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Jose Veza Fadrilan
1947 - 2017
Jose Veza Fadrilan
1947 - 2017
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BORN
1947
DIED
2017
Jose Fadrilan Obituary
Joey is survived by his wife Odette of 49 years, daughters Joan (Rick), Jennifer (Richard), Jocelyn (Dan), son Angelo and girlfriend Nancy, grandchildren Jazzy, Aiko, Dylan, Noah, Sophia, Aiden, sisters Nesty, Naida, Jean (Nestor), brothers Jun, Manny (Arlene), Ramon (Faye), Ed (Sandy), Leo (Bess), Bobby (Tess) and loving nieces, nephews and extended family.
Joey was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, brother and friend to all.
Joey's rich life included working for the Philippine Congress as a payroll disbursement clerk and then ghost writer for Senator Pelaez. His career took him to the Philippine National Grains Authority and was known to be a fierce field investigator uncovering fraudulent practices by the rice industry. After several years, Joey's entrepreneurial spirit led him to take over the family business of providing janitorial supplies for the City of Metro Manila as well as operating a small neighborhood store. Public service called on Joey and he became the youngest councilman for his district by singing "Kung Kailangan Mo Ako (If You Need Me)" on the day before election. Wanting to provide a better life for his family, Joey migrated to the United States in the mid-80's where he found that his passion for plants could be an occupation and he became an interior landscaper first working for a company and eventually venturing out on his own. He was also a self-taught florist which his clients, family and friends enjoyed for 30 years until his passing.
Joey loved to entertain people with his cooking, singing and never ending jokes. If there was eating, music and laughter, he would be in the middle of it. Joey's larger than life personality will be sorely missed by his family and friends.
Arrangements under the direction of Lima Family Milpitas-Fremont Mortuary, Fremont, CA.
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Jean Indorf
January 10, 2018
Joey became my friend in 2000 and we have been fast friends since that time. We would laugh and talk often, he was such a joy to be around and the wonderful Lumpia he shared with us was wonderful - my husband and boys enjoyed him too. My fondest memory is when he came to our 50th Anniversary party and sang an Anniversary Song for us and all of our guests. Everyone commented on his wonderful voice and his demeanor. He will be missed by our whole family - rest in peace Joey - we loved you too.
Jazzy Sakaniwa
September 30, 2017
Dear Papa,
Thishas been something I have been contemplating for the past couple of days because I have no idea how I am feeling when it comes to losing you. Ihave yet to wrap my head around the idea of losing someone who has made meinto the person I amtoday. One day youwerehere, sharing a smile and kindwords of love anencouragement, and the next day no longer with us. Waking up everyday has been business as usual until, I stop and realize how much you were apart of mine. I looked forward to our phone calls, for the weekend to come so I could spend it with yo, for the ending of our phone calls purposed to hear you remind me how much you loved me, because although you always have, it was heartwarming to see you make a constant effort to remind me along with the rest of the family.
I am sad, angry, and a lot of times I do not know how to feel.There is this constant pressure over my head telling me how I need to hold it together, to not fall apart, because my time here is precious, and needs to be taken advantage of; if you were here that is what you would tell me. Man do I wish you were here right now, you have no idea how much I wanted to tell you, how much I wish I could have shared with you. When we were together we did not have to say much, because we just enjoyed the comfort of each others company. There is not a day that goes by that I stop and hope that you can here me talking to you, saying I love you every night before I go to sleep, because if you were here, I know I would have taken advantage and called you more. I would not have waited for you to call first, for the weekend, for something to be wrong, for when time was convenient.
These are only but a few things that have been on my mind lately because lets be honest ever since you passed, I haven't been able to stop and process how much my heart has been hurting for you. I am incredibly thankful to have seen you celebrate your 70th birthday, to see all of your close family and friends come and celebrate the wonderful man that I am humbled to call my grandfather. Youwouldn't believe theamount of people that came to your service, it is one of thesigns that you were so incredibly loved by many, and I hope that you always know that.
When it comes to you, I have never met anyone who was more forgiving. You always wanted peace; for love, and friendship to be the main drive to your day. There were so many things that made you worried, and I am so sorry that some of those things were the last thoughts present on your mindbefore your passing. Someone like you does not deserve to leave this world with that on your shoulders. With that being said, I know you are no longer in painandundergoing worry. After the love and support that was showered to you and usat your viewing I hope you know how much good you did in the world, and that's because you were a personwith so much compassion for others, and that same compassion has been returned to us inthis time of darkness and confusion bythose whose lives you have touched.
