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Monica Orr Obituary
Monica, 55, of Charlotte, went to be with the Lord on December 3, 2011. She was surrounded by her daughters and close family. Monica was born on January 29, 1956 in Milwaukee, WI to David and Rita Mueller. She was a 1974 graduate of Pius XI High School in Milwaukee and then lived in New Jersey for 11 years prior to moving to Charlotte. Monica is a bright spirited woman that loves life and is devoted to her family and faith.
Monica is preceded in death by her father, David Mueller and mother Rita Mueller. She is survived by her three daughters, Amanda Peters and her husband Matthew, Becky Orr and Sarah Orr; grandchildren, Caleb and Aden Peters; siblings, Michael (Joan) Mueller, Marcia (Earl) Larson, Daniel (Lynne) Mueller, Nancy (Dick) Schuenke, Linda (David) Feedar and Mary Beth (Jim) Pelletier.
The family will receive friends from 6:00 - 8:00 pm on Thursday December 8, 2011 at McEwen Pineville Chapel, 10500 Park Rd., Charlotte, NC 28210. A memorial service to celebrate Monica's life will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Friday December 9, 2011 at Forest Hill Church, 7224 Park Road, Charlotte, NC 28210 followed by a reception at the church.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Hospice & Palliative Care Charlotte Region, 1420 E. 7th St., Charlotte, NC 28204. Online condolences may be left at www.McEwenPinevilleChapel.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Monica Orr
December 29, 2011
Dear Family of Ms. Orr,
I met Monica Orr while helping her with an issue as a representative of the company that I work for. Her tenacity and spirit will not be forgotten. She was a true fighter and I loved the way she would not take "no" for an answer. If she would hear the word "no" without missing a beat she would ask "OK-what haven't we tried?". She touched many people in my department with her strong will and her wonderful nature. The world is truly a dimmer place without her. ~Monica Dawson Cary, NC
Debbie Gwinn
December 16, 2011
Dear Amanda, Becky and Sarah,
Our deepest sympathy to you on the loss of your mother. I feel fortunate to have connected with Monica and family with the pleasurable opportunity in helping with transportation for Sarah as a preschooler. The Orr family has always held a special place in my heart. Monica is synonymous with a beautiful smile, a warm heart and a bubbly spirit. Blessings to you and family. With love, Debbie Gwinn and family
December 13, 2011
Our sincere condolences to the family. We adored Monica and are honored that we knew her. She was a beautiful person inside and out and an example of courage and trust in the Lord. We will miss her lovely smile.
Dr. Craig Murray, Dr. Harold Sturner, Donna Lacek, Renee Evren,Anne Duffy, Linda Russ, Beth Moore, Rosie Smith, Emily Berger and Mindy Murray.
Trenae Forman
December 12, 2011
My condolences to Monica's family. Her dedication and strength was inspirational. It was a pleasure to work with her at BASF. May God give you the strength you need during this difficult time.
Joyce
December 11, 2011
Beginning to write my Christmas cards, as always I thought of Monica and you girls and was shocked to learn of her passing. I am so very sorry for your loss. Even this far away, I thought of you all often and know well the emptiness that follows. Your mom was the kind of person who made an immediate connection to people that lasted a lifetime. I will miss her.
Dorothy Randol
December 10, 2011
What a wonderful woman you were blessed with for a Mother. You have my deepest sympathy at this most difficult time. Monica was my boss for awhile at BASF and then became my friend. Some of the gals that we worked with got together and had lunch and of course talked about her illness but we also laughed and joked and talked about 'the old days at BASF Chesapeake'.
I don't have to tell you she was an amazing person; I was blessed to have her in my life and how blessed you are to have her as your Mom. I am praying for you as you adjust to your Mom being in Heaven. She will always look down and help you.
With love,
Dorothy Randol
Sylvia Eichner McDonald
December 10, 2011
Dear Monica's Family,
What a blessing Monica was to all who met her. I remember only laughter in the Mueller household whether it was driving in the Rambler or trying out the first microwave. Monica continued her life with the love and laughter that surrounded her as she grew older and with her own family. As her friend, I will miss her dearly.
Lynn Fagan
December 9, 2011
I can only imagine how lucky you girls feel to have had Monica as a mother. She blessed all who knew her with kindness, laughter and light. I was fortunate to have met her as a young woman and she forever changed my idea of what a happy life could be. She also taught me by her actions everyday that just because someone was working didn't mean they couldn't have a very good time while they were there. May your memories of her comfort you now and in the future.
Susan Nance
December 9, 2011
I met Monica while we were both having chemo. I also have breast cancer. She was so friendly and kind and always had a beautiful smile on her face. I am truly sorry for your loss but know you are happy for her that she is no longer suffering. May God be with the family during the coming holidays and help you to come to terms with your loss.
Sincerely,
Susan Nance
Momcilo
December 8, 2011
Deepest sympathy for Monica and family. She was more than respected by all she encountered and we will all miss her. She entered His Eternal Grace and you take care of each other by carrying her memories in your hearts. Hold to each other with whole family especially in these difficult times and in season.
