Thomas A. Hardman

You don't know me , or me you. I just wanted you to know that i'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved son...and to let you know that your family are in my prayers over this holiday season. God be with all of you. ~ Pam ~

aww i miss u so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Kathy- I love you and your family so much. As your cousin, I wish you the best for life, and for everyone to be so safe. I love you all, if you ever need a place to come or someone to talk to. You know that my family and I will always be here to talk with you. I love you so much, Thomas your still in my thoughts.

Kathy- I am so sorry for the loss of your precious child. What you are going through is a pain no mother ever wants to know. My heart aches for you and your dear family. I hope that you will take comfort knowing that Thomas is in a better place and that you will be with him again one day. God knows your pain and will help you through this very hard time. I will pray for you and your family every day. You are constantly in my thoughts. Please don't ever hesitate to call or stop by, anytime...

This is for the hardman family, As I knew your son to well, and then i moved away.. it made me cry for 16 hours straight to hear the loss of tommy.. this is for you but i did not write it:


To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just...

i remember you from elementary school, i doubt you would remember me. but rest in peace.<3

Thomas,
I never got to meet you, but I am your cousin. I am sorry that I wasn't there for you. I am sorry that I never had the pleasure of being in your company.
Under these tragic circumstances, I want to remind the immediate family that you will make it through this and I am only a phone call away if you need me.
You are all in my hearts.
With love always,

I really didnt know you but chrisy has told me alot of great things about you. Rest in Peace Tom.

Thomas we are really going to miss you coming around our house , you were a very nice young man. Peace to your family during this trying time and may you find peace as well.