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WIENER-Jeffrey L., at the age of 31, Hospital Corpsman Second Class USNR was killed in the line of duty serving our country, defending freedom, and securing the future of his little girls on May 7, 2005 in Al-Anbar Province, Iraq. Formerly of Lynbrook, NY. Jeffrey was a graduate of Lynbrook Senior High School. Beloved husband and best friend of Mariateresa. Devoted and loving father of Mikayla Lynn and Theadora Rose. Beloved son of Diana Lynn and Wayne Lee. Cherished brother of Wendi Lauren Roshangah and her husband Ace of Elizabeth, IN, Jessica Lyn Fust and her husband Jerry, of Louisville, KY, Sergeant USMC Joshua Lee Wiener of New York City, NY, Delayne Lindsay Oates and her husband William, of Louisville, KY, and David Lloyd Wiener of Louisville, KY. Adored uncle of Stephen, Jacob, Abigail, Zachary, Elijah, Wyatt, Caeleb, Joseph, Isabella and Daniel. Beloved son-in-law of Giuseppe and Rosa Barberio of Ridge, NY. Beloved brother-inlaw of Jerome Barberio and his wife Theresa of Woodstown, NJ, Franco Barberio and his wife Kimberley, of Levittown, NY, and Anthony Barberio of Ridge, NY. Jeffrey is also survived by many loving aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. Jeffrey devoted his life to helping others, volunteering in numerous community related organizations and departments. He was a former EMT for the County of Nassau, NY, earning the Red Cross Life Saving Award, the Jefferson County, KY EMS Squad, and the Patchogue, NY EMS Squad. Jeffrey was an ex-Captain of Tally-Ho Engine Company #3, Lynbrook Fire Department and an AMT-CC for the Lynbrook Medical Company #1. He was a certified CPR instructor working with several volunteer organizations including the Jefferson County Kentucky Explorers Program instructing teens in the field of EMS. Jeffrey served his country proudly earning the Purple Heart, the Navy and Marine Corps Achievement Medal, the Combat Action Ribbon, the Global War on Terrorism Expeditionary Medal, the Iraqi Campaign with FMF Combat Operations Insignia, the National Defense Medal, the Armed Forces Medal with M (For Mobilization), the Sea Service Deployment Ribbon and the Fleet Marine Force Warfare Designation. The family will receive friends on Saturday and Sunday, 2-4pm and 7-9pm, at the O.B. Davis Funeral Homes, 1001 Route 25A, Miller Place, LI. Services will be held at Calverton National Cemetery on Monday, May 16, 2005 at 10:30am. For those interested, memorial contributions may be made to Mariateresa Wiener, c/o Washington Mutual, P.O. Box 65, Yaphank, NY, 11980, Attn: Krisha E. Kurtz.

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Published in Newsday on May 13, 2005.
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May 11, 2015
Jeff, during the 10 year memorial ceremonies in SA and Austin, you were talked and spoken of with such passion and respect. Please know you will always be a KABAR 7 member in our Marine eyes. We will definitely keep your family in our hearts and memories. You are our hero.
Margy Marzano-Bons
May 6, 2015
You have been on my mind lately!! I can't believe its been 10 years. I remember when we got sworn in as NCPD AMT's on12/1/2000. You were a great friend and co worker. I remember us singing Bizmarkie and I even burned you a copy of the CD. You will always be with me. Until we meet again Brother!!

AMT Ernest Cook
Emergency Ambulance Bureau
Nassau County Police Department
Ernest Cook
May 4, 2015
Thinking of you today and everyday. ..this time of year is always hard. I miss you very much and wish you were still with us. Love you big Bro!
Delayne Oates
May 8, 2014
Thinking of you. P & C
cathy barrie
May 7, 2014
You and your family are always thought of.
Margy Marzano Bons…Mom of Sgt. Michael Marzano KIA 5/7/05 Hadithah, Iraq
May 6, 2014
I miss you and love you. I wish to god you were here. I am coming to see you tomorrow and spend time with you.I have so much i want to say. Miss you cuz. Love Michael & Francesca
April 25, 2014
Just wanted to say I miss you and I wish you where here to help me out. Love you! Your Cuz Francesca & Michael
November 11, 2013
I miss you so dame much. Love you and you are always in my heart. I miss our talks. always leading me in the right direction. I miss you. I miss always your cuz Francesca
Francesca Muscatelli
November 11, 2013
Happy Veterans Day Jerr. Thinking of you on this day of rememberance.
June 22, 2013
You'll never be forgotten Jeff! We will always love and miss you!!
Delayne Oates
June 21, 2013
I miss you uncle Jeffrey !!!!!

