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Marianne Cooper Obituary

COOPER - Marianne V. 1938-2020. Always a fighter to help others, Marianne Cooper ultimately succumbed to COVID-19 one day after her 82nd birthday. She was born in Budapest, Hungary, to Laszlo and Elizabet Abonyi. Among her earliest memories were watching Jews lined up and shot into the Danube River, and trying to not cry from hunger while hiding with her family from the Nazis. She and her family then endured the brutal 1956 Soviet invasion of Hungary. With help from the Hebrew Immigrant Aid Society (HIAS,) she and her mother ultimately escaped to the United States and settled in Syracuse, where she graduated Cum Laude and Phi Beta Kappa, from Syracuse University, and they both became naturalized U.S. citizens. These events help explain Marianne's compulsion to help others trying to make it a better world.Marianne and her mother then moved to New York City, where she earned a Masters and later a Doctorate in Library Science from Columbia University. She also met the love of her life, graduate chemical engineering student Herbert Cooper. They married in 1961 and had 59 magical years together. In 1969, they and their two young daughters, Deborah and Evelyn, moved to Long Island where Marianne became a suburban Superwoman. She and Herbert raised their daughters jointly while she completed her doctoral dissertation, taught full-time at the Queens College Graduate School of Library and Information Studies, participated in local civic organizations, and consulted for several companies. She spent 36 mutually rewarding years at Queens College, most of them as an active teaching Associate Professor, and as a highly regarded innovative Department Chair during the challenging times for libraries and librarians caused by major advances in information technology. Later she served as the College's Affirmative Action Officer, successfully changing its focus to attracting a variety of candidates rather than setting specific quotas. Marianne retired in 2011. She and Herbert were then able to spend more time with their children, grandchildren, and many others. Condolence messages now show that she is already being missed enormously by those she had interacted with and had helped at crucial times and in ways that were important. She was and remains a remarkable role model. Donations in her memory may be made to HIAS, which has formally expanded its mission to protect and assist refugees of all faiths and ethnicities, and/or to another organization of your choice.

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Published by Newsday from Jun. 14 to Jun. 17, 2020.

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Paulette Kolchin

November 11, 2021

I started graduate school in Library Science at Queens College in my late 40s with trepidation about returning to school after so many years. I remember Dr. Cooper encouraging me in selecting my first course while addressing my concerns about my responsibilities to my family. She had a tremendous impact on my choice to become a school librarian. I strongly regret that I never let her know that her influence led to my now working almost 20 years in that field. I read the beautiful tribute that her husband wrote about Dr. Cooper's impressive life. She definitely helped many people and contributed much to improving this world. May her family find comfort in warm memories and in the knowledge that she is remembered with gratitude.

Miriam Laskin

October 28, 2020

I knew and loved Marianne Cooper, who I call Dr. Cooper because I was a graduate student in Queens College GSLIS from 1997 to 1999. She was my Independent Studies professor and she was a tremendous educator and person. It is very much part of her mentoring that I've been a happy academic librarian since 2001.I'm so sorry that she is no longer with us and that COVID19 claimed another much-loved human.

Sharon Russin

July 1, 2020

I first met Dr. Cooper In the fall of 1975. Yes. We are talking 45 years. It was my first semester in library school and her first term teaching. From that moment she was my friend and mentor. Every career change, I consulted with her. We kept in touch all through the years. She was at my wedding. I celebrated her Doctorate. She invited me to teach at library school. She sent me Library school interns. She was a great influence on my career. In more recent years, I enjoyed running into her in the local ShopRite.
My dear Marianne. We will miss you.

Frank McKenna

June 22, 2020

I offer my deepest condolences to Herb and all the family of Dr. Cooper. I also was welcomed to the Queens College GSLIS in the early 90's and Dr. Cooper's warmth and openness was an amazing gift. I had the pleasure to see her several times over the years and will always cherish the memories I have of her, as does my wife Donna who was a student of Dr. Cooper's. Thank you Dr. Cooper!!!!

Dr. David I. Orenstein

June 20, 2020

I deeply respected this intelligent and wonderful woman. She changed my life in the early 1990's, offering me placement in GSLIS. She and that degree program forever altered my future in every positive way possible. Although I have not see Dr. Cooper in years, I will always remember her support and the lifelong friends and colleagues I made throughout my past career as a Librarian and Library Director. While I've moved on from the field, I always use Dr. Cooper as an example of goodness in helping others achieve their goals and dreams.

Steven Sangesland

June 17, 2020

Dear Herb & Family,
Very sorry to hear about Marianne's passing. Having worked at Herb's engineering firm in the 1980's & 90's I grew to know Marianne and the girls quite well, the company was definitely a family operation. Marianne was always a compassionate, intelligent and caring person. She and Herb always maintained high standards and expectations in the company and I'll always think of her in the highest regard.
Steve Sangesland

CJ

June 14, 2020

I did not know her but I wish that I had. What a woman !!

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