Ruth Stroud Smith
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NEW BERN - Ruth Stroud Smith, 89, went home to be with her Lord on October 21, 2012.

She was a well-respected member of the Spring Garden Community and a member of Spring Garden Baptist Church where she faithfully attended and has a children's Sunday school class named in her honor. She held many positions and served on numerous committees over her years and although teaching children was her passion, she deeply enjoyed her senior adult class, prayer group and traveling with the seniors.

An avid outdoors lover, you could find her most days with a hoe or rake in her hand as she carefully tended her garden and yard, or pouring fresh water for the birds, squirrels and other animals who called her backyard home.

Cooking was one of her many talents and her family and friends will forever miss her homemade biscuits, collards and Italian cream cake. She displayed her love for others by cooking meals at every opportunity. Her kitchen table holds many memories of family, friends and neighborhood children.

She was truly the backbone of our family and deeply admired for her Christian faith and service. She loved everyone and those who were fortunate to know her, loved her as well.

She was preceded in death by her husband, Mark Smith and her son, Kenneth Mark Smith.

Surviving are her children, Margaret Smith Brown and husband Roger, and Violet Smith Pate, all of New Bern; six grandchildren, Sherry Wayne and husband Bruce, Roger Ray Brown II and wife Judy, Ellen Pate Corey and husband Scott, Larry Benjamin Pate III, Janet Pate Mannel and husband Mike, and Suzanne Walker; 15 great-grandchildren, Courtney Taylor and husband Wesley, Laura Peters and husband Joe, Bryan Wayne, Leann Brown, Tyler and Cameron Corey, Emma and Grace Pate , Petra Mannel, Jenna Walker, and Jalyn and Joshua Keel; and her great great-grandchildren, Alexis Brown, Milah Peters.

Family and friends will be received from 6-8 p.m. Tuesday, Oct. 23, 2012, at Cotten Funeral Home. Services will be held at 11 a.m. Wednesday, Oct. 24, 2012, at the funeral home, followed by burial at Spring Garden Baptist Church Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Ruth's memory may be made to Spring Garden Baptist Church Building Fund.

Online condolences may be made to the Smith family at www.cottenfunerahome.com.

Arrangements are by Cotten Funeral Home.




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Published in Sun Journal from Oct. 23 to Oct. 26, 2012.
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October 24, 2012
Margaret,

When reading the SJ Obits today, I was sadden to learn of your mothers death. I can feel your pain. My mother passed in March 2010. God has a plan and he knows how to comfort you in you time of sorrow. My prayers are with you and your family.
Bruce Carawon
October 23, 2012
Still have fond memories of you, Mark and Kenneth from back in the late 50's and early 60's when I lived and worked near your family at Spring Garden. Those were precious memories to be sure, I know a lot of folks will really miss you.May the Lord bless all your family.
George Wetherington
October 23, 2012
I am so sorry to hear about Mrs. Ruth. Our love and prayers are with you all.
Bobbie Wilcox
October 23, 2012
Dear family members: We are so sorry for your loss but encouraged by the fact that she is now well and happy and you can look forward to seeing her and being united forever in Heaven.
Doris and Dalton Murphy
October 23, 2012
From across the miles I join the entire Spring Garden Community in expression of symathy for the loss of such a wonderful lady. She was a true mother to all. I loved her so much. My prayers are with you and I am praying that you will have strength to go forward.
Bernice C. Robinson (Moreno Valley, California)
October 23, 2012
So sorry to hear about Ruth's death. Wish we could be with you! Our health will not allow us to travel any more! Love and Prayers, Buzzy & Pat
Buzzy Croom
October 23, 2012
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
James & Lori Gray
October 23, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with all of the family. She was so special, such a virtuous woman. She has certainly left a legacy for others to strive for, she fought a good fight and now has received her reward. We love everyone.
Wayne & Debbie Taylor
October 22, 2012
Margaret and Roger, Wesley called us tonight with the news about your mother. We are so sorry to hear this. Please know that you have been in our prayers daily and we wish we could be there with you during this difficult time. We love you both and all your family. Please give them all our love and sympathy.
Wayland & Lynn Cox
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