Elijah oates
June 21, 2013
I miss you uncle Jeffrey !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Elijah oates
May 9, 2013
A true hero, good friend, and great family man. You are missed. Your little girls sure are growing up and Maria are all beautiful...
Pete & Cathy Barrie
May 8, 2013
What you could have been, what you have been and what you are....a hero!!
Steve Liguori
May 8, 2013
Steve Liguori
May 7, 2013
I am so sorry I spelled Jeff's name wrong. I know it is Wiener but am in a fog today. Please accept my apologies.
Margy Marzano-Bons
May 7, 2013
Jeff, I feel as if I know you because you have been connected with my son for 8 years now. Please know you will never be forgotten. No one from that ambush will be forgotten. Graham, Cepeda, Weiner, Marzano,,,our heroes
Margy (Sgt. Marzano's mom) Marzano-Bons
May 7, 2013
Dear Jeff,
Today is so hard for me. I miss you so very much. I wish you where here I have so much I want to tell you. I know you are watching over me and Michael. We love you so much.
Francesca Muscatelli
November 19, 2012
In remembrance of Jeff Weiner. Thank you for your service & sacrifice to this country.
May 14, 2012
Never Forgetting PO3 Jeffery Wiener in this the anniversary month. God Bless your family.
S. Allen
May 8, 2012
May 7, 2012
To the family and friends of Petty Officer 3rd Class Jeffrey L. Wiener:
Always remembering Jeffrey. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
May 7, 2012
Thinking of you today and your girls always C & P
May 7, 2012
O;). Remembering you today.
Laurie Schaefer
October 14, 2011
Hi Jeff, I am going to our 20th HS reunion tomorrow and I am feeling bittersweet because I know I won't see you there. You were so special to me, you were my first love. Until we "reunite" again, RIP.
Laurie Schaefer
June 29, 2011

Words and prayers won't bring you back, but the memories of you will be forever shared. My poem for you is my tribute to you and what you have given to all of us. Rest in peace Brother!
Mike Turano
May 7, 2011
To the family and friends of Petty Officer 3rd Class Jeffrey L. Wiener:
Please accept my remembrance of Jeffrey on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
Peggy Childers
May 7, 2011
Jeff: There is not a day that we do not think about you. You are missed!!

Gerry & Colleen O'Brien
May 6, 2011
I find the words, "now we can get closure" so untrue, but as the other entry states, unless you, Aaron, Lance and my Michael can come home to hug us on Mother's Day, there is no closure. You are all my heroes. We will always remember 9/11 but the four of us that received the knock on the door on Mother's Dauy will be personally tied to the pain I now associate with Mother's day.
Margy...Michael's mom
Sgt. Michael Marzano's mom
May 2, 2011
Bin Laden is dead! Can you come back now =(
May 2, 2011
Thank you, we will never forget

Love C&P
cathy & pete barrie
May 31, 2010
Never to be forgotten an American Hero. Thank You.
S. Allen
May 8, 2010
My message didn't take yesterday so I wanted to say again..

Mofo you and your wonderful family enhanced and changed my life forever. You were my "brother" and you trusted me. It made me proud to be introduced as your "sister". I have missed you so much. I can't believe it's been 5 years.

