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Jay F. Mills

Bonita, California

Dec 3, 1955 – Apr 19, 2015


December 3, 1955
April 19, 2015
Bonita, California


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Glen Abbey Mortuary Obituary

Jay Frederic Mills, 59, of Shrewbury, MA, passed away from cancer of the small intestines at home surrounded by his family on April 19, 2015. Jay is survived by his wife Estilita of 38 years, son Hilton Mills, daughter Rowena Mills, son Kris Mills, daughter Jacqui Mills, daughter-in-law Mary...

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I miss our buddy .Not a day goes by without remembering what true blessing Jay was in my life..Love you buddy.Best to Lisa ,Kriss and family.

Sailed On Board The Mighty USS Brooke FFG - 1
He was good Man . I remember Jay he had his since of humor, but he was a quiet man in his own way and the was ok. Everybody got along with Jay, He was kind and always helpful. His memories of him will live on.

Fair Winds & Following Sea's Shipmate.

You were a special friend, one who stood by and never left his post until the job was done. Always ready to share with what you have. You will be missed indeed by others that knew you and life's you touched. You were blessed when the LORD called you home to the Manson he has prepared for you.

Donald Martins (San Diego, CA) I.B.E.W local 569

I send my condolences to the family. Jay was a good shipmate and a great leader. We served in the Phillipines together on the USS Sterret cg31. We had been in contact on facebook. I first met Jay at the range qualifying for small arms. He was always personable and always helpful. May GOD bless Jay and his family. Fair winds and following seas, shipmate.

Love you uncle

Condolences to your Family in this trying time. Our prayers are with you.

My deepest condolences to Jay's wife and family. He was my friend and mentor since I first met him at school in Mare Island, CA and then served with him on the USS Sterett. He was a true Leader who always took the time to mentor others. I will cherish the many conversations we had over the years and advice he gave me. He will be deeply missed by the many lives he touched. May He Rest In Peace.

Thank u uncle jay for all the blessings that you've shared to us for all the help,you're one of a kind uncle jay for me you are the best we love u and we will miss u !