Andy Rhyne
December 8, 2011
Dear Orr Family, Andy and Sarah Rhyne wish to give our condolences for the loss of a caring Mother. Monica is now free from pain and is Living in the Loving arms of our Savior.
Mary McCoy
December 8, 2011
Amanda, Becky and Sara, I am so sorry for your loss. Your mother was a very special person. She never met a stranger and welcomed one and all into her heart. She will be greatly missed by her colleagues at BASF and all of us who knew her as a friend.
ANNE MURPHY
December 8, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with this wonderful family. I met Monica through Becky, and was so impressed by her strength and fearless dedication to being a strong example for her girls. She is with her God now, and no longer suffering. God bless you all. Anne Murphy Durham N.C.
Dale Stoller
December 8, 2011
I am very sorry for your loss. I met Monica when I interviewed with BASF in 1984 in Columbus, Ohio. I remember how kind and thoughtful she was to me in that stressful setting. It was my good fortune to reconnect with her when we were both team members in Charlotte. She will be greatly missed. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.
Suzie Souza
December 8, 2011
Suzie P. Souza formerly with BASF in Brazil called today and asked that I send condolences to the family on her behalf - " Monica was always very kind to me when I came to the U.S. for visits. I am very saddened to hear the news and will miss her. I will keep your family in my prayers." -___ Suzie (submitted by J.Grice)
Carol Newman
December 8, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Julie Wall
December 8, 2011
To Monica's friends and family especially her children, I am so sorry for your loss. Monica had such a beautiful spirit, a bright light on this earth that will now shine from heaven! I pray for your peace and your hearts to be comforted. Julie Wall
Alan Henshaw
December 7, 2011
Please accept our condolences, Monica was a great colleague and a good friend. Best wishes Alan and Jan Henshaw
George Manolakis
December 7, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Beth Kiger
December 7, 2011
I met Monica as we were both receiving chemo on the same day. She gave emotional support to me that day and I will never forget her kindness and sweet spirit. Her courage was an inspiration to me.
December 7, 2011
My sympathy in the loss of a beloved Mother, dear Mother-In-Law, wonderful Sister and Grandmother who enjoyed spending time with her grandsons.
The loving care from Monica's daughters helped her find comfort and the peace that she had been searching for.
Monica was a dear friend that I was honored to have known for 40 years. She was a special lady with a beautiful smile and a wonderful sense of humor.
I know Monica will continue to cheer on Aaron Rodger and the Packers from her front row seat in Heaven.
Love you forever,
Lynne
Jim & June Torok
December 7, 2011
Dear Amanda, Becky and Sarah:
We were so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. It seems like yesterday that we all met in Milwaukee for Monny and Terry's wedding and you three were not even around. Now look how you have all grown. We have so many memories and pictres of your mom from our wedding as well. Where does the time go.
We offer our heartfelt condolances to the three of you and of course the extended family.
We never knew your Mom to not have a smile on her face or a funny story to tell. She will be missed.
If anyone has a sure spot in heaven it is your mom.
We are with you in spirit and we share your sorrow. God Bless you all,
with much love,
Uncle Jim and Aunt June Torok
Joe Jamrok
December 7, 2011
Amanda, Becky, Sarah and family,
My deepest sympathy on the loss of your mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Be sure that one day we all will meet again and be reunite in Gods Kingdom. Love Joe
Janet Adams
December 7, 2011
Monica was truly one of the nicest and sweetest person we knew. She will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family.
Love, Janet & Wolfgang Adams
December 7, 2011
Monica brought so much fun and laughter into our lives, and we will always have fond remembrances of the trips we took together and the time we spent with her. We want to express our sincere condolences to her children.
Carolynn Tomin
Latoska Price
December 7, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Heidi McNerney
December 7, 2011
Amanda, Becky, Sarah and family,
My deepest sympathy on the loss of your mother. Monica was a great friend and colleague at BASF and I always will admire her spirit and sense of humor.
Don and Lily Linder
December 7, 2011
To Monica's family:
Sad to hear the news of your loss. Condolences from
my wife and I. Living back here in WI we only
got to see Monica on breif occasions through the years.
I remember her as always having a smile.
She seemed like a great person.
Dickey Choate (Polk)
December 6, 2011
So sad to hear this news. I always enjoyed being with Monica watching our daughters participate in the horrendous swim meets, fun softball or league cheerleading. She touched my life, as I am sure she did many. God Bless and Keep you all!
Robert & Mary-Megan Linder
December 6, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Orr and Mueller family during this difficult time. Monica was a beacon of light in this world.
Connie Linder-Haugh
December 6, 2011
I was so sorry to hear that Monica lost her very long couragous battle with cancer. May you feel God's warm embrace comfort you during this most diffcult time. Following is a portion of a poem, I'd like to share with you.
Death is nothing at all.
I have only slipped away into the next room.
I am waiting for you for an interval.
Somewhere very near, just around the corner.