Forever I will love and miss you
Jennifer Williams (formerly Ciaramella)
May 7, 2010
Jeff, I never knew you, but someone I know did. He forwarded me this link. I thank you and the rest of the men and women of the US Military for defending our freedoms.
Eric Okabayashi
May 7, 2010
To the family and friends of Petty Officer 3rd Class Jeffrey L. Wiener:
Remembering Jeffrey on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
Peggy Childers
May 7, 2010
I never knew you, but being the mom of Sgt. Michael Marzano, I feel connected. Know that you are not forgotten. When I talk of the ambush, I always speak of the four of you as a group. You are all my heroes.
Your sacrifice for my freedom came at a heavy cost and please know I appreciate that cost. It is a high price to pay to don the uniform for a country. Job well done.
Margy Marzano-Bons
May 7, 2010
I can't believe that five years have already passed. It seems like just yesterday you were here. I miss you more than anything and wish that you were here with us. Memories are all we have now to pass on. My boys will always know who Uncle Jeff is. You are our Hero always and forever. I love you!
Your sister,
May 7, 2010
Remembering you always, with love to you and your Girls.
C & P Barrie
May 5, 2010
It's been 5 years and i still remember our last conversation as if it was yesterday! It was early in the morning, a Saturday, you tried calling Maria but she was at the Gym!! Good thing because i had the longest conversation with you that morning and i will never forget it! I am always thinking about you! I love and miss you so very much!
November 19, 2009
Love to you and the girls from C & P in Oklahoma
Cathy Barrie
November 17, 2009
Dear Jeff,

I know I can talk to you because your always there for my brother mike ciaramella. I am asking you to pray for a miracle for his son aidan(6yr old rotti) who just was diagnosed with cancer. He needs your help soo much right now because he is in so much pain. He has lost so many important things in his life and one of them was you. This would just drive him over the edge.

He always talks about you all the time and wishes he can stop by to see you and chat , but knows someday he will be able too. He loves and misses you so much .

Thankyou Jeff for your prayer .

We love and miss you

Love natalie malik (ciaramella)
Levittown, ny
June 1, 2009
Thanks for serving. RIP :(
mindy abraham
May 26, 2009
hey jeffrey today is your birthday you have been on my mind a lot this weekend yesterday i want to vist the stone they put in lynbrook for you. i miss you very much. i want to tell you your cousin justin is going be a father in july. i know you will be watchinhg over him when is born.yes its a little boy. i love you and miss you very much.
barbara galligan
May 7, 2009
To the family of Jeff. I am Michael's mom who was also lost in that same ambush. I know this time of year is so painful. Like you, I lost my Heavenly Hero on the 7th, told on the 8th which was, at that time, Mother's Day. It seems as if we have to walk this nightmare for almost a week every anniversary. I am sorry for your loss and wanted you to know, I was thinking of you and the other 2 Gold Star families that we are tied to, on this 4th anniversary.
Sgt. Michael Marzano's PMM mom
Margy Bons
May 7, 2009
Thinking and praying for you on the 4th anniversary of your passing into eternal glory. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends", John 15:13.
Michael Iezzi
May 7, 2009
Working as a AMT with Nassau County Police EAB
May 7, 2009
To the family of Petty Officer 3rd Class Jeffrey L. Wiener:
Jeffrey gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
Peggy Childers
May 6, 2009
Well Brother 4 yrs ago tomm. Think about you all the time. I'll have a cold one for you. Wish we could all forget about that night. Miss ya. RIP
March 16, 2009
Hi Jeff,
I miss you and love you so much. you are on my mind every day..I wish u where here...Love you lots.
francesca m
November 30, 2008
Hey Jeff, Happy Thanksgiving. I love you so much and I am sorry I havent written to you. You are always in my heart and I miss you so much. I love ya I love ya...............xoxxoxoxoxoxo
November 6, 2008
Jeff fighting a fire with Tall-Ho Engine Co #3 Lynbrook
Jeff, RIP Tallyho misses you.
October 22, 2008
Forever in our hearts, you will always be our ray of sunshine, all the
times we spent hanging out and having great times, will never be forgotten. We pray for you and your family every day. You are truly
our hero forever.
The Late Night Gang
July 4, 2008
Hey Jeff,

Just wanted to wish you a Happy 4th. I miss you so much. You are always on my mind and always in my heart. There are so many things I need to tell you and I know you would just love to hear. Please look over me. Jeff I love you with all my heart.
Francesca Muscatelli
June 17, 2008

