADP together for years, he always had a smile.
My thoughts and prayers go out to the whole family.
Karen Carlisle From ADP
Trish Tacey
February 13, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. The Tacey Family
Donna Keenan
February 13, 2014
Charlotte, Tracey, Chris and all of Uncle Ernie's family...so sad that such a quirky and wonderful man is no longer brightening our planet with his smile and sense of humor and good heart. He will be missed.
Wendy Lopetrone
February 13, 2014
We are so sorry to hear of your loss our thoughts and prayers are with you. The Lopetone Family
Kevin Winningham
February 13, 2014
Ernie was one of the most encouraging men I ever had the privilege of knowing!
His love for His Savior and others radiated!
I will miss Ernie for so many reasons ... his firm handshake at church or at the funeral home ... his sense of humor ... his true & sincere concern for others.
A couple of days ago ... I know he heard those words that we all want to hear, "Well done ... well done My good and faithful servant ... well done!"
Heaven just gained an amazing 'greeter'!
Thank you Ernie for making a difference in my life and the life of my family ... we love you!
Kevin, Debbie, Kyle & Tyler Winningham
Cindy Turner
February 13, 2014
Chris, I'm so sorry for your loss. May the God of Mercy grant you and your family peace and comfort during this difficult time. We will be praying for you.
lisa lester
February 12, 2014
Mrs. Benyo tracy and chris I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers.
linda ball
February 12, 2014
Rip ernie. Wow. I was thinking about him today while at work too. He was a great man and an inspiration. Will surely be missed. My prayers amd heart goes out to the family. Big hugs linda.
Tina (&Tim) Graziotti
February 12, 2014
Kevin and Tracey,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss.The first time I met your dad was at a funeral for my sister-in-law's (Carol Graziotti) husband. At that point I had only been a Christian for about 8 years. He was working at the other funeral home in Wayne. There was another viewing going on across the hall. When we were talking to your dad he said something that has always stayed in my thoughts when I hear of someone passing. He glanced over towards the other room and he said, "you can always tell when the room is full of people who are believers and the ones who aren't."
Praise God we are able to mourn and rejoice because of our relationship with Him.
Bob Bulmer
February 12, 2014
Kevin & family, deepest sympathy to you all. Ernie shared many tips on working a "great" funeral. We lined up many cars in our, all too short time together. Sorry Nancy & I cannot be there in person.
Mike Sobiechowski
February 12, 2014
May he rest in peace. I am truly sorry for your loss, Mrs. Benyo, Chris and Tracey.
My mom told me of his passing and I wanted you all to know how sorry I am.
Sue & Sean Elamon
February 12, 2014
Mrs. Benyo, Chris, Tracey, Kevin, Matt, Andrew, Emily, Amanda, Alex, and Sarah,
We are so sorry for your loss, I know what it is to lose a father, and all of you were there for me and my family 4 years ago. I have known the Benyo's since we were babies, Tracey is my one Tried and True Friend, we have been through thick and thin. MR. BENYO was a terrific man and a great father, Husband, Grandfather, and Friend. He was always nice to me and treated me like family. and when my father had passed Mr. Benyo was right there for our family. I wish I could be there, but as it was told to me by Tracey, Dad would want you to play in the tournament and get your best score. So Ernie this weekend is for you. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Love always Sue and Sean Elamon
February 12, 2014
Dear Charlotte and Family - we are sorry for your loss, but not for God's gain. We are sorry we did not get to know Ernie better, but the times of socializing with the two of you have been great. Looking forward to future times. So thankful he was in our lives. God bless. Leonard and Edwina Pittaway
Carolyn Das
February 12, 2014
Ernie was a good man...one of a kind and a true character in the best sense of the word. I am sorry for our family's loss...and I have a heavy heart for Charlotte, Chris, Tracey, Kevin and the grandkids, as well as his brother John.
BOB & Joan Adis
February 12, 2014
Charlotte so sorry for your loss, our prayers are certainly with you and your family
February 12, 2014
Dear Charlotte, and family, we are so sorry for your loss. Ernie will be missed by everyone.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mark and Martha Aldrich
Vicki Perion
February 12, 2014
My heart goes out to the Benyo family. Ernie was full of life and always had a joke to tell. I will always be grateful for his influence in introducing me to the world of golf. He was truly a one of a kind individual! Vicki Perion
Ruth Hutchens
February 12, 2014
My deepest sympathy for you and your family.
Sorry I can't make it to funeral, my thoughts and prayers will be with you
Ruth Hutchens
Sunday School class
February 12, 2014
Charlotte, Chris and Tracey so sorry for you loss.
He will be missed greatly.
He was a good friend and so thankful to have the fond memories.
Ben and Margaret
Jackie Edwards
February 12, 2014
Ernie had the greatest sense of humor, never had a bad word to say about anyone, and Ernie always asked me about my kids...he was genuinely interested in what they were doing...he was a good friend and co-worker, I can only imagine what a great husband, father and grandfather he was. He will be missed by all of us at Harry Will, it won't be the same without his smiling eyes and his jokes...see you someday in the future Ernie.
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