All is well.
~Canon Henry Scott-Holland
Carolyn Clark Orr
December 6, 2011
Amanda, Becky, Sarah, and all your family,
My condolences to you and your family in your grief at the loss of your mother. My thoughts are with you now, and in the days to come.
Your Mom was a loving and caring lady that touched my heart and always made you feel welcome. I feel blessed that our paths crossed and will keep you all in my prayers. God Bless you all!
December 6, 2011
Monica, may you rest in Peace, God Bless you and your family forever and ever.
Claire Matheus
December 6, 2011
My deepest sympathy goes to Monica's family. I grew up in New Berlin, WI, with the Mueller family. I remember Monica the little blondie. Dave and Rita Mueller were always an inspiration to me. My heart goes out to all of you. Deepest sympathy from all the Koehlers: Mary, Chris, Mark, Claire, Rose, Jerome and Bernadette
Bernadette Palumbo
December 6, 2011
I had the great pleasure of working with Monica at BASF. She was always smiling and upbeat and generally made everyone's life happier. It was a privelege to have known such a great woman. God Bless You All.
Sheila Jefferies
December 6, 2011
My heartfelt sympathy to the Orr family. Monica was an inspiration to us all. She was the consummate professional, and this was clearly demonstrated in her work and personal life. She will be truly missed.
Greg Buza
December 6, 2011
To Monica's family, my deepest sympathy. I worked with your mother at BASF for many years. She was a dedicated co-worker, always ready with a kind word, and willing to do whatever it took to get the job done.
Monica Matheus
December 6, 2011
I am so very sorry for your loss -- I know what a huge hole this leaves in your hearts. I am a long-time friend of Mary Beth's and have always enjoyed her many stories of your close-knit and loving family. Hold on tight to each other and be comforted by Monica's love -- it does not end in death.
Roland & Dale Valin
December 6, 2011
My wife and I have had Monica in our prayers for the past year and we know in our hearts that she will have a reserved seat at the banquet table,and she'll be in time to celebrate Jesus' Birthday with Him. She was a very special person, and leaves us with memories and teachings that will not be forgotten. Rest in Peace Monica.
Roland & Dale
Michelle Fischer
December 6, 2011
Will will miss Monica in our neighborhood. She was kind and generous, and loved to work in her yard. She always took the time to stop and chat. Amanda, Becky and Sarah, let us know if you ever need anything.
Janet and Mike Abernathy
December 6, 2011
Amanda, Becky and Sarah,
Monica was one of a kind and the most genuine person that we have ever known! We were blessed to have been her friend and we'll miss her smiling face and wonderful sense of humor. Your loss is shared by many people whose lives she had touched. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Love, Mike, Janet, Laura and Ashley
Paulette Burns
December 6, 2011
My Deepest Sympathy to the entire Orr faimily. Monica was a dear friend and co-worker that I have know for 30+years. She was a fighter as well as an inspiration to all that knew her. She was very devoted to her family and now she is a peace with the good Lord.
joe lyons
December 5, 2011
I'm So Sorry for your loss Your mom was a really sweet lady she welcomed me into her home like she had known me forevever You are in my thoughts and prayers,
Joe Lyons
Emily Ness
December 5, 2011
Amanda, Becky, and Sarah and family, I am thinking and praying for you all during this time. I have so many wonderful memories of your mother. I will continue to pray for you all. My deepest sympathy goes out to you all! Emily
Diane Harrington
December 5, 2011
Monica will always be in everyone in our family's heart. We were so blessed to have known her for twenty years. To have our families grow up side by side was a gift from God. Next door neighbors are family when you are so fortunate to have a family like the Orrs.
We can't wait to be her neighbor again in heaven and see her amazing smile.
With so much love to an amazing family, Diane, Charlie, Josclyn, Rhiena and Chase
Joe Mitchell
December 5, 2011
My deepest condolences to Monica's family. She was a special lady and I was blessed to have her as a co-worker and a friend.
Heather Nash
December 5, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with the Orr family at this time. Mrs. Orr was always so sweet and welcoming. She will truly be missed. Love, Heather Nash
December 5, 2011
Our Sincere condolences to the whole family. Monica is now in heaven. Although we will miss her here on earth ,she is now at peace and free of sufferance. May she rest in peace and watch over all of you smiling from heaven.
Our prayers are with you in those difficult moments.
Evelyne and Jessica Abramovici (BASF)
December 5, 2011
You have our very deepest sympathy. We will keep you all in our prayers.
Cousin Heidi Schuster and Frank LaVora and family
Robyn Ovrick
December 5, 2011
Family of Monica, I am so sorry for your loss - but so happy for Monica's gain. She fought a good fight and is being rewarded right now. My sister worked with your mom and loved her dearly. As a result, our family loved and prayed for Monica too. My prayers are now with her family as you go through the Christmas season without her and even more so as you feel her death when you miss her most. Love, Robyn
Joseph Schuster
December 5, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Love, Cousin Joe Schuster and family.
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