June 2, 2008
Hi Jeff. I wanted to say Happy Belated Birthday... I know it is a little late but better late then never. I think about you a lot, I have some friends in Iraq and I hope they are as brave as you.
Your Cousin Amanda

Aunt Barbara says she Loves You!
Amanda Kramer
May 26, 2008
Happy Birthday jeff. love aunt Barbara
May 21, 2008
Happy Birthday. Missing you and remembering your smiling face...
Love c&p
C&P Barrie
May 9, 2008
The 3 years has come and gone since you, Cepeda, Graham and my son, Michael were all taken from this earth. I dread May 7th, and 8th as it was Mother's Day when the Marines knocked on my door and I dread every Mother's Day in the future. I did not know you, but have heard wonderful stories of you. I hope you all are looking down on us that are left behind to miss you. Know that you are missed and loved.
Semper Fi, Sgt. Michael Marzano's Mom who also gave the ultimate sacrifice on that fateful day 5/7/07
Margy Bons
May 7, 2008
Safely Home
Thinking and praying for you on the 3rd anniversary of your passing into eternal glory. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends", John 15:13.
Michael Iezzi
May 7, 2008
Hi Jeff,
Today is 3 years that you have been taken from us. I think about you every day and I love you more and more as the days go by. I wish you where here so that I can just get advice from you. I miss that so much. Whenever I needed to talk to someone you where always there. I miss that so much. I know that one day we will meet again but theres always a but I still can not accept why god did what he did. I love you cuz more than ever and I will never ever forget you. No one can ever ever replace you. I love you with all my heart.
Francesca Muscatelli
May 7, 2008
In Memory of Jeffrey ~ ( Debra Estep )
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.

The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”

I did not know Jeffrey, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008

Visit this link to hear the song.

The Other Side –


Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL

Remembering The Fallen – Blog

Please contact me and I will email you back a copy of my
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
March 31, 2008
hey jeffrey is your aunt barbara. i have been think about you a lot. do you know that mike is going to have a little girl in may. you need to watch ove her like your doing with little michael. miss you so much. it's going to be 3 years you were taken away from us. and also your bithday is coming up to your 35 th birhday you had a short life with us. i love you very much.always in my heart for always and for ever. miss you
barbara galligan
December 11, 2007
Hi Jeff,

I wish you where here. I need you so much. I love you cuz. Please send me a sign and tell me that I will be okay and that you are going to help me.
Francesca Muscatelli
November 22, 2007
Happy Thanksgiving. I miss you with all my heart. I am so thankful and honored that you are my cousin. I wish you where here so that I could tell you face to face. I wish you where here to take care of my cousin and the girls, I wish you where here so that I could talk to you and listen to what you have to say. I have good days and bad days. I just miss you so much. I love you with all my heart and you are always on my mind. You must be so proud of Maria. She has come such a long way and she has become so strong. I give her so much credit. Thank you for looking over her. Always remember that you are missed so much. I love you Jeff.
October 10, 2007
Hey Jeff,

I just wanted to tell you that I miss you and Love you with all my heart. I wish you where here. You are forever in my heart. I love you.Your cousin Francesca
Francesca Muscatelli
August 14, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.


Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 25, 2007
Dear Jeff,
Boy, do i miss you! I think back to all the time and conversations we shared and i know you of all people would be the most excited that our wedding is finally here. I could picture you and Justin hanging out together and celebrating his last few nights of being a bachelor! I have to thank you for being such a huge part of both of our lives, i don't even know if you ever realized what an impact you truly had and still have on the both of us. Even though you physically won't be present i know you will be beside the both of us on Friday! I love you and miss you with all my heart,
July 24, 2007
HI Jeff,
It's been awhile since I spoke to you. I just wanted to tell u that I miss u very much. My Sister is getting married this friday and I know you will be there in Spirit. Just wish things could be different. I just dont understand why it had to be you. My cousin needs you. She is such a strong person its amazing. You would be so proud of her. Jeff please look over all of us and always remember that I miss you and Love you with all my heart.
Francesca muscatelli
June 11, 2007
As I worked on the 109th birthday celebration Of the Hospital Corps (June 17 2007). I was strongly moved when I saw that we lost one of my brother corpsmen from my hometown of Louisville, Ky. Even though I was surounded by co-workers; and having never met this shipmate before I could not hold back the tears. 27 Corpsmen have made the ultimate sacrifice in this war. To them all I just wanna say i've got the watch shipmates. While your families sleep, and hopefully find a peaceful rest i'll stand the watch. Even if it means that I have to pass on the watch to the next generation of heroes. To all of my family and friends in Louisville, KY; remember my BROTHER Jeff he gave all for his family, his country and his GOD. He stood the watch.
Fair winds and following seas brother.