If I would have known the conversation we had before your passing was going to be our last I would have poured my heart filled with gratitude to you. But sometimes thatis not how life works, itis not always fair, and does not always go our way, but that is why I will forever remember what you have taught me about making it count, and for that I am forever grateful to you. Thank you for everything, even the things I did notget a chance to tell you. You were a blessing in disguise, and willcontinue to be. I love you.
With love always,
JS
Elaine Francisco
September 25, 2017
Kuya Joey had brought us not only joy and laughter, but total acceptance and support as well. He was always present in all of our family's ups and downs, and had given us assurance that we are loved. Kuya Joey is genuine in many ways, and will always be remembered as an extraordinary human being who knows how to love unconditionally. We love you, Kuya Joey!
Beth Ross
September 19, 2017
I've had the pleasure of working with Joey for the last 8 years. The first time we spoke was Valentines Day after taking care of the plants, he brought in bunches of carnations for the office staff. Seeing that I didn't have any flowers, he broke up the bundles to make another so I wasn't left out. I loved our brief chats and listening to him talk about his grandchildren and his beautiful wife with such pride. Joey went out of his way to make sure that my office had a poinsettia this past holiday season. Joey took great pride in his work and always had a smile on his face. He was an angel walking the earth and we will miss him greatly!
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Ashley Fadrilan
September 19, 2017
One day you were here and the next you weren't. It happened so fast and my heart feels so heavy.... I love you, Uncle Joey. I'll miss your late night stories about what it was like growing up as one of the Fad 10. I'll miss your jokes that made me cringe and laugh all at the same time. I'll miss your unconditional love and support that as my uncle you never let me forget. I'll miss your long voicemails.You lit up a room with just your presence, your spirit resonates with me forever. I know God has gained another angel. A really great one.... We love you, Rest in Paradise
Ed and Evelyn de la Vega
September 17, 2017
Death leaves a heartache, no one can heal. Love leaves a memory, no one can steal. Our deepest condolences to the entire Fadrilan family, especially to Mare Odette. We hope the wonderful memories you shared together with Pare Joey will comfort you during this sad period. Take care always.
Jazzy Sakaniwa
September 17, 2017
My dearest grandpa Papa Joey sent me a list of life lessons less than a week ago and heaven gained a wonderful guardian angel. I will miss you beyond words can even express. Whether it be your incredible(yet inappropriate) jokes, or our random talks we would have while I scratched your head to help you fall asleep, and everything in between, I will miss it all. I love you so much papa; I recently taught you to always say "I love you" back, and I know now you are looking down on me saying just that. Thank you for everything, rest in paradise
Craig Gentry
September 17, 2017
Sorry to hear about your Dad. I'm praying for you, mom and the rest of your family. "...and we know, absent from the body is to be present with the Lord."
Take care
Gladys Aakre
September 17, 2017
I have fond memories of your dad, Joan! Maybe, my dad is showing him around heaven....they are having a great time reminiscing about living in Pao! Condolence to you and your family!
Leon Kin
September 17, 2017
Deepest sympathy for you and the family. He will greatly be missed. He had a great heart and was a solid father figure to me. He had taught me a lot of meaningful lessons in life. The cherished memories of you will never be forgotten. Rest In Peace.
Emman Tan
September 17, 2017
I'll miss you Kuya Joey thank you for the kindness you've shown to me and my family specially to my mom...sending positive thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace kuya joey❤❤
Nancie Cao
September 16, 2017
It breaks my heart that you're no longer with us Mr. Fadrilan, but I know you are now resting in peace. I will definitely miss your jokes, even the inappropriate ones. ☺ I will cherish all of the memories that we've shared. I'm glad I got the opportunity to cut your hair. I enjoyed all of the landscaping projects we had and the conversation we had on one of our drives to the site. ☺ Thank you for bringing your wonderful son into this world. I see a lot of your traits within him. ❤
Maria Luisa Agregado
September 16, 2017
We will miss you Joey thank you for the wonderful memories.
We would like to extend our deepest sympathy to the Fadrilan Family.
My dear sister Odette Lourdes Agregado Fadrilan and her children Joan, Jennifer, Joyce, and Angelo. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Our love and prayers are with you from Malou , Stef, Ate, Angie, Wel, Alvin and Gerry.
We are one with you in this hour of your bereavement. We love you Odette.
Milo Fadrilan
September 16, 2017
To an Uncle whose infectious Humor reminds us of our simple and laughter filled childhood
Whose love and passion to recreate nature reminds us of God's hand on his green earth ...
And whose endearment to beautiful Music and songs will always be remembered and heard from the heavens ...
Rest In Peace dear Uncle Joey!
We love You!
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