Keith L. Coleman Northern
Keith Coleman Northern
May 28, 2007
Uncle Jeff,
We miss you everyday. Thank you for being our hero. We will always be thankful for keeping us safe and we will never forget you.
Love Joseph, Theresa, and Jerome
The Barberios
May 8, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
Michael Iezzi
May 7, 2007
hi jeff it's your aunt barbara. you have been on my mind for weeks i know its two years today that they took you away from us. you will aways be in my heart. i know that your watching over all of us. i wish that you were not taken from will always be that special little boy in my heart that i love very much forever. love aunt barbara
aunt barbara galligan
May 6, 2007
Please know how deeply sorry I was to learn of the loss of Petty Officer 3rd Class Jeffrey L. Wiener.
A Multitude of Thanks, for this Brave Young Hero's Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.
Those who Made this Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall Never Be Forgotten, my brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.

"Greater love hath no man than this, that he lay down his life for his friends." - John 15:13

May the Peace of God and the memories of Jeffrey, remain in your heart always.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Garnet Jenkins
April 12, 2007
Well, Jeffrey here I am again thinking about you and I've never met you. I think of you so much and hope that your wife and daughters are doing ok. I know your Aunt Judy had them down for awhile. The war seems to be going on for so long. I want you to know how very much I thank you for the sacrifice you made. What you did makes a difference to this world. It makes a difference to me. I am free because of you. Thank-you. I don't know why I feel such an attachment to you. You and my son MUST be friends or something. When I think of him.....I think of you. Thank you Jeffrey for all you did for me and the country. Your friend, Patti Stromberg
Patti Stromberg
March 30, 2007
I think of you so often, with a smile and a tear.
love you always,
your cousin liz
March 22, 2007
It's been almost 2 years and everything from that day is still fresh in my mind. Everyone's world changed the day you were taken from us. Mine in ways I never would have expected. I know that you are still very much with us. You are way to stubborn to have moved on. It makes me so angry to hear people bashing the war. I know that it would have driven you nuts. I believe everyone has the right to agree or disagree with war, but no one should EVER forget the men and woman who gave some and those who gave it all. I now live in an area that is overflowing with military. I still haven't walked up to a soldier and thanked them, but it's coming. You are one of my best friends. Thank you for giving me the honor of knowing you. I miss you MoFo.
Jennifer Ciaramella
March 14, 2007
Jeffrey, You don't know me but I want to thank-you for giving your life for my freedom. My heart goes out to your family and friends. I know you are in heaven now with my son who died 3 years ago yesterday. Maybe you will meet him. I know neither of you have any pain or any worries. Only those of us who are left behind do. I wish you could have lived out your life to an old age, but
God already has plans for each one of us. I have to believe that because my son was the same age as you. There won't be a day that goes by without your family thinking of you, but I know you are both looking down at us whenever we do. Thank-you Jeffrey Patti From Florida
Patricia Stromberg
March 13, 2007
Jeffrey, thank you for what you stood for in life and know that you are a hero in my eyes. To the parents and other loved ones of Jeffrey Wiener, my heart aches for your lost and may your heart be able to soon be filled not with miersy and pain, but very soon with memories of good fun times with your loved one. Missing him will never go away, but memories will take the place of the pain. God Bless Jeffrey and God Bless you.
Dianna Haines
March 12, 2007
Father we entrust our brother Jeffrey to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Jeffrey in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathy.
Michael Iezzi
March 12, 2007
It is with the deepest sadness that I ask the family and friends of HM-3 Jeffery L. Wiener to accept the offer of my most sincere and heart felt condolences. I hope that you know that your loss is shared by millions of Americans. Many of whom you don’t know and in all probability will never meet. We sincerely appreciate the sacrifices of your patriot.

Freedom is not free. It is paid for by our heroes.

I know the pain parents feel when they loose a child. I lost a son 19 years ago. It is a pain that defies description. It is a pain that never goes away. It is a pain that will never end. It is a pain that is all consuming. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. May God Bless and keep you today, tomorrow and forever!

Thank you “Doc”

Semper Fidelis
March 11, 2007
Think of you everyday and all those ambulance calls.
March 11, 2007
Honoring you forever!
lynn whitten
March 10, 2007
Fair winds and following seas shipmate.
Henryk Zaleski (CWO4,SC,USN-Ret)
March 10, 2007
To the family and friends of Petty Officer 3rd Cl Jeffrey L. Wiener:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
March 10, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Wiener family in the loss of Jeffrey. I did not know Jeffrey, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Jeffrey in May it will be 2 years since you were taken. Please know that you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace

"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
March 9, 2007
I would like to say I know just how you feel. My son Spc. Timothy "Adam" Fulkerson was killed in Iraq on Oct.7th,2006, USA time.He was only 20 yrs of age. My life has change forever. It is so hard every 7th of each month. He also died on the full moon so its not easy either. God bless you and your family.
Tammy Brown
March 9, 2007
March 6, 2007
hi jeff it's your aunt barbara. i was think about you today im always think about you. you for ever in my heart. mike's little boy turn one last month. his handsome and very sweet little boy . iwish you could see him you would fall in love with him.but we know your watching over him. we miss you very much.i love you with all my heart. love aunt barbara
barbara galligan
March 5, 2007
Jeff was my corpsman, I was with him on the 7th. I only had the priviledge of knowing him for a short time over there, but at war, minutes are spent like decades. This man was someone that I learned quickly was safe to look up to. Jeff was more of a marine than most every marine I ever encountered.

I had a dream about Doc last night, and I feel honored to get these rare moments with him even if they are only in my head.
Stanley Mayer
February 12, 2007
hey Jeff,
I just wanted to say hi, and let you know we're still thinking about you.I'm sure you know but we have a new baby girl now,and i just really wish you were here to see her. And i know you would have liked to meet caeleb too, he's definetly your kind of kid. you are in our thoughts, we love ya!
your little sister,Delayne
January 31, 2007
Hi Jeff,
Just wanted to say that I miss you so much every day. I wish everyday that you where here. I know that you are looking over Maria. I love you always and forever.
Francesca Muscatelli
January 14, 2007
Always in our thoughts
C & P
January 8, 2007
Hi Jeff,
I just wanted to say that I miss you more than ever. this is just not fair. Why you. I love you cuz. You are my hero.
Love always and forever your cousin
Francesca n Michael
Francesca Muscatelli
January 6, 2007
We're still with you Jeff
Bruce Malesk
December 29, 2006


December 18, 2006
hi jeff. well its that time of the year again.were all the family get's together for the hoildays. you will be very much missed.I think about you all the time.I look at your pictures all the time i miss you so much.i wish you could see mike's son michael jeffrey such a beautiful baby. but were all know that you are watching over him as he grows. he looks just like mike.were all miss you so will always be special to me.I love you. aunt barbara
barbara galligan
December 16, 2006
I haven't looked at this guest book in a long time. wonderfull that people are still coming on here and leaving messages. a testament to how much you are loved and missed. David is over there now. I know you are watching over him, as you watch over all you loved. I think about you and miss you every day and i know you will continue to love and protect us all. Proud to be your cousin.
October 4, 2006
Hey Jeff, I just want to say that I miss you so much. I love you cuz. Michael talks about you all the time. I miss our talks. I wish to god you where here. I miss you I miss you I miss you. ALways and forever Fran
francesca Muscatelli
September 11, 2006
You are in my thoughts and heart every day. Miss you!
August 23, 2006
I just wanted to tell you how much I miss you. I am sitting here at work looking at your picture and wishing that you where here. I miss those talks that we use to have. I love you cuz more than ever. Love alway your cuz Francesca Muscatelli
August 8, 2006

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